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cozykitsune Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]


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Why does everyone think she's leaving Japan for good?! She still has all her stuff in the apartment. She would have to wrap that up before she leaves. This is just a visit imo.

But this doesn't mean that she will not leave Japan soon. Just not right now.

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Why does everyone think she's leaving Japan for good?! She still has all her stuff in the apartment. She would have to wrap that up before she leaves. This is just a visit imo.

But this doesn't mean that she will not leave Japan soon. Just not right now.

 

No one said she left for good now. She's home for thanksgiving.


The apartment thing doesn't make sense fyi, there are companies that can do the move out for you.

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Why does everyone think she's leaving Japan for good?! She still has all her stuff in the apartment. She would have to wrap that up before she leaves. This is just a visit imo.

But this doesn't mean that she will not leave Japan soon. Just not right now.

 

I have no idea. She's not getting much of anywhere with her uwu aesthetic suitcase unless she plans on shipping everything back.

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I'm sure Kenna is Asexual, no grown man or woman would willingly deprive themselves of love, intimacy and relationships for no reason (religious celibacy, anti-natalism, etc). She has never had a boyfriend at 24 and clearly hasn't changed her mind. I don't get why we keep harping on this subject when we have no real reason to doubt her that wouldn't apply to LGB people (compulsive heterosexuality for example or lesbians who watch gay male pornography, gay men who come out after a wife and 6 kids later, etc.)

If people can come to terms that they are not straight in their 40s, surely a teenager being confused is even more understandable?

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Why does everyone think she's leaving Japan for good?! She still has all her stuff in the apartment. She would have to wrap that up before she leaves. This is just a visit imo.

But this doesn't mean that she will not leave Japan soon. Just not right now.

 

Did you take a personal look into her apartment? Because on her last photos there's only been furniture, which probably comes with the room and has to stay there. Some of those pre-furnished rooms/AirBNBs come with simple decorations as well. For all we know, she said she'll ship some of her stuff back home and she could have already finished doing that. We only saw one suitcase, but there's no proof she didn't bring her second one with her.

Right now both options are possible, she could go back to Japan shortly or move on to her parent's place after visiting her sister's family.

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@fringo because pull keeps trying to quote other posts when i'm trying to quote this one:

she's selling her furniture, couldn't get an entertainment visa (because she's not an entertainer and couldn't break into the modeling or voice acting industry), and isn't even in language school, so her visa is almost up.

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She does come off as shy/socially akward. But I feel like since she has access to tons of money&free time, coupled with her having no grasp on what its like to be an independent adult, that its hard for her to develop friendships. Let alone a lovelife. She can't relate to actual independent adults. She still thinks 24 is a kid. Like girl no. Its like she refuses to grow up. I feel like she expects friends to be like her and just want to go out and do stuff on a whim whilst  failing to realize thats not how it works in real life. Bills, works, school, etc stress ppl out like major. I feel like alot of her potentially friends (coughs Kaila coughs) just get so frustrated with her childlike immature behavior early on. And Kenna being a snowflake sees it has an attack on her. So she can't really form friendships because she's legit an adult child. 

This girls has never had a job, successfully completed any form of schooling, or successful completed any goals at 24. Thats kinda sad tbh.

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Just to add to the topic. I also think that perhaps kenna is asexual but puts a a romantic asexual label on it because she, having such a huge ego and doesn't want the rejection that comes with wanting strictly romantic relationships. 

But maybe that's me giving her too much credibility and she just has her standard too high ..

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She does come off as shy/socially akward. But I feel like since she has access to tons of money&free time, coupled with her having no grasp on what its like to be an independent adult, that its hard for her to develop friendships. Let alone a lovelife. She can't relate to actual independent adults. She still thinks 24 is a kid. Like girl no. Its like she refuses to grow up. I feel like she expects friends to be like her and just want to go out and do stuff on a whim whilst  failing to realize thats not how it works in real life. Bills, works, school, etc stress ppl out like major. I feel like alot of her potentially friends (coughs Kaila coughs) just get so frustrated with her childlike immature behavior early on. And Kenna being a snowflake sees it has an attack on her. So she can't really form friendships because she's legit an adult child. 

This girls has never had a job, successfully completed any form of schooling, or successful completed any goals at 24. Thats kinda sad tbh.

 

I agree with this more or less. I myself am rather shy and awkward but the place Kenna and I are different are probably our demands and expectations. Not to further beat the dead horse but, judging by how she wrote the birthday post to Grace, she seems to be the type of person who wants to call the shots always. Relationships are about compromise, including friendships. If she doesn’t yield a little, people will eventually get fed up with her and not find her worth the trouble, especially if she rarely does anything I want to do after I’ve catered to her whim. 

it seems like, as mentioned, her family has enabled her so much that she finds it hard to compromise with others. People like Grace night stay with her because she knows her for so long or has the patience and personality to put up with it. Most normal people can’t. I agree that it would be easier to make friends if she had gone to school or had a traditional job, but the other half of her battle is her personality. It’s just...going to drive people away easily. 

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Why does everyone think she's leaving Japan for good?! She still has all her stuff in the apartment. She would have to wrap that up before she leaves. This is just a visit imo.

But this doesn't mean that she will not leave Japan soon. Just not right now.

 

While there's no conclusive proof, it's not entirely out of the realm of possibility. She mentioned selling some furniture a couple of weeks ago, and she was probably staying in a furnished apartment (so no need to move everything out). 

However, if she DID fly all the way to the US for Thanksgiving only to go back to Japan, stay for a tiny bit longer doing nothing but sitting in an apartment and going to Starbucks, then she's even dumber with money than I thought she was.

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Tbh, I don't mind all this that much. She also described herself during high school as a "slut", doesn't mean it's true and teenagers say dumb shit to seem edgy and impress peers. These videos are from 3 years ago and I don't fault her if she hadn't figured out her sexuality at 20/21. She might describe herself as straight and talking about possible relationships because she didn't know better back then and she grew up very sheltered and asexuality is not as known as homosexuality or bisexuality. I would have said too, that I was straight at 20, and this changed heavily 2-3 years later as I discovered sexualities and gender identities I hadn't known existing before. There are people, who discover their true gender or sexuality in their 40s, 50s, or 60s. I know Kenna lies like hell, but I don't really mind that she called herself straight 3 years ago. 

What I find indeed annoying is her putting an extra thick layer on being asexual and aromantic. It just seems exaggerating and in well known Kenna-fashion she is of course very different from everybody else and very, very special 9_9

 

I wouldn't mind it much either if she hadn't gone on to lie and say she's always known (let's not forget how her label of slut in HS was suddenly heartbreaker once she 'came out' as aroace) then proceed to shame anyone who asked her questions about sexuality. 

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Amusing (and maybe at least a nice gesture) that Bree is wearing Kenna’s earrings but Kenna isn’t wearing them herself. I do wonder if she’s told her family or got some for her sisters though. I would have been proud to at least show my own family something I’d consider a pretty big achievement. 
 

sorry if the photos aren’t great

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