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Nobody said you were shaming anyone, just that the logic is flawed and such an assumption as the first guess makes little to no sense. None of us here knows the real situation in her wallet, but pretty much everyone can guess that buying a pack of rice is cheaper and more filling (healthy meal doesn't mean it has to be expensive). Her energy drinks would just offer her a roller-coaster of sugar highs ands crashes. I hope that if the situation is as you're assuming that the energy drinks at least aren't filled with tons of citric acid as are the ones around here.
IMHO, Calling it ganging up is way overblown and more like trying to create a hugbox here than whatever has been said before Back on topic: I think Venus looks a lot better when not trying to make herself more Asian, yet at the same time the resemblance to Margo is more noticeable, so I kinda get her trying to erase it. (isn't this pic really old?)
Guys, we all process loss and grief in different ways. We all show or hide our emotions based on tons of different factors including how common/accepted it was in our families. It's way more self absorbed not understanding that, than it is to not cry for your pets as an adult. We all mourn as we see fit and our attitude towards death is one of the most personal things that there is.