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I wish I had someone to read my midterm before i turn it in skfksk im always nervous that it won't be good ahh

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Just broke up from a 7 year plus relationship because of his family (: (: (:  man fuck this. 

 

omg me too!!!! well 4 years instead of 7 but yeah it was because of his family. i'm here for you, i 100% relate :,)

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Just broke up from a 7 year plus relationship because of his family (: (: (:  man fuck this. 

 

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damn we’re all just leaving relationships huh?

i dumped my bf too, we’ll get thru this together y’all

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this unexplained feeling of being suddenly dizzy has to happen when there is no doctor available bc it's a holiday today and tomorrow in my country.

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this unexplained feeling of being suddenly dizzy has to happen when there is no doctor available bc it's a holiday today and tomorrow in my country.

 

From what you explained sounds like the event of low frequency, Meniere's disease, tinnitus, or vertigo.

If you suddenly have a buzzing or a sharp noise in your ear, that's low frequency. If, like you described, become dizzy, that can be signs of Meniere's disease or Tinnitus. Vertigo can also just come out of nowhere. My mum has it and has to take meds.

Don't listen to loud music or anything that could give you headaches or earaches. Take care of yourself, I hope you're able to access help soon.

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fudge i have this weird feeling that i can't even describe bc english isn't my first language, all i can say is that my ears will ring then i get woozy. when i sit down or lay in bed, suddenly my ears starts ringing then after that my head is dizzy. i feel like i just got out from a trance.

this unexplained feeling of being suddenly dizzy has to happen when there is no doctor available bc it's a holiday today and tomorrow in my country.

It can be because of anxiety. It has happened to me and lasted for weeks. Of course I was thinking it had to be something more serious, but the doctor said everything was ok. After I got treatment for anxiety it disappeared. Now it happens sometimes when I'm extremely anxious but knowing that it is nothing really bad makes me not to worry and because that means less stress, it goes away faster.

I don't know if it could be your case but if it could be, if you can, try to calm and not be afraid until you can see the doctor. I hope everything will be fine for you!

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I don't know what to do when my general mood and state of being is "depressed and suicidal" and my friend who knows this and is also depressed and suicidal keeps trying to guilt me into caring about them all the time when I literally don't even have energy to care about myself. It's so frustrating.

I honestly think he's doing stupid shit on purpose just to try to get pity points from me. Like dude. I'm just a depressed person with NO medical training, I know nothing about how to care for other people's mental emergencies, I literally can't be the one to help you here and you know it. If my support isn't enough for you it's not because I don't care, it's because I'm not fucking capable of helping you. You're seriously in need of professional help and I'm simply not even close to being a professional.

And every time I feel like I'm being a terrible friend. But what am I supposed to do, pretend my own problems magically went away so I can deal with his instead? It's honestly frucking triggering when I'm suicidal myself to hear someone else who's also suicidal put themselves in dangerous situations on purpose just for what? My attention?

It's just a fucking rant but he's very expressive of wanting a gf since he's single and I happen to be female and I honestly think that's why he's "bothering" me specifically rather than his other friends. Like being suicidal is going to guilt me into dating him or something. Siggggh.

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I shouldn't be mad about it, but I hate when people only reply with "aw", "lol", "haha", "omg" to a conversation. Like, actually say more than that. Especially if you repeat that every. single. time.

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I shouldn't be mad about it, but I hate when people only reply with "aw", "lol", "haha", "omg" to a conversation. Like, actually say more than that. Especially if you repeat that every. single. time.

 

I had a friend who always did that, so I started telling her less because I didn''t want to get that shitty reply back. And then she got mad at me for not telling her stuff anymore (:

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I had a friend who always did that, so I started telling her less because I didn''t want to get that shitty reply back. And then she got mad at me for not telling her stuff anymore (:

 

Seriously. I have this friend who does that. It's actually triggering that I stop responding entirely.

And when we have group chats, someone will mention something bad happened, or, they're not feeling well because x, and this friend will come in and try to 1 UP them on misery. "Well I don't feel well because THIS happened" and somehow turn the conversation about their problem that didn't exist until someone else said something.

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i wish i had a bf to cuddle with in quarantine

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I shouldn't be mad about it, but I hate when people only reply with "aw", "lol", "haha", "omg" to a conversation. Like, actually say more than that. Especially if you repeat that every. single. time.

 

Exactly. I said to my friends that i Dmed my "friend" if she wants to meet me she didn't respond. After 1 hour i saw her IG live with other friends i felt so stabbed in the back. I typed what happend to them and this what they typed/said "bruhhh" "ooff" i was like " so that is the only shit yall typed"

I've a question if your friends respond like that in this situation are they really youre friend?

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This is my 4th week of working out and its been the worst so far its so frustrating like i was getting used to it by the 3rd week hell i was feeling GREAT whenever i finished my sessions but this week i couldnt finish any of them because of my body getting exhausted 5 minutes in. To top it off when i lift weights my left shoulder always hurts and i cant go get it checked out rn bc of the covid situation hhh

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I shouldn't be mad about it, but I hate when people only reply with "aw", "lol", "haha", "omg" to a conversation. Like, actually say more than that. Especially if you repeat that every. single. time.

 

Everything besides "lol" is passable imo. Look at the bright side, at least they're not leaving you on "seen". My friend either does that or says "lol" when I send her a meme and doesn't find anything wrong with it.When I asked her a 100th time why does she do this her excuse is that she can't think of any other reply.

My issue with people: If someone says that she's sorry IF she said anything rude today, it's not really an apology if that person doesn't even know what she did wrong. Same for influencer apologies that go like "Sorry if what I did offended someone". It's kinda narcissistic and non-self aware for people that really really don't like apologizing even if they know they're wrong. 

And when we have group chats, someone will mention something bad happened, or, they're not feeling well because x, and this friend will come in and try to 1 UP them on misery. "Well I don't feel well because THIS happened" and somehow turn the conversation about their problem that didn't exist until someone else said something.

 

Yieks, I don't remember knowing that kind of person but you reminded me of a another toxic type of person that majority here probably met 

Whenever you bring something very bad or very good in your life, she always has to bring up her very similar situation but exaggerated depending if your is good or bad, just so her life seems more interesting. These are real conversations:

Me: "Yay, I lost 5cm and eat healthy, I'm closer to my dream body." 

Her: "Ohh, I lost 10kg and saw a nutritionist, I'm 90-69-90 now." 

Me: "Omg, some of my professors are such assholes, *describes why*, his exam is very hard to pass." 

Her: *describes her professors as the Satan himself, talks about her major as if she's studying at Harvard*

Me: "My family friends are good with a [very popular celebrity] so I had a chance of meeting her."

Her: "Did you know that my mom used to be best friends with [frontmen of one of the most popular bands in my country]?"

Bonus - I talked shit about a singer that is famous only because of her very popular mother. 

Her: "We used to be good friends when I was little when I lived in [the capital], she's very nice irl." Nahh girl you're just a fan. That girl grew up isolated from us mortals because of her gangster parents. 

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Yieks, I don't remember knowing that kind of person but you reminded me of a another toxic type of person that majority here probably met 

Whenever you bring something very bad or very good in your life, she always has to bring up her very similar situation but exaggerated depending if your is good or bad, just so her life seems more interesting. These are real conversations:

Me: "Yay, I lost 5cm and eat healthy, I'm closer to my dream body." 

Her: "Ohh, I lost 10kg and saw a nutritionist, I'm 90-69-90 now." 

Me: "Omg, some of my professors are such assholes, *describes why*, his exam is very hard to pass." 

Her: *describes her professors as the Satan himself, talks about her major as if she's studying at Harvard*

Me: "My family friends are good with a [very popular celebrity] so I had a chance of meeting her."

Her: "Did you know that my mom used to be best friends with [frontmen of one of the most popular bands in my country]?"

Bonus - I talked shit about a singer that is famous only because of her very popular mother. 

Her: "We used to be good friends when I was little when I lived in [the capital], she's very nice irl." Nahh girl you're just a fan. That girl grew up isolated from us mortals because of her gangster parents. 

 

Pretty much what I mean. This kind of person. I know no one really cares for SNL, but this character is exactly the kind of person we all know:
https://youtu.be/NCjjx8A-jfE

If anyone is interested in watching.

Don't know, I don't feel like bothering with a conversation if all I get is "lol" and "aw". Especially if this person is the one messaging me first. Like, what am I supposed to be saying? Otherwise the entire conversation will be as following:

Me: lol
Friend: haha
Me: lmao
Friend: hehe

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