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people who act like people who are undiagnosed can't have serious problems simply because they arent able to get help are annoying as fuck. anyone with two brain cells should be able to put together that people don't choose to be undiagnosed (this is coming from someone who had to wait until i moved out to see a psychiatrist) and that's not saying that everyone who slaps the depression/ocd/adhd label on themselves is right, and there are a lot of people that don't have those illnesses, i just think it's just toxic to undermine someone else's struggles because they don't have papers.
i hate this new wave of people taking fictional characters that were meant to be critiques of japan's gender roles and claiming they're trans because they pretend to be the other gender. and people calling others transphobic on twitter because they called an animated crossdresser cis. it's like they missed the entire point of the character, and even if they were trans, it's so silly to get pressed about lol