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Bubzbeauty / Lindy


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Her "rant" is so fucking long, ugh. She goes on to list all those "non-romantic" things that are romantic to her and they're all completely normal daily tasks and things that I consider normal for any kind of relationship? I can't tell if she's bragging or complaining about not getting more for VD.

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Does she know that when she makes these stupid posts, everyone can see right through her? lmfao

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Does she know that when she makes these stupid posts, everyone can see right through her? lmfao

 

Maybe this is her new way of ranting about Tim? She's really super pissed but since she has promised not to bring up their marital issues anymore she does it this way? She acts like everything is good, everything is fine, but in reality she's boiling :rageplz:

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Is she trying to reassure fans that Tim cares for her or is she actually trying to reassure herself that he cares? :alpacaworry:

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Just give her some fucking flowers, Tim.
My fiance got me a card and literally two pokemon plushies for Valentines, and I almost cried. It's that simple to make someone happy.

I hate watching Lindy always keep up this fake-ass happy facade all the time (like how her everyday life with Tim is romantic), when even if she cries about something that's obviously hurt her/hurting her now, she'll end it with something like "But thats okay! Life does that sometimes, we have to grow and learn." It sounds like how she ended that one vlog talking about Tim going off and drinking, I can't remember it too well but I'm pretty sure she ended up saying she used to blame his friends for dragging him down, now she doesn't because they're just "living their life".

No, I still think Tim's friends are shit, just like him. If you know one of your mates has a wife and kid at home - you respect that and work around it, not invite them out every week to get smashed till 4AM just because you don't have their responsibilities. And Tim shouldn't run off with his single friends all the time doing what they're doing - because he's not one of them.  Having fun and going out is great, everyone needs it, especially parents - but not all the time. Not like that. For once, Tim, stay home, do the mushy 'commercialized' stuff, get her flowers, take her out...anything.

 

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I can't even roll my eyes as much as I want to at that 🙄 But I guess fishing for pity comments is better than admitting that you're going out a day later anyway? Jfc, you're a grown woman, not 17, Bubz.

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i feel like bubz is purposely complaining about shit in order for tim to do what she wants him to do. like he didnt do shit for her on valentines day, so she goes to her followers and makes a long rant, then he does something nice to her after the fact. thats not genuine at all. if he really cared and wanted to show his love and appreciation on this holiday, he wouldve done it in the first place. didnt have to be anything fancy, couldve been something simple! he didnt do anything until bubz complained. and i thought she said she was gonna stop putting her relationship issues out to the public?

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Alright this took about a week to work on in between my actual life but here we go. As usual, my phone won't upload the right way, so you have to read from the last picture UP for chronological order.

 I don't know how to spoiler (still) so if someone could inform me of how to do that on mobile, I'll edit the post as a spoiler and that would be greaaaaat.

I highlighted in reference to everything I mentioned in previous comments. Ex: how Lindy doesnt know and still doesnt know how to communicate with Tim, then spontaneously implodes. Ex: How Lindy emotionally manipulates Tim for her own gain without communicating to him appropriately. Ex: How both of my previous (Examples) are further back by the fact that she couldnt even properly communicate her issues to him in MARRIAGE Counseling, and instead chose to explode in anger which caused Tim to explode in anger because he didnt understand where her bitter and resentful personality had come from - because she consistently failed and continues to fail to communicate. And most disturbing to me: how it appears she was just waiting for Tim to admit defeat by saying she deserves someone better before telling him to "Come Home". 

As I previously discussed in my other comments, Tim should still divorce her. Their lifestyles and expectations are too different and her continued demonstrated inability to communicate properly and without emotional manipulation and abuse/passive- aggressiveness/explosions/implosions to the point where he doesn't even know if she's playing mind-games with him are incredibly unhealthy. Yellow parts are important explanatory parts of her book that I found most revealing about her character and/or mentality. Red parts are unhealthy behaviors. The parts about mistakes are the parts I referenced with regards to the similarities they hold with her vague tumblr posts which reaffirm the notion that she was unfaithful. 

There's a point at which she admits she does lurk these forums, which explains her very convenient behavioral changes in vlogs and tweets after comments on both GG and PULL.

And finally: The Carmen part. This is actually a totally random and entirely speculation/conspiracy on my part so you can ignore this, because i think it's outlandish but at the same time, in my brain it makes sense. Looking at her detailing and metaphorical explanation of her "subscriber Carmen", my conspiracy is that Carmen is Tim. Carmen's totaled car are Tim's hopes and dreams, and the job interview is the job that he gave up to be with Lindy. The Ex is old Lindy, the one she continuously says she "shed her skin" of, "like a snake". Phew.

 

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Thank you for posting those, Avara!

I only skipped but I'm glad I didn't invest money in that. Her writing style is so... boring. And too casual? I don't know what I expected, but probably something more professional. Maybe I'm just not interested enough in Lindy anymore to care about her stories.

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Thank you for posting those, Avara!

I only skipped but I'm glad I didn't invest money in that. Her writing style is so... boring. And too casual? I don't know what I expected, but probably something more professional. Maybe I'm just not interested enough in Lindy anymore to care about her stories.

 

lol No probs. It was painful to read through because it felt like a book made for unimaginative 13/14 year olds who collect "Dream" posters and justgirlythings quotes off tumblr, and maintain the inability to retain the core message of a chapter. She literally puts tl;dr summary bullet points at the end of each chapter. I didn't know there could be anything more averagely written than 50 Shades. Fortunately I didn't have to spend any money on the book, but if anyone else wants a copy of it, let me know and I'll try to pull the file for you to read on kindle app.

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Avara,  please put that under a spoiler. Awful wall of text.

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Avara,  please put that under a spoiler. Awful wall of text.

 

Tell me more about how you didn't read my third sentence.

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@Avara Thanks for sharing that. (I hope your careful, copyright and all that? I have no clue when it comes to books honestly.)

This must be one of the first instances where I wish she would have relied on a more talented ghostwriter instead lol.

You can create a spoiler on mobile if you leave out the blanks in this:

[ spoiler ] your text/images [ / spoiler ]

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@Avara Thanks for sharing that. (I hope your careful, copyright and all that? I have no clue when it comes to books honestly.)

This must be one of the first instances where I wish she would have relied on a more talented ghostwriter instead lol.

You can create a spoiler on mobile if you leave out the blanks in this:

[ spoiler ] your text/images [ / spoiler ]

 

Thank you so much, Popsicle!! Time to go back through my comments on this thread lol

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Her "rant" is so fucking long, ugh. She goes on to list all those "non-romantic" things that are romantic to her and they're all completely normal daily tasks and things that I consider normal for any kind of relationship? I can't tell if she's bragging or complaining about not getting more for VD.

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I don't think these completely normal everyday tasks though. at the very least not in the house i grew up in, not in the house my partner grew up in. our parents' houses had pretty distinct gender roles. in my family, the only romantic gesture i recall seeing was flowers and maybe some chocolate for my mother's day. that's it. 

while my partner and me try to be more romantic with eachother, we still don't do this kind of things [or anything similar] for eachother, not on a regular basis. we DO try to do is adopting more of the chinese/korean/japanese/(insert other Asian countries where this is common) way of showing affection through gestures because we do think they're romantic. 

i wish i were able to buy my partner flowers every week, or every month though, as a 'western traditional way of being romantic". 

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I don't think these completely normal everyday tasks though. at the very least not in the house i grew up in, not in the house my partner grew up in. our parents' houses had pretty distinct gender roles. in my family, the only romantic gesture i recall seeing was flowers and maybe some chocolate for my mother's day. that's it. 

while my partner and me try to be more romantic with eachother, we still don't do this kind of things [or anything similar] for eachother, not on a regular basis. we DO try to do is adopting more of the chinese/korean/japanese/(insert other Asian countries where this is common) way of showing affection through gestures because we do think they're romantic. 

i wish i were able to buy my partner flowers every week, or every month though, as a 'western traditional way of being romantic". 

 

Buying flowers doesn't actually happen as often in the west as one might think, its more of a special occasion thing. 

The small gestures are big in the US too. But overall its is expected in a married setting. 

Don't forget, Lindy and Tim were both born in raised in Europe. They have the western expectations already ingrained into them. If i remember correctly from her old Vlogs and videos before they were married Tim used to spoil her on special events. Flowers, jewlery, and nice dinners.

Shes just trying to make herself feel better than everyone else. 

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