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Guess she did go to HK ūüôĄ

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Guess she did go to HK ūüôĄ

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This is so upsetting ūü§¨ How can you leave one child without saying goodbye, then post this? It's so clear who is her favorite, even we can tell. Poor Isaac ūüėě

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Re: leaving Isaac while he was asleep - I think my mom did this quite a lot in my first years of life as I had to be handed to my grandparents a lot while my parents worked full time. I was really attached to my mom and wouldn't let her go so she had to sneak out when I fell asleep, but I still remember how inconsolable I was when I woke up and found out she left, like I literally can still remember the feeling and it's not nice. Sadly I would say I still have some abandonment issues/ anxious attachment to this day and I worry about how it's gonna impact my future relationships. Not an ok thing to do to children and I feel like Isaac has always been passed around a lot his whole life because both of his parents are so selfish and immature. 

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bubz has an instagram highlight dedicated to ayla but not isaac ..... the highlight is titled.... drum roll please..... SASS QUEEN jdhfkshg her favourtism is so annoying T_T

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Re: leaving Isaac while he was asleep - I think my mom did this quite a lot in my first years of life as I had to be handed to my grandparents a lot while my parents worked full time. I was really attached to my mom and wouldn't let her go so she had to sneak out when I fell asleep, but I still remember how inconsolable I was when I woke up and found out she left, like I literally can still remember the feeling and it's not nice. Sadly I would say I still have some abandonment issues/ anxious attachment to this day and I worry about how it's gonna impact my future relationships. Not an ok thing to do to children and I feel like Isaac has always been passed around a lot his whole life because both of his parents are so selfish and immature. 

 

So sorry to hear that :( I think many of us have had similar past of being "left behind" by a parent and hence have trust issues. Even in your case I believe you didn't want to be left by your mother 'cause you didn't feel safe without her. And I'm sure the same applies to Isaac. He doesn't have anyone else but his mother, his dad is a piece of shit who doesn't care for either of his kids let alone his wife. Isaac didn't even have grandparent who would take care of him, he's always with his mom.

I really wish Lindy would understand what she does is wrong but there's no way she could ever admit neglecting her child.

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Probably a stupid thought, but if both parents dislike Isaac that much, maybe they should just leave him with his grandparents. At least he'd have a more stable and loving home there... :alpacadone: I know he really loves both his parents and his sister, so this wouldn't be a solution, but I wish there was a way to make life better for him in the long run.

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Probably a stupid thought, but if both parents dislike Isaac that much, maybe they should just leave him with his grandparents. At least he'd have a more stable and loving home there... :alpacadone: I know he really loves both his parents and his sister, so this wouldn't be a solution, but I wish there was a way to make life better for him in the long run.

 

Instead of abandoning him for good they should go to therapy and workout WHY THEY DISLIKE THEIR BABY!

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Instead of abandoning him for good they should go to therapy and workout WHY THEY DISLIKE THEIR BABY!

 

I think I just lost all of my hope for them already, they disgust me so much with their favoritism...

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I think I just lost all of my hope for them already, they disgust me so much with their favoritism...

 

I know what you mean, I just believe if Isaac would be given to his grandparents to take care of he would suffer so much.. There's no win for him right now...

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I understand why Bubz hate Isaac. He's an exact copy of Tim. It's just an innocent baby but I look at Isac and feel irritated. It's just because it's exactly mini Tim. Considering he's such a shit father and husband (and ugly) it's not hard to resent the child that looks like him. Not saying that justifies it, Isaac can't help it, but it makes a lot of sense to me tbh.

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I understand why Bubz hate Isaac. He's an exact copy of Tim. It's just an innocent baby but I look at Isac and feel irritated. It's just because it's exactly mini Tim. Considering he's such a shit father and husband (and ugly) it's not hard to resent the child that looks like him. Not saying that justifies it, Isaac can't help it, but it makes a lot of sense to me tbh.

 

But he's nothing "like" Tim. They might have similar faces but he's never going to be Tim. They are not carved out of the same wood, there are no similar traits between them. If anything Isaac is a copy of Lindy personality wise but much better.

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I understand why Bubz hate Isaac. He's an exact copy of Tim. It's just an innocent baby but I look at Isac and feel irritated. It's just because it's exactly mini Tim. Considering he's such a shit father and husband (and ugly) it's not hard to resent the child that looks like him. Not saying that justifies it, Isaac can't help it, but it makes a lot of sense to me tbh.

 

I know what you mean and you're not saying that it justifies Lindy's behavior towards him but I get where you're coming from. Lindy is just a shit mom, whether her son looks like Tim or not. SHE just needs to step up and cut that shit out. I feel so bad for Issac and it makes me really despise ppl like Lindy and Tim who have 2 wonderful and healthy babies, while there are ppl out there who can't even have one child of their own who would love that baby no matter what ugh. 

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I understand why Bubz hate Isaac. He's an exact copy of Tim. It's just an innocent baby but I look at Isac and feel irritated. It's just because it's exactly mini Tim. Considering he's such a shit father and husband (and ugly) it's not hard to resent the child that looks like him. Not saying that justifies it, Isaac can't help it, but it makes a lot of sense to me tbh.

 

I think it's her narcissism streak that shows with her kids appearances. You can see that Ayla has a variation of Tim's nose and it took her ages to stop obsessing over who Ayla looked like. She put her self in Ayla's name as well even with her original baby girl name ( Lily ) she wanted it to mean " Lindy I Love You (ūü§ģūü§ģ)¬†¬†" ¬†Ayla isn't Ayla to Lindy she's an extension of herself. A lot of mums live through their daughters and it can lead to very unhealthy toxic behaviours. I.e eating disorders. " When I¬†imagined having¬†a daughter I thought she'd be a Barbie doll¬†not that pig!" Just a rough example.¬†

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