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UGLY SWAN? Late bloomers?


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Are there any late bloomers here as well?

Sort of. More slow than late. Started getting noticeable puberty stuff around mid to late 14. Some of the development then seemed a bit slow - voice still seemed a bit high during late teens, under-arm hair started growing at 19, facial hair at 21 etc

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People seem to be confused by me and can't place my age.

 

I sort of experienced that during teens. I was getting charged child fare on buses at 17. I think it was because voice was slow with changing, so it still sounded kinda kid-ish.

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I honestly got uglier with age but a few things happened to me to make my situation worse. I also didn’t have the best starting off point. 

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I was flat-chested for basically my entire teenage existence until I turned 16 and was dealing with ana/binge-purge issues. Then I suddenly ballooned in the chest area and I hate it. It makes me feel fatter than ever. I want surgery but I’m scared.

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i dont think i was ugly as a small child, but i went through an awkward phase in middle school. also my hairstyle choices (my weeb-ness was the inspiration of my terrible looks) made me look questionable. my face was rounder back then.. i was just, awkward looking. however i think i 'bloomed' starting in high school (not to brag but... i had like medal for being pretty in class. i dont think im the prettiest tho but it was nice). i'm 21 and i have a baby face and innocent looks. it makes me feel special 

another point- i didnt age much but i look better than i was before... if that makes sense lol? 

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