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I don't find anything particularly "scary" in Brad's post, but a little bit of confusion... He calls Jude his "partner"? Partner in what way? Partner in crime? Partner in weight loss (which Jude shouldn't be)? Partner as in significant other...? Jude calls them selves firmly "single", soooo...

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I don't find anything particularly "scary" in Brad's post, but a little bit of confusion... He calls Jude his "partner"? Partner in what way? Partner in crime? Partner in weight loss (which Jude shouldn't be)? Partner as in significant other...? Jude calls them selves firmly "single", soooo...

 

in relation to how brad seems to do everything Jude asks him to, I think it’s kind of creepy. But also, yes the partner status. They don’t seem to be on the same understanding of the relationship 

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They posted this on their ig story 4 h ago. I assume they're talking about the drag queen. 

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I saw that, I wish i knew tea or what happened both are really petty with everything 

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It's about when they literally copied a look. 

 

 

 

 

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why do white people do this 

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i was JUST going to post this.... like why.....

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i was JUST going to post this.... like why.....

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excuse me, but what is this? 

Why the tongue? The hairchoice is questionable at best, I very randomly skipped through the live but I didn’t notice anyone in the comments mentioning it being problematic? Are they such hardcore fans they’d let her do anything or just too young to be a bit educated..?

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i used to love jude, ive followed them for two years now and thought they were super interesting but recently im getting so annoyed. like you can see tons of people in their comments saying this is not okay and jude isnt speaking about it at all and keeping the picture up. but if you check their tagged photos, some page reposted the photo and wrote why people are being ‘too sensitive’ about judes new hair and judes boytoy commented saying ‘thank you for this’ and a fanpage did the same thing and jude liked their post defending them. doesnt seem like jude listens to anyone and is going in a downword spiral which is super upsetting but im completely done following them lmao. seems like they’re losing tons of followers over this as well. maybe it will wake them up. 

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I’m absolutely baffled. They’re part of a marginalized group themselves and want people to respect their pronouns, but when followers talk up about being hurt or disappointed they don’t give a shit? Doesn’t add up to me. And they’re exposed to the internet enough to know that this wouldn’t be received well. The way they put it up with those words almost seems provocative lol 

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Kimiperi commented. They two of them seem to be fairly close. She says they've been friends for years but afaik they only started interacting on social media a few months ago. This ofc doesn't mean she's lying or whatever but I think it's worth pointing out. 

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The dreds are very well done, but learn your history people. Indians (from India) were the first depicted with them. Scots, vikings, Greeks had dreads, as did some Japanese (read up on Musashi). It's a natural occurrence of some hair types when you dont wash it and then shape it. If we are going to go down the "no cultural appropriation" road, well then if you aren't a white European no pants for you since modern pants are a variation of the pantaloon. 

I swear... first its praising invisible lines in the dirt and nationalism now all cultures must be seperate and no appreciation and adaptation of an enjoyed style. 

Just my thoughts, I welcome the downvotes.

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