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Where are we gonna find people that can put up with Yumi tho

 

Weeaboos. They're so desperate for human contact they'll take any girl, as long as she's Asian. Maybe if you catch one in the early stages they'll still be friendly enough...

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The Splenda Daddy name is priceless.

I am afraid things may be worse than we assume. Looking at the pictures and all you posted so far I get a weird vibe emanating from them as a couple. it would explain her demotiviation, lack of self-esteem and all the rest. She has the face of someone who is in na abusive relationship ( reminds me of the Dynamics between Pornstars and/ people in the sex industry who dated their partners and the partners got them into some  messed up life . I'm not saying that's what they do, but the looks of her when they are together are those of a frightened person, submissive and dependent,  I don't like her overall persona, but I think she may be victim of Domestic Violence or at the very least some form of abusive relationship.

As some of you said before ( also a symptom of abusive partners) he tries to control her weight ( now I understand why she appears to be anorxic...he makes her loose weight), atire.... and maybe even makes her talk with an accent. This is more serious than I expected.

When I first watched her I thought she looked like someone who grew in a violent environment or was raped, now after Reading this and seeing the Pics /vídeos, it's apparent that she is in an abusive relationship.

 

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Woahi think it's some serious stuff what you are speculating here! ^ 

@Scripteladora (I don't agree with your comment but i respect your opinion, if you'd like to explain more about your theory i would gladly read it, i find it "too much" but hey, everyone have different opinions) :alpacacrush:

I don't get that "abusive" vibe anywhere. I mean, don't get me wrong I saw the "shouldn't be 10? (pounds)" video and all the Splenda videos, and he seems like a complete idiot for saying that, BUT i do not think he is abusing somehow Yumi. I don't think he is making Yumi "anorexic" if she have some kind of ED i believe it's from before being in a relationship with Splenda. (She said it herself, since she was in high school lost weight and was even skinnier than now, that was years ago, before she even met Splenda). Maybe because she is now a youtuber and is in a relationship she feels more pressured to stay thin, but that, doesn't mean he is making her anorexic. 

About the "frightened person, submissive and dependent" I think it's because they seem to be in a DDLG, pet/play or another kink relationship (which is totally valid but could make us feel uncomfortable cause they portrait in outside their bedroom), domestic violence i would discard that theory honestly, she seems very loved by her family and even Splenda. We get the feeling of him annoyed in her videos and even his sighs every time she ask him something, BUT my opinion would be that is because he's a 40s years old man, who don't want to be exposed into the internet with her 15 years younger girlfriend, and she filming him every time she goes to see him, i guess makes him feel uncomfortable, or maybe he's camera shy? i don't know. "maybe he makes her talk with an accent" Once again my opinion is that it's not because of him, but because Yumi's audience are teenage weebos, that like the "kawaii asian dumb girl" so i think she fakes the accent to appear more "kawaii" to everyone. 

I don't get any of that abused/possibly raped victim vibe you say you got at first. I'm curious what made you think that way. I apologize if somehow i read something wrong from your comment, i know it's just a theory. (English isn't my native language so I might have problems translating it to my own language so can be some misunderstood for my part)

Remember everyone just because we don't like Yumi doesn't make Splenda a martyr nor a pedophile/abusive boyfriend. 

Let's be careful with this topic :alpacaconfused: I know we all have different opinions, but remember he's just Yumi's boyfriend I wouldn't call him a public figure, so let's not make statements if we don't have the bases to make them. (At this point not talking about nobody in particular because we all seem to have only theories, but remember what words can make to someone who didn't really chose to bring the internet attention to himself)

My irrelevant opinion: Splenda and Yumi are into a DDLG relationship, or at least some kind of kink. I don't think of Splenda as a "poor" guy but I wouldn't say something that harsh since we don't know much about him. I actually enjoy his videos, he looks so dead inside in every single video so that makes his videos way more funnier/entertainment than Yumi's regular videos. 

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Woahi think it's some serious stuff what you are speculating here! ^ 

@Scripteladora (I don't agree with your comment but i respect your opinion, if you'd like to explain more about your theory i would gladly read it, i find it "too much" but hey, everyone have different opinions) :alpacacrush:

I don't get that "abusive" vibe anywhere. I mean, don't get me wrong I saw the "shouldn't be 10? (pounds)" video and all the Splenda videos, and he seems like a complete idiot for saying that, BUT i do not think he is abusing somehow Yumi. I don't think he is making Yumi "anorexic" if she have some kind of ED i believe it's from before being in a relationship with Splenda. (She said it herself, since she was in high school lost weight and was even skinnier than now, that was years ago, before she even met Splenda). Maybe because she is now a youtuber and is in a relationship she feels more pressured to stay thin, but that, doesn't mean he is making her anorexic. 

About the "frightened person, submissive and dependent" I think it's because they seem to be in a DDLG, pet/play or another kink relationship (which is totally valid but could make us feel uncomfortable cause they portrait in outside their bedroom), domestic violence i would discard that theory honestly, she seems very loved by her family and even Splenda. We get the feeling of him annoyed in her videos and even his sighs every time she ask him something, BUT my opinion would be that is because he's a 40s years old man, who don't want to be exposed into the internet with her 15 years younger girlfriend, and she filming him every time she goes to see him, i guess makes him feel uncomfortable, or maybe he's camera shy? i don't know. "maybe he makes her talk with an accent" Once again my opinion is that it's not because of him, but because Yumi's audience are teenage weebos, that like the "kawaii asian dumb girl" so i think she fakes the accent to appear more "kawaii" to everyone. 

I don't get any of that abused/possibly raped victim vibe you say you got at first. I'm curious what made you think that way. I apologize if somehow i read something wrong from your comment, i know it's just a theory. (English isn't my native language so I might have problems translating it to my own language so can be some misunderstood for my part)

Remember everyone just because we don't like Yumi doesn't make Splenda a martyr nor a pedophile/abusive boyfriend. 

Let's be careful with this topic :alpacaconfused: I know we all have different opinions, but remember he's just Yumi's boyfriend I wouldn't call him a public figure, so let's not make statements if we don't have the bases to make them. (At this point not talking about nobody in particular because we all seem to have only theories, but remember what words can make to someone who didn't really chose to bring the internet attention to himself)

My irrelevant opinion: Splenda and Yumi are into a DDLG relationship, or at least some kind of kink. I don't think of Splenda as a "poor" guy but I wouldn't say something that harsh since we don't know much about him. I actually enjoy his videos, he looks so dead inside in every single video so that makes his videos way more funnier/entertainment than Yumi's regular videos. 

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I understand. I know . I didn't want to speculate bad things, mainly because I don't know her that well but I've dealt with lots of people who've been abused and her posture and behaviour are disturbingly reminescent of the behaviour I have observed. but I may be wrong. It they are into the whole weird behaviours, and it's a fetish thing , maybe it's an act... but It's a bit disturbing to me, some of her vídeos give me the shills.

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Yeah, I don't think I would say that he is for sure abusing her in any manner. She's cringey and he's skeezy, and that together with him being what looks like 10-20 years her senior creates a really uncomfortable power dynamic. When he says stuff about her needing to lose weight, or monitoring her weight, or that time he was filming her and she had a nip slip he just didn't mention it just makes me think he's not a good dude. Not necessarily an abusive dude, just not a good dude.

Also he got waaay too heated when they went to see Logan, but hey, maybe she thinks that's attractive somehow??

Idk man, seeing footage of them together makes me feel like I just walked into a public bathroom where someone is going with the stall door open. I'm embarrassed and uncomfortable, and I really wish I hadn't seen that.

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I honestly don't think they will last. I mean their relationship is a long distance one (not that I'm bashing this type of relationship) and even though they have met up several times over the years and she has her own room at his house, it's one thing to spend time with someone and then leave for a good amount of time and it's somewhat different when you're around this person ALL the time. It seems like he can barely stand her when she has only been with him for a few days. How is it going to work out when she actually moves in with him and she's there 24/7? She doesn't take his feelings into consideration and focuses more on what she wants/expects. There doesn't seem to be any meaningful communication between them based on what we have seen.  

 

i wouldnt consider them long distance. Yui doesnt just have a room at his house, that house is owned by them both which they bought while dating. So technically she lives there but stays at her parents house for school.

she says she is moving in completely when finished with school this summer.

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My irrelevant opinion: Splenda and Yumi are into a DDLG relationship, or at least some kind of kink. I don't think of Splenda as a "poor" guy but I wouldn't say something that harsh since we don't know much about him. I actually enjoy his videos, he looks so dead inside in every single video so that makes his videos way more funnier/entertainment than Yumi's regular videos. 

rupaul-saying-i-cant-wait-to-see-how-thi

 

I completely agree, I said the same thing. Glad to see someone else who thought that! :alpacacrush: I don't like people calling him a pedophile and stuff? It's definitely just seems like DDLG or Age play of some sort. Which is completely different from pedophilia 

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I honestly don't think they will last. I mean their relationship is a long distance one (not that I'm bashing this type of relationship) and even though they have met up several times over the years and she has her own room at his house, it's one thing to spend time with someone and then leave for a good amount of time and it's somewhat different when you're around this person ALL the time. It seems like he can barely stand her when she has only been with him for a few days. How is it going to work out when she actually moves in with him and she's there 24/7? She doesn't take his feelings into consideration and focuses more on what she wants/expects. There doesn't seem to be any meaningful communication between them based on what we have seen.  

 

I am 50-50 on the not staying together theory. While I do agree with you on the communication (or lack thereof :alpacafedup:) problems, we have to take into consideration that Splenda is an old(er) man, he probably did a lot of searching, prospecting and dating before him and Yumi got together. And that probably means he already knows that there's not that much left for him. As for Yumi, she seems to be happy enough with him as far as her financial needs go so why change anything. Even if they don't seem to have that much in common, at this point I sort of consider they are stuck together, more or less. 

-splenda clings onto yumi and puts up with her childish and annoying behaviour just so he could not die alone (or for the sake of the kink lmao)
-yumi clings onto him because $$$ and babies, she doesn't seem to care too much about him or his feelings even when he explicitly states them
-for both of them, splitting up would be an awful lot of work by starting over and they probably don't feel like it. Besides, splenda is kind of running out of time so this might also be why Yumi is so desperate to have babies asap. 

Tl;dr: Symbiotic relationships between species. The co-dependent type.

 


Sorry if this has already been stated already, I've been off the forum for a long time and didn't get to read everything... :alpacadone:

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 can someone link me to the video where she eats out of a cat bowl? 

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 can someone link me to the video where she eats out of a cat bowl? 

 

There are many. Just check out the ones where she's with her boyfriend and you'll see it for sure. She has a "Boyfriend" playlist.

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i thought it was a bit odd that people were defending him

yumi is clearly very small, so her desire to lose more weight doesn't seem healthy nor is it healthy for him to encourage it! i mean couples should be supportive of each other, but they also shouldn't enable harmful things :( it's also just creepy in general when a guy comments on how much weight a girl should lose? like if she was really big and doing this for health reasons i could understand, but yumi is so tiny!!!

i think in another video yumi mentioned she used to be 'fat' and had to work to lose weight, but a lot of people in the comment said she wasn't fat. i can't remember which one it was so i will never know for sure how big she used to be.

imo there is a point when someone is too big or too small, and if yumi doesn't seem too small, yet, but if she is still having thoughts of 'i need to lose weight' it's a really bad sign. 

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I'm sorry but my god, he's ugly

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also don't find him attractive. But I guess he has good qualities like he has money haha and very, very good tolerance for yumi's daily shit 

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also don't find him attractive. But I guess he has good qualities like he has money haha and very, very good tolerance for yumi's daily shit 

 

Lol If they are the only things going for him then i feel sorry for her

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