We've heard you loud and clear - negative reputation is back. Remember that it's still against the rules to complain about being downvoted - if you think someone's mass-downvoting posts or otherwise abusing the reputation system, DM a mod and we will take care of it.
If I may be so bold: it was to save her own ass. She is not the most reputable person. Especially when it comes to talking with her own moderation team. The ones here were left in the dark of what is going on but with what is happening it doesn't take much to put two and two together. Nyx also does want to give up the website but no one meets the impossible standards for it. With it the software for the forum is intensely out of date the main example being: deleting a post can fuck up the website. Honestly with that being a glaring issue amongst other things who would want to take over this place we need to start fresh.
in the discord there is a bot that tracks when the site is up and the bill is due. Right after the server bill is due the site tends to go down for 2-3 days or longer. That is why. This is not a host issue.
I was just talking about supporting their life choices that hurt 0 other people calm down holy fucking shit. As for sex work there is a lot more then those you see working as prostitutes on the streets (coming from a former sex worker in those regards.)
If you are going to support women support all women and their choices. Yes that also includes those who are polyam or work as sex workers. Also learn that not everyone is going to live the same as you and need to find their own happiness