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Looks like Amber & Becky are back from their amazing vacation!
I guess all that time away really cleared her head, and helped her set her priorities straight.

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I don't get it how she can watch her own videos day in day out and NOT do something about it. If I was her I would be disgusted how I looked and wouldn't upload anything. She's really messed up in the head to priorities money over health.

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I don't know much about her family, but I hope someone who is close to her will give her a wake up call. She is ruining her life and health for a little bit of attention and money.

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I don't get it how she can watch her own videos day in day out and NOT do something about it. If I was her I would be disgusted how I looked and wouldn't upload anything. She's really messed up in the head to priorities money over health.

 

This. I mean, the only explanation I can think of, is she just does not care. She's ok with it. She doesn't wanna admit it, but deep down, she has zero fucks to give.

I don't know much about her family, but I hope someone who is close to her will give her a wake up call. She is ruining her life and health for a little bit of attention and money.

 

Her mom and dad were some sort of drug addicts, and she may have a sibling? Not sure... but anyone who has ever tried to help her got tossed to the curb. She only allows enablers into her life. It's like watching a person die, while broadcasting every second of it. The denial is REAL.

Here's some more fun... 

 

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omfg I seriously can not with the moaning. Those morning star nugs are fine, but not good enough for you to be having an orgasm.  

Also, where them vegetables at gorl? 

"I'm doing so much better than you think all I do is eat this WHOLE BAG which is worth like 650 calories."

It's just funny because she is just eating a pile of jUNK, even if it is vegan.

idk but this whole video is so annoying lmao.

 

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This. I mean, the only explanation I can think of, is she just does not care. She's ok with it. She doesn't wanna admit it, but deep down, she has zero fucks to give.

Her mom and dad were some sort of drug addicts, and she may have a sibling? Not sure... but anyone who has ever tried to help her got tossed to the curb. She only allows enablers into her life. It's like watching a person die, while broadcasting every second of it. The denial is REAL.

Here's some more fun... 

 

 

This is disgusting. I hope she gets a heart attack to put her in lane but I doubt even that would help her. She already has lymphadeema, aching tooth, bleeding belly button (what the fuck is that about!), she can't walk for more than 2 minutes at a time, she can't get out from bed easily... Those should be good enough reasons to do something but she doesn't give two fucks.

Send her to the ranch.

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I watched her old videos yesterday and I had a thought. In the beginning of the weight loss journey she was more earthbound and sweet which is the polar opposite of what we have now, it's just like due to her eating disorder she became a shadow of her former self, she's like a different person at this point. It's scary but eating disorders can mess a person up really badly. She could be not narcissistic or manipulative at all, but it's the illness making her act like this, plus detaching her from the reality.

She doesn't want to stop because she's ill

Try imagining the situation if she was anorexic. 

She needs urgent help, people need to start taking her seriously again. Her relapsing and excuses are just the BED showing. She's weak and clearly sad.

(Narcissistic behaviours can come from eating disorders, they literally make you obsessed with food and your appearance, manipulation can come from the same source)

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This is disgusting. I hope she gets a heart attack to put her in lane but I doubt even that would help her. She already has lymphadeema, aching tooth, bleeding belly button (what the fuck is that about!), she can't walk for more than 2 minutes at a time, she can't get out from bed easily... Those should be good enough reasons to do something but she doesn't give two fucks.

Send her to the ranch.

 

The belly button was cellulitis I believe, which is a bacterial infection in the skin, BUT if left untreated, can get into the bloodstream and attack the body. 

Don't forget the sleep apnea as well. When she went to the doctor I think like last year, she (Amber) was describing her symptoms, and joked that it was most likely sleep apnea, and the doctor very plainly said "Yes, that does sound like sleep apnea." 

But Amber never followed up, she should have done a sleep study. This same doctor offered to have her join in a weight loss group with the hospital staff, and Amber was like "well that's just not for me." If that doctor was so compassionate as to let Amber join some staff weight loss group, Amber should have taken it. She should have realized that she would have gotten an immense amount of support and guidance. 

But it's Hamber - she just defies all logic.

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I watched her old videos yesterday and I had a thought. In the beginning of the weight loss journey she was more earthbound and sweet which is the polar opposite of what we have now, it's just like due to her eating disorder she became a shadow of her former self, she's like a different person at this point. It's scary but eating disorders can mess a person up really badly. She could be not narcissistic or manipulative at all, but it's the illness making her act like this, plus detaching her from the reality.

She doesn't want to stop because she's ill

Try imagining the situation if she was anorexic. 

She needs urgent help, people need to start taking her seriously again. Her relapsing and excuses are just the BED showing. She's weak and clearly sad.

(Narcissistic behaviours can come from eating disorders, they literally make you obsessed with food and your appearance, manipulation can come from the same source)

 

Nah, she's always been like this but in the beginning she was still "camera shy/social media shy" but now feels more comfortable at being herself.

I wouldn't compare someone with an BED to someone with anorexia. In anorexia the brain is actually lacking in nutrients and that can definitely alter your personality. Having prime example of Eugenia, the way she speaks used to be so scattered. She was basically just saying "Like, umm, you know, cute, sweet" because her brain couldn't concentrate. She couldn't form a proper sentence due to severe malnutrition. 

With Amber she has been given help, she has been taken seriously and she has been given everything that a normal person would need to get help. BUT due to her not wanting the help she can't be helped. It's not other people's responsibility to provide help for Amber, she needs to help herself. She loves being the victim and that it preventing her from getting the help. If she was to lose the weight then what would she use them as a crutch.

I can symphatize with her for clearly having an eating disorder but I can't with the lies and manipulation she's doing. 

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Um, you should calm down. Both anorexia and BED (speaking of extreme malnourishment and morbid obesity) cause deterioration of the grey and white matter - so the brain begins to shrink and have troubles with abstract thinking, concentration and serotonin/dopamine adjustment, both have a high risk of dementia and aphasias. Eugenia's problems manifested as poorly created sentences but Amberlynn's problem could be weird pronounciation and bizzare use of words, she even repeats herself. A LOT. And contradictes herself in a sentence, it could not be ,,manipulation'' or ,,LaHs'' but just her brain malfunctioning. 

She filmed herself on a scale multiple times and was shown ,,active'' outside, at least walking 20 meters. 

Becky is literally a borderline terrible person, Disney villain terrible - and you wrote the reasons why yourself, she buys her junk food, chauffeurs her everywhere Amberlynn's disorder tells her to eat at. She's too lazy to help her supposed ,,loved'' one. 

Eugenia's a ,,grown ass'' woman too, but you were sympathizing with her and wanted her to get help. And now Amberlynn is as close to dying as Eugenia was in the Kingdom Hearts video, and as delusional. Every eating disorder is valid and should be treated seriously. They all have terrible influence on a human body. 

Amberlynn is not only physically ill but mentally as well. 

 

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As an former bulimic, I had trouble to tame my spontaneous ,,wolf hungers'' for salty food, sweets. I can't even imagine what they look like when you have BED. It's really terrible. 

 

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Um, you should calm down. Both anorexia and BED (speaking of extreme malnourishment and morbid obesity) cause deterioration of the grey and white matter - so the brain begins to shrink and have troubles with abstract thinking, concentration and serotonin/dopamine adjustment, both have a high risk of dementia and aphasias. Eugenia's problems manifested as poorly created sentences but Amberlynn's problem could be weird pronounciation and bizzare use of words, she even repeats herself. A LOT. And contradictes herself in a sentence, it could not be ,,manipulation'' or ,,LaHs'' but just her brain malfunctioning. 

She filmed herself on a scale multiple times and was shown ,,active'' outside, at least walking 20 meters. 

Becky is literally a borderline terrible person, Disney villain terrible - and you wrote the reasons why yourself, she buys her junk food, chauffeurs her everywhere Amberlynn's disorder tells her to eat at. She's too lazy to help her supposed ,,loved'' one. 

Eugenia's a ,,grown ass'' woman too, but you were sympathizing with her and wanted her to get help. And now Amberlynn is as close to dying as Eugenia was in the Kingdom Hearts video, and as delusional. Every eating disorder is valid and should be treated seriously. They all have terrible influence on a human body. 

Amberlynn is not only physically ill but mentally as well. 

 

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As an former bulimic, I had trouble to tame my spontaneous ,,wolf hungers'' for salty food, sweets. I can't even imagine what they look like when you have BED. It's really terrible. 

 

 

There's nothing to calm down from?

About the Eugenia situation: IF Eugenia had declined the help she was first forced to have (after 48 hours she could do what ever the fuck she pleased) and continued her bad ways, then yes. I would also be saying the same things about her as I'm now saying of Amber.

If Eugenia would have made her channel a "weight gain channel" where she would constantly talk about gaining weight and how she's going to cure her anorexia only to throw away any kind of help she's been offered, continue to lose weight, continue to blame others for her state, lie about how she's the "queen of moderation"/"how she knows everything about nutrition" and disregard her physical wellbeing as well as mental wellbeing then absolutely I would be shit talking about her as well! And yes, much like with Amber Eugenia is a grown ass woman, she should have helped herself in the first place. But anorexia is different from other eating disorders, it's different than BED.

I wish, like I said earlier, I wish and hope there was a rehab center for Amber that she could be forced into. But many times if the person doesn't think they need the help or doesn't want the help then it's no use. They are only going to go back to their old ways. And you know what, it doesn't matter whether Becky brings Amber the food or not. She would find a way to do get what she wants. We don't know what happens behind closed doors, maybe Becky has tried to be firm with her but she, to me at least, seems to be the underdog in the relationship. It's not Becky's responsibility to help Amber.

 

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,,I can symphatize with her for clearly having an eating disorder but I can't with the lies and manipulation she's doing.'' 

Where do you draw the line? Eating disorders consist of lies. Lies that you eat, lies that you feel okay, lies that you didn't purge, lies that you didn't binge etc. 

I think if Eugenia made a weight gain channel we all would be supportive even if she failed multiple times, we would feel alarmed by her skeletal frame as much as we were then. 

I feel like the issue is that many people see Amberlynn as just an obese person mindlessly eating. That's what outside, inside there is a heavily, mentally ill person that's almost decrepit because of her own problems, surrounded and living with enablers. 

I don't know why are you drawing such a line with anorexia. It's as serious as BED, as hard to recover from. ,,Just lose weight'', ,,just stop eating that much'' - people were saying the opposites to Eugenia since her YouTube career started, did it help? Absolutely not, it's a disorder, not a lifestyle. It requires professional treatment. Amberlynn makes everything seem lighthearted about weight loss, because she herself may not treat the disorder seriously, like everyone around her taught her. She struggled with it as a child, where were her parents? Right. 

Also, I didn't say that Becky has a responsibility to take care of Amber, I just looked at it from the perspective of love - would you want to see that your loved one is dying before your own very eyes and you let that happen? Exactly.

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Her aunt outed ALR for being a narcissist on one of the amberlynn reaction channels https://youtu.be/Stam8FPoRnw. Her family cut her off way before her youtube "career" took off because she was toxic and self absorbed. The girl has a lot of mental issues but dumping responsibility or all the blame for what she chooses to do on her issues does a bit of a disservice to the whole situation imo. Does an eating disorder mess with your head? ABSOLUTELY. Does that excuse anything she has done and continues to do? ABSOLUTELY NOT. If Amberlynn really did commit to changing herself and getting the help she needs the general response would be positive it isnt that she treats "weight loss as a lighthearted situation" she actively baits her audience into thinking that this diet will be "the one" to turn her life around and then "gives up" within a few days to keep their attention going. Idk about everyone else but I don't think she even wants to lose weight anymore she just wants the youtube money thats the issue I have. 

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Who are you and why do you need me to agree with you so badly?

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Her aunt outed ALR for being a narcissist on one of the amberlynn reaction channels https://youtu.be/Stam8FPoRnw. Her family cut her off way before her youtube "career" took off because she was toxic and self absorbed. The girl has a lot of mental issues but dumping responsibility or all the blame for what she chooses to do on her issues does a bit of a disservice to the whole situation imo. Does an eating disorder mess with your head? ABSOLUTELY. Does that excuse anything she has done and continues to do? ABSOLUTELY NOT. If Amberlynn really did commit to changing herself and getting the help she needs the general response would be positive it isnt that she treats "weight loss as a lighthearted situation" she actively baits her audience into thinking that this diet will be "the one" to turn her life around and then "gives up" within a few days to keep their attention going. Idk about everyone else but I don't think she even wants to lose weight anymore she just wants the youtube money thats the issue I have. 

 

Exactly! She waited a month and a half to let her audience know she dropped her weight loss doctor on the first day. Why even show it, just skip the whole month and a half and tell us what you are doing now. This is manipulation to the fullest. She even made multiple videos of it instead of just coming clean straight away saying "I'm not gonna do it, I'll try WW for the millionth time and oops! Now I'm 600 lb!"

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She's also been back on her sock account game again.
And failing to do it well.

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