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Anyone likes watching Currently Hannah? Shes a 20 something Australian girl, and worked as a character at theme parks in Japan. Her bf is also Japanese(handsome too xD) Her content hasn't always been Japan exclusive, but she lives there again as of now.
For unexpected vet bills or anything bills really, it's always reasonable to be a few steps ahead of these situations. You just have to set aside a little bit of money every month. Imagine both mimei and Duncan setting aside...I'm going at the very low end... 20 dollars a month. That would come to a total of 480 dollars per year. Like what ..hiw old are these people that they dont have any savings for these kind of things.(or set up a plan) It's not like both are ACTUALLY struggling or making very little money. They could both miss atleast 20 dollars a month.
That lightning and those faces are the worst to judge someone by though :'D I always thought Sharla looked super young and pretty a few years ago, she gave me a Samantha Munro vibe. In her unedited face I dont see this anymore and instead I see a vague Jennifer Aniston resemblence for some reason. Shes just really good with angles/lightning, my mind still cant get used to her real face as I'm so used to the angles of her own older vids. I wanted to say wow she really aged quick! But it's just that it doesnt look like the face I was once used to. I kinda had a strong vibe that the photographer preferred shooting Taylor, he seemed a lot more friendlier/bubblier towards her. Calling her kawaii too they both still look young, but let's not forget they are young adults still. I'm more curious to see them in their 40s when youth has faded, I hope Taylor chills with the fillers , esp on the cheeks....she really doesnt need them anyway.
I'm under 30, but the vast majority of users here seem to be 20+ year old adults...thankfully. I've been on websites where the vast majority of users are under 18 or over 45. You instantly feel off/not at place imo. I feel most at home at the young but not too young atmosphere of 24 to 36 age range.
Sad rant: one of my cats is going to be 16 in a few months. Had him since he was a baby hes basically a sibling to me. And I can tell hes getting old. He sleeps more, hes not as jumpy as when he was younger. I'm soooooooooo scared hes gonna die this year. Ofc I hope hes going to live atleast a few more years but with his age I worry so much about him.
Meh, I have had Japanese nationals in my life too, dated one briefly too. and overall the average Japanese man varies very little from western men in my experience. In terms of what they want in a woman/relationship I mean, most want a fun loving woman around their own age who they find physically attractive, bonus if common interests. In my experience The average adult Japanese man prefers Satomi Ishihara over a 16 year old akb48 member. And what you say about the 38 year old, well that pretty much applies to western society too. I'm not denying the obsession with youth society has. But I have never experienced guys being like this no matter their nationality. That is MY experience. So yeah, Imo it is a incel mentality. Cause the western incels talk about "tight 18 year old pussies" as well and write women 24 and up off. They all have a pattern. I've had family members pursuing higher education at older ages. Yes it was hard, probably harder cause they have more to do than the average 18 year old. But college is hard at any age. But I dont want to derail this any further. I disagree with you, you disagree with me! Thats Fine!
I mean in her defense the Christmas cake thing has always been(even in the olden days) a incel way of thinking to begin with. I'm not saying japan doesn't have any of these issues anymore though, but it is mostly a way of thinking incel type guys have, and we have them in the west too. It is far from the way of thinking of the average Japanese man. Very few Japanese women these days get married at 19 to 23 anyway. I don't think marriage or even education should be her priority at this point, cause it's like completely useless to go to university if your mental health is poop. She should work on herself first. You do not have to go to school or get education "while you're still young" theres even people in their 50s going back to school. I think just working anywhere should be good. I think setting yourself a specific age where you have to have everything together is a pretty unhealthy way of thinking anyway. She talks very naive. It's like 13 year olds who think by age 18 they have bought their own house, car and drivers licence(we do not drive at 16 here). You dont have to have everything together at 25 or 30 either. But at the way she's going, I wouldn't be surprised if she will go in a circle for the rest of her life due to complete absence of personality growth in her 20s.
Honestly hate it when people shit on valentines day or people who celebrate it. I dont celebrate it either but mostly it comes across as bitter singles who are jealous of not having someone to celebrate it with(esp in Americans case) also valentines day is an ancient holiday that's been celebrated and originated in Europe many centuries ago. It's not a "made up holiday by the greeting card company". Also people who whine about holidays being all superficial...you chose how to celebrate it you know. Like we never did presents with christmas. And we dont make Easter about binge drinking, you chose whether you make it special or "superficial" yourself.
It should be more socially acceptable/less of a taboo to criticise your partners looks. We cant deny that to the vast majority of us looks matter in a relationship. And if your partner starts gaining/losing weight in unhealthy amounts, starts walking around/dressing like a slob out of nowhere, or anything that's in their control, and you start to become less and less attracted to them to where it becomes an issue, I think you should be able to bring it up to your partner.
I was a massive Taylor swift fan during her country pop era. Her old perfume is still one of my favourites tbh. I fell out of love with her after she went into a different direction musical wise but still listen to the old songs. I watched miss Americana yesterday, and I still feel sad whenever I see the kanye west moment at the MTV awards. I guess that means I still have a soft spot for her but I could almost feel the humiliation watching it what an asshole but I also think she is very shady and two faced in many ways. I def think shes a bit of a snow flake 🤔
Wow, honestly...The hate for women is so real on reddit lmfao. The guys there think they are so oppressed in western society, and western women have a life a billion times better and get everything handed to them, solely because society cuddles them for having a clitoris. It honestly shows how detached these men are from the real world and live too much on social media. Saw some guy saying women with mental illness do not have it as hard as men because guys think it's cute when girls have "quirks" and theyd still have sex regardless of their mental health.......w.t.f
what I have always noticed is that somehow a lot of girls that were/are a loner, mentally unstable/troubled, or the "losers/emos/goths in high/middle school" are attracted to Japan and Japanese culture. No idea why there seems to be a certain pattern regarding this, Not offending anyone btw I 'm talking about myself here too it's not everyone of course, but I've seen this pattern both of and online myself as well.
not trtrying to defend her, but for some people the dermaroller actually IS a miracle worker. I have had issues with hairloss due to many factor, and derma rolling really helped me regrow a ton of hair I havent seen in years. I hope more people learn about it tbh.
so much for 2! This also goes for people who are on benefits or anything else. It fucking annoys me how people think those people aren't allowed to have nice things or do fun stuff. My sister is on benefits because of her mental health issues she had since she was 10, And she told some people she was going on a 1 month trip to Russia end of 2020, which has been her fav country since forever and she speaks Russian too. She saved up fucking 9 years for that trip by putting some money aside every month. and some people we know now say she isnt really sick and abusing the system and being entitled. Like fuck what? Honestly even if someone is on benefits, what should people do with their life instead? or people with low income? Just be miserable their whole life not being allowed to ever have any fun? worst thing being my sister now actually feels guilty too. Sorry for blogpost🤐🤐
I guess you're right! She was probably to scared to throw herself into the deep. I guess it would mean getting out of your shell completely. It also wouldve helped her Japanese greatly if she did. Maybe after Hiroshima she realised how difficult it would be without Japanese to get by and of course putting effort into it was too much for her. She really wasted the oppurtunity not diving in the deep and go that way. Taking risks are good for personal growth and reflection.