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I followed this thread now and then and commented once or twice but i must say i am really happy for her.. it seems like she has learned to accept herself the way she is and to me it seems like she is really happy and finally "free" of that pressure! and i must say, unlike other snowflakes she really put in effort in learning japanese and she sounds good
I am SO tired of her. She has so much potential (she is talented and by now has access to all kind of things to improve her music videos, her style, etc.) but she doesn‘t use any of this. It‘s always the same kind of clothes, same make up and same hair... She couldn't even get rid of tha stupid ponytail for her halloween costume. To me she is so predictable and never surprises or amazes me bcs it‘s always THE SAME SHIT OVER AND OVER AND OVER...
she really is a boring person.. in my first language we‘d say she is so "anonym" like, she isn‘t interesting as a person nor as a "model"/"influencer“ nor as a snowflake.. whenever i see her or her posts i‘m like meh :/
i agree in Europe I have zero privileges because of where I come from and growing up I experienced so much xenophobia and still do now (kids always considered me ugly bcs of my south-east european features) but an american would see me and think: oh she is white = privileged = she has no problems
I am not quite sure if this is the right place for it but i really need to get this off my chest and since i don't really have friends and i really struggle with telling people about my feelings and negative things that are going on in my life i feel like i can say it here... i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a couple of months... and over all this time he became not only my boyfriend but also my best friend.. he showed me lots of stuff and we had so many deep talks about the world and life. and so we built a wonderful and strong friendship, even though we argue alot about stupid things (mostly because i am very insecure and jealous). yesterday we argued again and things got out of hand and i feel like this time it's over, forreal... even though we have a great friendship and he was an amazing boyfriend to me in general (like always bringing me little presents when he went somewhere without me, always making me feel good about myself, remembering things that men usually forget, etc.) i started feeling like i am not good enough... we've been together for a long time now and we just stuck at this one place in our relationship.. we never talked about moving together or making things abit more serious. it makes me feel less worth than other women bcs all the other girls around me move together with their boyfriends, get married or get kids.. they start working on a future together... but we just kinda stuck somewhere and stopped moving forward however, i try to tell myself it's better if we are apart and if we are meant to be together we will be... but i can't stop thinking about how i lost my best friend and that i probably missed the chance to marry the man i love... sorry english isn't my first language and i am very sad and just needed to get this off my chest rn