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thanks! But assuming one of the photos had my face what should I do?

 

If he does post them online and it makes me you feel bad you should contact the police. It could help catch another crappy guy and take your pictures down.

ever since i got sick ive basically spent all day every day wondering if its even worth staying alive if im this fucked up, not to mention no one talks to you if you dont have anything to offer so i just sit and rot and fester with these thoughts... so i guess im just ranting to the wind how i wish i'd just hurry up and die but im not terminal..how depressing lmao 

 

I'm sorry to hear that. Are you seeing someone for your mental health? It could help you get a smile on your face again, mental health is really important and I can promise you that life can be really cool and amazing, even if you're "fucked up".

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The glitches on this site are irritating as fuck!! I really like PULL but these gltiches are irritating.

now i can't see my fucking icon wtf.

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had to deal with a group of creepy harassers recently who were spreading old (like 1-3 year old pics) risqué pics I posted a long time ago when I was drunk, which i later deleted- without my consent, and honestly nothing made me feel more personally disgusted with myself than to see a bunch of losers who haven't even ever touched a real woman's body comment on the way I look. it's so shudder inducingly vile. yeah, you're "just trolling" when you steal my pictures and mock the way my body and face looks when you could never show your own, fuck off.

seriously, sexual harassment is still alive and rampant on the internet in the age of incels. then again that is implying it ever went away.

And people keep saying "while YOU posted the pics x amount of years ago", even after subsequently deleting them, but does that make sexual harassment and unwarranted and disgusting uncalled for comments toward the way I look an acceptable act? no, circulating them without my consent is illegal and mocking the way I look is gross. end of story. it's not okay, it's not "funny" and it's not cute, these incel scumbags need to get a life and stop picking on women

to make matters worse according to some guy who left their group but is still an asshole towards me, one of them is actually deranged enough to talk about a fantasy where he assaulted me and apparently assaulted my dog, which is... horrifying, to say the least :/ because he is the main perpetrator in all this, a borderline psychopath who's talked about incest and abusing animals (including wanting to "perform surgery" on his own cat) like he thinks those things are fun. and that's a bad sign. future serial killer territory... if he ever left the house.

rando in yellow and mr. insider creep who's still a creep but no longer directly affiliated with that group in red. ughhh.

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can this stupid anxiety just fucking stop I want to enjoy my life again 

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Kinda long but i have so much on my mind atm

 

-I had an anxiety attack for the first time in 8 months and honestly the constant chest pain and hyper paranoia afterwards is even worse than the attack itself...

-I can't stress this enough: if you're a guy and you don't genuinely give a fuck about a girls mental health, don't message her pretending you do. She's still not interested and not going to date or sleep with you bc you showed her some fake compassion. 

-Why can't openly sexual people understand and respect that your friends being uncomfortable with your jokes, comments, unsolicited nudes (ive had male and female friends send them despite me stating multiple times that i didn't want to see it) and randomly asking weird sex related questions is pretty much normal? Its not shaming or condeming your lifestyle, its just not something everyone wants to talk about, think about or see daily. Like who wants to open their phone and see 20+ porn gifs with the caption "mood asf 🤤" as soon as they check it in the morning?? Not me, and asking you not to share it with me bc it makes me uncomfortable shouldn't make you get defensive and argumentative either. Not everyone shares your sex obsession, and shoving it in my face just to get a rise out of me is not only immature but also sexual harassment. Please grow the fuck up.

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"High school are the best years of your life ,you should enjoy it" "You're gonna miss it when it's over" High school was a shit i hated it so much ,when i finished i didn't go back i went to take my diploma like 3 years after i finished bc i didn't want to go back there. Hell no i don't miss being bullied every day and having fake friends or not having friends at all  

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same here, my highschool wasn't the best and i hated it. i was bullied back then even in elementary, it sucks when your elementary classmates also were your high school classmates and the same bully too. i promised myself that i will never attend any high school reunion ever.

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-Why can't openly sexual people understand and respect that your friends being uncomfortable with your jokes, comments, unsolicited nudes (ive had male and female friends send them despite me stating multiple times that i didn't want to see it) and randomly asking weird sex related questions is pretty much normal? Its not shaming or condeming your lifestyle, its just not something everyone wants to talk about, think about or see daily. Like who wants to open their phone and see 20+ porn gifs with the caption "mood asf 🤤" as soon as they check it in the morning?? Not me, and asking you not to share it with me bc it makes me uncomfortable shouldn't make you get defensive and argumentative either. Not everyone shares your sex obsession, and shoving it in my face just to get a rise out of me is not only immature but also sexual harassment. Please grow the fuck up.

 

"Like who wants to open their phone and see 20+ porn gifs with the caption "mood asf 🤤" lol people really send you that?Damn that's gross. Hypersexual age we live in.

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"Like who wants to open their phone and see 20+ porn gifs with the caption "mood asf 🤤" lol people really send you that?Damn that's gross. Hypersexual age we live in.

 

They post it. Either on fb (i lovvvve how they pick and choose who to suspend over this stuff). Always some weird sex meme or what have you...honestly who wakes up and the first thing they think about is sex? 

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weighing heavy on my  mind...
been a while since highschool, hated it but w/e at least it's over. only hated 1 girl (call her XA) who was out to take my bff from me (and only friend) (also she wasnt successful)
followed up on XA and found out she was burned in a fire 3rd degree burns from her chest down. felt so bad for her. donated to her gofundme as anonymous for skin graft surgeries.
a few more years pass, i hear from other people that she was acting a drunk fool at the party where she got burned was warned and didnt listen. (not surprised that's her personality anyway)
more time passes and i see a recent picture of her........so i said she was burned from the chest down right...she got so much plastic surgery but all of it was done to her face! nose job, cheek fillers, lip fillers, brow lift probably more. she doesnt look at all like she used to in highschool and just looks like every other insta-thot kardasian look-a-like!

I feel like i'm the only one who's outraged at XA's blatant disrespect to people who donated $$ like i thought you had burny/itchy skin to replace why did you change your whole face with the money ppl donated (Oh and she also sued and won $1mil)

just a rant...it's not even the only thing on my mind lol

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I'll be getting my degree soon but I feel so lost and kinda unhappy. I study design but I'm not a very creative person and I don't  like working as a team... but I can't just quit. My mom paid for everything, she's working so hard I can't let her down like this. Plus, Idk what I'd do if I quit design. I don't have a passion that I can turn into a job, u know? and I don't have a 'talent'. UGH honestly I just want a nice job that I like and a modest lifestyle

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Can I just say that if something is out of someone's control don't shit on them? I'm doing the best I can at my job but a lot of times I have to wait for another party's response. Well today my director bitched at me on getting a response and I am sorry but there is nothing I can do except exmail and call. And the people didn't even pick up so I am going to try to call tomorrow. I sent another email before I left for home but I am so done with these fuckers at work. It's been a toxic hellhole since day one and now that I am a different person I am leaving. 

My mm said if I can't get this ne job so I can be part of the system and hope for a full time job in the future I can come back and be her assistant again. So that is the only good news I've received this whole damn year. I am sorry you guys but I am done being where I am. I am sick of trying for people who shit on me day in and day out. Now that I know jobs are crappy everywhere I am like bring it on! 

But seriously if something is out of someone's control don't make them feel worse than they do by being shitty to them. I'm doing my best but I don't have a magic wand that can make everything better because trust me I would wave it to get me the hell out of here lol.

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I'm losing one of my favourite coworkers and I didn't say goodbye to him the way I wanted to because I was so shocked. I started crying as soon as I left his school. My dumbass forgot to ask for his contact info but I managed to find his social media (surprisingly). So I'm debating sending him a friend request and a message because he's definitely someone I'd like to remain in contact with. I also really want to let him know how much I appreciate him and how great of a teacher he is in case no one has told him that recently. Would that be weird? 

One of my goals is to get to know my coworkers more and develop better relationships with them. 

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I’m irrationally scared of men getting close to me. Like, I’m panromantic demisexual (wow am I the poster girl for tumblr yet?) so I do like men and think they are physically and aesthetically attractive. Yet, whenever I have guys come onto me, I clam up sooooo bad. Right now, for instance, a friend of mine has been flirting with me. At first, I thought he was just kidding around with friendly banter (because I thought he was still with his girlfriend). This afternoon though, he made a comment about me being beautiful inside and out (which was random because all I said was that if he made YouTube videos, I would watch them). So, I double checked his FB profile and saw it said he was single (I had no idea they broke up. They were together like 5 years). Now, I don’t know how to feel. If he is flirting, I’m super flattered because he’s a really sweet and attractive guy. But also, it makes me just not want to go around him because I feel too awkward.

On the other hand, though, I’m the total opposite when it comes to girls. I freaking love most chicks, I swear. On the weekend, I got close to a new friend of mine and then met another mutual friend at a gatho we were having. The girl I’m now good friends with is baptist and 100% straight, but she’s got a stellar personality so I low key got a bit of a crush on her. Then I met the mutual friend, who is also gay, and we gelled really well and shared an Uber home and so I developed a little crush on her (she has a gf though, so no hopes and I’m no home wrecker). 

Anyway, long winded and unnecessary story, but my point is: WHY DO I SHUT OUT AND GET SCARED OF ALL GUYS BUT FALL IN LOVE WITH 50% of the girls I meet?? 

It’s so annoying. I love girls more, but I’d rather date a guy for various reasons. I’m scared of guys, but I have no reason to be. Meanwhile, I’ve been sexually assaulted by a woman and I’m not scared of women at all.

Just...like...what?...why?...why does my brain do this???? Can anything ever just be easy??? No? Cool

 

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