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      Hello. I have noticed a great deal of confusion regarding how to use the report feature and what is expected regarding reports, so I am making a clarification announcement to users who may be unfamiliar with how the report feature works. Please note we have this rule regarding reports: 16.  Do report. Do not make frivolous reports (such as "I don't like this person"). Frivolous reports will result in a warning and possible ban. a. When reporting, please give a reason. Reports citing what rule the post is breaking and giving some information are way more valuable and will get the issue resolved faster. (Reports with no explanations sometimes require mods to go through and skim the entire thread to find out what's going on. Please save us time if you can). b. Don’t waste the mods’ time. Report people for breaking the rules, otherwise don’t report. [Rules in their entirety can be found here.] We also have a wonderful tutorial on how to use the report feature created by one of our former moderators which you can find here. In essence, we enforce the rules as they are written. In a rare occasion there may not be a direct violation but the user is still conducting themselves inappropriately and how we handle that is up to the moderators discretion. We do our best. We also encourage you to use the report feature to report posts that have been edited down to nothing or if you double posted and would like your double post hidden. Also, please note that we do not provide updates on reports. We get far too many to be able to keep up with every one. You are welcome to message a moderator to ask about your report, but please know that we cannot and will not divulge any information on whether we banned the user you are reporting. Simply that we have taken appropriate action. I hope this helps provide further clarification on how to use the report feature. Should you have any questions not clear in these instructions, please feel free to message me or Nyx. Thank you. *Please allow up to 3 business days (as we tend to be slower on weekends) for a response and for reports to be cleared.

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"I'm sure"... "I'm assuming".... 

Sure, Jude Jan

 

lmao y'all are reaching extra far. I'm making assumptions based on how they've acted and how i feel about things like that. Also i dont know, i purposely  didn't say that i know for sure because i dont. Also who is jan?? 

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lmao y'all are reaching extra far. I'm making assumptions based on how they've acted and how i feel about things like that. Also i dont know, i purposely  didn't say that i know for sure because i dont. Also who is jan?? 

 

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@Judasplutos the thing is, even if you aren't jude masquerading as a fan, a lot of what you say is a reach. you speak as though you can understand or guess jude's motivations and feelings and stuff that even a dedicated fan shouldnt claim to know. you're entitled to be a fan of jude but i still think it's inappropriate to go that far in their defense.

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Honestly male washrooms are disgusting and most nonbinary people use women's 

I think it's a habit for them but they also mostly have pixie cuts and bind while still doing full makeup, I feel the ones who may actually experience dysphoria over personal aesthetic of having a flat chest while presenting feminine there would be more of a change and would consider all washrooms gender-neutral since gender isn't real to them 

Its frustrating but I wouldn't say the trend is fitting in, but rather the trend is exploring your gender and it's just popular to do so they feel safer doing it which is fine until you start trying to scam people (Jude's top surgery fund has ranged from 2000 to 7000 and now it's almost 10000 when I know that top is covered by OHIP even if you're nonbinary so that money is going right into their pocket) just because you feel it would be easier since they look up to you 

Also if they felt so strongly about the ED stuff all their tagged photos wouldn't be for thinspo instagrams. 

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I was hoping Jude's video on being single would set the record straight about their relationship, but I guess Jude also has a personal instagram (judasmariekarda) being affectionate with Brad so I'm still confused. I know he ''seems'' like a nice guy, but the way he always commented on Jude's pics, Jude liking the comment of him being pushy or something related, his constant yearofthejude hashtags was overkill and just straight up creepy in my opinion. The relationship between the two of them just looks like as some have pointed out here, that Jude is leading him on, but at the same time its like Brad dude come on, you gotta realize that you're holding onto something that isn't there.  

It might just be a coincidence, but I feel bad for Cody if he's had to keep changing his username on Instagram because people won't let go of what happened between him and Jude.

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Am I the only one who finds it really obnoxious when people brag about drug or alcohol use on platforms that allow minors? Perhaps I'm old fashioned, but it always rubs me a bit the wrong way... and strikes me as immature. Also, for someone with sooo much top dysphoria, Jude sure like airing the ta-ta's a lot! (and then gets winy when the posts get reported and taken down "Waaaah, it's just a nip! Why is womynz nips worse then man nips! Also, I'm not even a womyn!")

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(Jude's top surgery fund has ranged from 2000 to 7000 and now it's almost 10000 when I know that top is covered by OHIP even if you're nonbinary so that money is going right into their pocket)

 
 

This will be interesting to see... if that money is actually used for top surgery or something else. In my country, top surgery isn't covered unless you go the "full FtM route" according the strict and time consuming guidelines (which kind of suck, but I guess it's to ensure that people don't get surgery for cosmetic reasons or make rash decisions on government money), but if in Canada you can actually can get it covered, why is the fund even there? Are the waiting lists insane or is there another reason? 

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This will be interesting to see... if that money is actually used for top surgery or something else. In my country, top surgery isn't covered unless you go the "full FtM route" according the strict and time consuming guidelines (which kind of suck, but I guess it's to ensure that people don't get surgery for cosmetic reasons or make rash decisions on government money), but if in Canada you can actually can get it covered, why is the fund even there? Are the waiting lists insane or is there another reason? 

 

Nope! If they wanted a surgery they just need to wait for OHIP's approval and book with Dr Mclean. If they have OHIP approval already they could get top within a month. 

I've never seen a nonbinary person seeking top surgery turned away, what would a surgeon care when its still a paid surgery. It's not a charity, Ontario covers top at any age and all prescriptions when you're 25 or under. If they wanted money they could uhhhh get a freaking job.

I don't even think the surgery is over $4000 for keyhole anyways. The entire thing made my stomach turn because I know the reality of living here and it's clear what that money will go to, especially knowing if they do actually go to Japan they'll want travel money.

 

Edit: Now that I think about it they wouldn't have needed to pay for T either. They started taking it after prescriptions became covered as far as I know.

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Nope! If they wanted a surgery they just need to wait for OHIP's approval and book with Dr Mclean. If they have OHIP approval already they could get top within a month. 

 

Wut, it's THAT easy and quick in Canada? Now I'm really interested in what that fund is really for. It's all starting to look a bit fishy... 

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Am I the only one who finds it really obnoxious when people brag about drug or alcohol use on platforms that allow minors? Perhaps I'm old fashioned, but it always rubs me a bit the wrong way... and strikes me as immature. Also, for someone with sooo much top dysphoria, Jude sure like airing the ta-ta's a lot! (and then gets winy when the posts get reported and taken down "Waaaah, it's just a nip! Why is womynz nips worse then man nips! Also, I'm not even a womyn!")

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pot is legal iin a lit of of places, also, most minors are already smoking  it anyway? It's about to become federally legal (as far as I know) here in the US so yeah. also jude wasn't "bragging" they simply asked how people's day was? 

Nope! If they wanted a surgery they just need to wait for OHIP's approval and book with Dr Mclean. If they have OHIP approval already they could get top within a month. 

I've never seen a nonbinary person seeking top surgery turned away, what would a surgeon care when its still a paid surgery. It's not a charity, Ontario covers top at any age and all prescriptions when you're 25 or under. If they wanted money they could uhhhh get a freaking job.

I don't even think the surgery is over $4000 for keyhole anyways. The entire thing made my stomach turn because I know the reality of living here and it's clear what that money will go to, especially knowing if they do actually go to Japan they'll want travel money.

 

Edit: Now that I think about it they wouldn't have needed to pay for T either. They started taking it after prescriptions became covered as far as I know.

 

dang, that's super messed up. Does Canada give free insurance or do you have to sign up/pay for it? 

regardless,e I need to move there bc I nwe'd prescriptions and I'm broke as hell haha 

 

the whole top surgery fund thing is messed up though, if they do a live ill try to remember to ask them why they need a fund if its covered in Canada, because that really is interesting. hopefully they have a plausable excuse, but if not, then that's ssuper messed up on their part. 

 

also on a random note regarding brad; when I asked about their relationship with him on rykers live show on Instagram, (I basically asked what they are to each other) and ryker almost didn't answer the question but then said "I don't think jude even knows". So I'm thinking that maybe jude and brad are kind of a platonic / friends with benefits type deal? I mean jude did mention on their "how to be single" video that they had told brad they weren't looking for anything serious. 

I was hoping Jude's video on being single would set the record straight about their relationship, but I guess Jude also has a personal instagram (judasmariekarda) being affectionate with Brad so I'm still confused. I know he ''seems'' like a nice guy, but the way he always commented on Jude's pics, Jude liking the comment of him being pushy or something related, his constant yearofthejude hashtags was overkill and just straight up creepy in my opinion. The relationship between the two of them just looks like as some have pointed out here, that Jude is leading him on, but at the same time its like Brad dude come on, you gotta realize that you're holding onto something that isn't there.  

It might just be a coincidence, but I feel bad for Cody if he's had to keep changing his username on Instagram because people won't let go of what happened between him and Jude.

 

I think he's justjust really enthusiastic about jude. Some of his comments (I haven't seen them I don't think) may have been borderline creepy, but I find them endearing and almost possessive and protective of jude. I think he's just a sweet guy who's head over heels for jude. 

 

I didn't know Cody changed his username bc of that. Poor guy. I'm still on judes side regarding that (for the most part since we haven't had the opportunity to hear codys side that I know of) but I don't think it's fair for people to be going after him on Instagram months later. I think his new username is really cute though and I hope he keeps it. 

Am I the only one who finds it really obnoxious when people brag about drug or alcohol use on platforms that allow minors? Perhaps I'm old fashioned, but it always rubs me a bit the wrong way... and strikes me as immature. Also, for someone with sooo much top dysphoria, Jude sure like airing the ta-ta's a lot! (and then gets winy when the posts get reported and taken down "Waaaah, it's just a nip! Why is womynz nips worse then man nips! Also, I'm not even a womyn!")

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i also think that jude gets fussy over being reported not because of "OMG tits" I think it's because of the fact that, regardless of what gender/sex you are, NIPPLES ARE NOT OFFENSIVE. Also it's rude of you to mock jude's identity simply because you don't agree with them. Now THAT is immature.

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@Judasplutos Take. A. Chill. Pill. I'm not "mocking" anyone's identity (I'm one of the peeps here who's putting in an effort to use correct pronouns). I'm allowed to make my own observations and have my opinions and air them, that's what this place is for! You're acting like I'm personally attacking you. You're not Jude. Stop being so white-knighty, perhaps go read the rules of the site one more time.

Back on topic, it still bothers me a bit how much Jude focuses on looking as skinny as possible, while denying anything ED related, even in their past. Keep seeing comments a'la "Body goals" on their pics and it's making me low key a bit upset that they might be serious... 

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can we also acknowledge that they liked this creepy comment and then everyone (including their not boyfriend) came to tell this old dude how creepy he was? and jude just liked the comment and was happy probably because he called them skinny

 

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jude tends to like almost all, if not all of the comments on their posts lately. That dude was super creepy though 

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that’s not even true lol :rlnotimp:

 

lol if you  look at judes comments though, you'll see that they like most of them 

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