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Not to mention she doesn't even care about mental health outside of depression and anxiety. Aka the stuff she has. Or claims to have at least. At this point Holly has lied about so much I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out she was faking. 

Anyone who has anything outside of that? Even more shit out of luck. Holly will gladly use BPD to demonize someone.  There is no way she'd be able to handle anything like DID. No way she'd even begin to understand any sort of OCD.  She is only going to hurt people and she knows it but doesn't care. 

 

 

It's like TheRewiredSoul: nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs edition. Look how great things turned out for him and he didnt already shoot himself in the foot by cheating on a husband with someone else's husband, AND then turn around and try to victim blame to protect her mister in a sketchy cp scandal. :alpacaheadshake:

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Not to mention she doesn't even care about mental health outside of depression and anxiety. Aka the stuff she has. Or claims to have at least. At this point Holly has lied about so much I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out she was faking. 

Anyone who has anything outside of that? Even more shit out of luck. Holly will gladly use BPD to demonize someone.  There is no way she'd be able to handle anything like DID. No way she'd even begin to understand any sort of OCD.  She is only going to hurt people and she knows it but doesn't care. 

 

 

She must have really hit rock bottom with money, her and Jared assuming they are still together so she's trying to squeak in her mental health mondays despite I remember her saying she wasn't going to do them again at one point? now she's just going to use this as her cash cow again because people are so fucking dumb this day and age and will eat her shit up. 

Well, it's gonna bite her in the ass. I have never heard of mental health advocates online ending well ever. So this might be her own destruction since all eyes are on her now. But hey go play doctor, which by the way that's illegal to do Holly.

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She's gonna end up really hurting someone with this and you just know she'll make it out to not be her fault. 

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She's gonna end up really hurting someone with this and you just know she'll make it out to not be her fault. 

It wasn’t her intent to kill someone with her shitty advice so no one can hold her accountable and if you do you’re abusive just like her mother.

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She literally used Heidi's (alleged) mental disorder as a weapon against her, to delegitimize things she has said and experienced. If that isn't the biggest offense against people with mental health issues then I don't know what is. No amount of shitty apologies will fix that, because it was wrong on such a fundamental level. 

I'd rather take mental health advice from fucking Hitler than her. 

 

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One major reason Holly should have never become an advocate for mental health is the way she uses suicide to garner attention and pity. Suicide threats are very triggering for those who really need mental help and yet here is Holly using it to bait her audience into silence/total worship. That sure is healthy Holly. 

 

The other thing is that you can actually go to workshops/classes that train you on what to do in case of emergencies involving mental health (what to do if someone threatens to commit suicide, how to guide someone into getting help for themselves, general knowledge on other mental illnesses like schizophrenia, BPD, etc). I took a class like that my freshman year of college and they called it Mental Health First Aid and you can earn certification after you've completed the entire course. Like... Holly would never be certified to give any sort of advice, let alone provide some sort of aid to other people in a crisis (like how she handled Etika's suicide)

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Holly Conrad has no business giving mental health advice to anyone, not even herself. Just because you have a troubled past does not make you an expert in mental health, especially when your coping skills including abusing your now ex husband, constant suicide baiting to get your way, fuck-luring a friends husband's away from her because you believed your RP romance was real, and then armchair diagnosing her to all your twitter followers. She still can't even understand why Heidi was so mad she fucked her husband because "well they were sleeping apart and I really wanted it soooOoooOo".

Someone should ask her a question that mirrors her situation and see what she says. "My elderly neighbor has an outdoor dog that she legally owns and provides what I believe to be the bare minimum care to. The dog has shelter, food, water, and seems to be taken to the vet when ill, it just lives outside and looks sad. The dog seems happy when I'm around though! I get it, she's old, she's trying, she claims to love the dog, but she won't give it up to a better home. I've offered to take the dog from her numerous times but she refuses and gets mad every time, saying she loves the dog, has had the dog for years (it was her late husbands), and that the dog is cared for and happy. But I believe the dog is being neglected and I could love the dog more so I should have it. Should I just take it? Cut the fence and rescue it? She'll get over it I know she will and she'll never suspect me. I'll tell her the dog must have run away from her! Should I tell her she's abusing the dog? The cops wont do anything because the dog is technically being cared for I just feel sooo bad for it and want it to come live with me instead. Help me Holly what should I do?

Maybe change dog to bird and she'll have a different opinion lol.

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Is there evidence of her emotionally abusing Ross or is it speculation based on their interactions in videos, etc?

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Is there evidence of her emotionally abusing Ross or is it speculation based on their interactions in videos, etc?

It’s been very heavily implied and as good as confirmed. Ross mentioned in a video being in an abusive relationship in his 20s and listed signs of abuse. He was with Holly for most of his 20s and a lot of the points resemble behaviour Holly’s displayed like threatening suicide and being controlling.

He’s also commented on a tweet by Breebun saying he believes abusive people can change as he has experienced it in a relationship. Holly has also made a historic tweet about how he, Aarin, and Suzy had helped her ‘learn to stop hating herself and hurting others’. 

I’m on my phone so I don’t have the sources. I’ll post them later if no one else comes up with them in the meanwhile.

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Holly Conrad has no business giving mental health advice to anyone, not even herself. Just because you have a troubled past does not make you an expert in mental health, especially when your coping skills including abusing your now ex husband, constant suicide baiting to get your way, fuck-luring a friends husband's away from her because you believed your RP romance was real, and then armchair diagnosing her to all your twitter followers. She still can't even understand why Heidi was so mad she fucked her husband because "well they were sleeping apart and I really wanted it soooOoooOo".

Someone should ask her a question that mirrors her situation and see what she says. "My elderly neighbor has an outdoor dog that she legally owns and provides what I believe to be the bare minimum care to. The dog has shelter, food, water, and seems to be taken to the vet when ill, it just lives outside and looks sad. The dog seems happy when I'm around though! I get it, she's old, she's trying, she claims to love the dog, but she won't give it up to a better home. I've offered to take the dog from her numerous times but she refuses and gets mad every time, saying she loves the dog, has had the dog for years (it was her late husbands), and that the dog is cared for and happy. But I believe the dog is being neglected and I could love the dog more so I should have it. Should I just take it? Cut the fence and rescue it? She'll get over it I know she will and she'll never suspect me. I'll tell her the dog must have run away from her! Should I tell her she's abusing the dog? The cops wont do anything because the dog is technically being cared for I just feel sooo bad for it and want it to come live with me instead. Help me Holly what should I do?

Maybe change dog to bird and she'll have a different opinion lol.

 

Oo I like it. I was trying to figure out a way to ask her about suicide baiting so that she'd actually address it instead of being like "I sAiD i WaSn'T gOnNa TaLk AbOuT dRaMa" 

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I was watching an old episode of Game Grumps last night, and during their Super Mario Galaxy run they talk about Ross and Holly. Obviously this is a few years ago now, but Dan says "he makes her happy, and he's be dead without her." Arin then says something like, it's amazing how perfect they are for each other.

It's sad how much that changed - I hope if Ross was emotionally abused by Holly he can recover. 

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Is there a new thread or is there just now much posts as of now?

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It's been quiet, until now. Other than Holly wanting to adopt a chicken to add to her animal hoarding pigeon collection, just because she's not tweeting about the drama doesn't mean she's let it go just yet.

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Is Holly trying to say that Jared was blackmailed into staying with Heidi now? 

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It's been quiet, until now. Other than Holly wanting to adopt a chicken to add to her animal hoarding pigeon collection, just because she's not tweeting about the drama doesn't mean she's let it go just yet.

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Is Holly trying to say that Jared was blackmailed into staying with Heidi now? 

 

If Heidi was blackmailing him to stay faithful why would she agree to a joint statement to the fans that Jared would get to see and add his own opinions to? 

That was the game plan before Jared went into mega stupid jerk mode and blocked her and made his own statement without her. 

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It's been quiet, until now. Other than Holly wanting to adopt a chicken to add to her animal hoarding pigeon collection, just because she's not tweeting about the drama doesn't mean she's let it go just yet.

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Is Holly trying to say that Jared was blackmailed into staying with Heidi now? 

 

that's been a thing for a while. Heidi saying she would "end all of their careers" if Jared and Holly didn't stop screwing around behind her back counts as blackmail. Some people are saying she was using the stuff on the phone too, even tho Heidi stated she left as soon as she found the phone.

because, again, being angry at your partner for continuing to cheat on you makes you abusive. /s

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