? I was not necessarily cheering anything on but made a reflection on PULL rules. The reason why I thought it would have been better to contact her was because, if you actually see this thread, the guy is a child predator. He raped multiple women, sexually harassed and assaulted them etc. I'm pretty sure that if somebody I was involved with did shit like that, I'd want to know. I would have thought that the PULL users would have contacted her via PM? I don't know whether it was that or the comment section. Not sure whether I can actually trust what is said here, however. The things said on this thread do not reflect any of her own behaviour so I do not see how this could actually affect her performance. If it did, I'm sorry. Regardless, there is nothing negative about her but the person that she is involved with and likelihood is that she did not know that Jeffrey is a rapist and paedophile. As much as this could be real, I cannot help but doubt the authenticity of your claims (such as the potential of it being something posted by Sayson so that we leave his case alone and stop "ruining" his life though he ruined the lives of many underage girls). But I suppose I can't judge much.
Tbh I hope she gets the same camera that Yuri Fujimaki had and that she would go back to her nu goth phase. Yeah, it was sho0pped to the hell and back but it was really visually appealing. If she actually said she used photoshop and claimed her photography as a form of art I think it would fly.
Pathetic how you can't even see how you did anything wrong. How about this: amusing how you keep pestering the close ones to a girl who committed suicide and post the invasive information online for all to see like it's some sort of grand prize. Don't you not have anything better to do with your life? Also, you did use your insta to create useless drama by creating this entire situation to start with. You are not a victim, you are the perpetrator, however once you got backlash for it suddenly you're innocent. You're not. You did gossip about a situation that is painful, traumatising. What you did was simply disgusting. PULL is a site that exposes the wrongdoings of online personalities. Gossip forums exist, however it is not necessarily a bad thing. You're no better yourself. However. You appear to be a very prideful person, so much so that you are simply incapable of owning up to your mistakes. Sure, it's difficult. However the people close to Nhi deserve an apology and the fans also deserve an apology from you for creating false hope. Hope you're happy with yourself. Playing the victim must be so fun to use as a defense mechanism.
sol.aaaaa: >makes a huge post asking people to stop criticising her though she fucked up >makes an insta story trying to insult PULL users thinking it'd make us seem like we are overreacting
So does she want to resolve this situation or...? Because it seems to me that she loves feeding the fire. The world doesn't orbit around you, sol. Let Nhi rest in peace. You are only showing your followers how much you hurt the people close to Nhi. Most of the things people said isn't even "hate", it is just a criticism and actions as controversial as yours are going to be criticised. Should have thought about it before running off with your unconfirmed gossip like a child to gather likes on your post. Using somebody's death as a way to gain likes is disgusting, so please stop justifying it and instead just own up to it at the very least instead of throwing a tantrum on IG.
She is actually a fucking idiot. She misread the Wikipedia page on hair ice. It is ice. It is a theory that fungi act as a catalyst for its creation, but hair ice is not a fungus but literally ice. Maybe she doesn't know what the word catalyst means? I would have assumed she would have remembered from either Biology or Chemistry classes but it's Sarah we are talking about. Sad.
First of all: it was not "for no reason". The reason people were angry at you was because you were trying to force out answers from people close to Nhi, who were already in mourning. You said that the fans pretty much deserved to know like you were entitled to that knowledge and as if the people close to her had an obligation to answer your invasive questions while they were mourning the death of a dear friend. What you did was heartless and cruel, whether it was your intention or not. Your mental state is sad, sure. But that never can justify hurting other people for your own benefit. You made it as if Nhi was still alive, causing confusion before knowing anything for sure by invading the privacy of the people close to Nhi. What you did caused them more pain and suffering with people constantly asking them questions whether or not she is alive or dead, further opening their fresh wound. Instead of sympathy for their loss, they got "she's not dead" forcing them to explain that Nhi's death was very real and very painful. So no. People's dislike towards your actions was not "for no reason".
Secondly, "unpopular opinions"? How is claiming that somebody who died is alive an unpopular opinion? So my grandfather is dead, but in your opinion he is still alive? It doesn't work like that. Nhi took her own life. You can't have an opinion on whether she is actually alive or not. So fact. Not opinion. Why you got hate was because you spread misinformation about a situation you were not involved in at all as if it were fact. Causing unnecessary distress to people close to Nhi. Can her death trigger people? Sure. However neither Nhi nor the people close to her are under the obligation to disclose any information to the fans to alleviate their pain. They are hurting themselves. It was Nhi's choice to take her life but she is not responsible for the mental health of others. If you do feel suicidal the best choice is to get help and not rely on people whose mental health is so unstable themselves. You did not do what you did out of the goodness of your heart. If that was so you would not have pressured Nhi's close ones to telling you things about her. You wouldn't make them feel the way you did. Pressured to answer questions instead of mourning themselves.
Do I feel empathy towards you? Sure I do, but that's also why I am able to criticise your actions. You fucked up, but you can't just push away people's criticism by trying to gain sympathy. The world is cruel, what you did was cruel and hurt many people too. You will have to move on from this eventually, maybe take a break from internet if the criticism is getting too intense, I don't know. The saddest thing is that you don't actually see that what you did as wrong. All you do is justify it in one way or another. The best course of action would be to apologise for causing unnecessary pain. People are not obliged to forgive you, however they deserve an apology regardless. May Nhi rest in peace.
At uni, anatomy is a rather difficult part of my course. It is just that it lacks any real logic behind it, it's literally just learning what does what but doesn't actually require any extra thinking which is what I prefer. I mean, it is interesting in its own way but the lecturers move on with it so fast that it is quite impossible to make notes in time. I hope it will get better eventually but only time can tell.
Uncertain, because the rule in itself does not specify whether there are exceptions and so I assume that disobeying the rule in special circumstances is something to be discussed with mods. I would like the rule to be elaborated upon to encompass circumstances such as this one and whether it is okay to contact friends/family of the topic subject or not in those situations. I would assume that it would be okay to inform her since this man is a possible danger to her own safety. Regardless, I tagged Nyx in my previous post just in case.
From PULL rules: PULL can't control what you do outside of the forum and personally I do think that his girlfriend should know that he is a child predator, but all decisions are ultimately up to @Nyx regarding forum rules. I do wonder if his girlfriend knows of his past. I suppose it is rather uncommon to actually google loved ones (I don't think I ever googled my boyfriend) but the information is rather easy to find I assume. Regardless, I feel sorry for the girl. That man is potentially a danger to this girl (all those rape accusations) which is pretty scary.
Her videos are still on niconico. She's a gross human being and I don't get it about people saying she's pretty. Her being Nazi scum immediately makes her ugly. It irks me when people like her use Christianity to justify their bs. If you actually read the bible and look at what Jesus said he was a pacifist and I doubt that he would support mass human extermination due to perceived threat. That woman is a fucking idiot. What country did this scum import itself into Japan from?
If someone considers themselves genderless or gender fluid, that's okay by me. Not my life, not my business. I don't have a clue how they feel inside, but I can imagine it feels like shit when you actually can't fully identify with either gender but people deny you the right to an identity with which you'd feel most comfortable. People can believe that "there are only two genders", however do keep in mind that not everybody sees the world in the same way as yourself and gender identity is not as black and white as you may think. Perhaps you don't "believe" that there are more than two genders, whatever - however that does not mean that the feelings carried by a gender fluid individual are any less real to them. It is good to respect somebody's choice and being respectful towards it without necessarily agreeing with it. For instance, I have some members of my family that are homophobic but they also understand that they don't see the world in the same way as gay people, however since gays are not doing them any harm, why not respect their decision? I'm not saying that homophobia is right - it isn't, and I disagree with it since I'm bisexual myself - however it is possible to disagree with something but show tolerance as it is not harming anybody.