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Tension/eyebrow headache is driving me up the wall. Like I really do not know what to do anymore. I have tried patches, massages, stone rollers, nothing works. I have one friend who is really into crystals and says if you put an amethyst cluster near your bed at night it will help with tension headache near the eyebrows. and I honestly feel so stupid even considering it, cause I'm really down to earth regarding those issues like crystals and stuff. but guess what Im fucking desperate. I'm just going to do it lol while I chuckle at my own despair.
IMO Lindy's behaviour would have been fine if she hadn't been a mom. When you become a mom, your life isn't just about you anymore, You have to start prioritizing your childrens well being over your own. It is a reason why many modern young women refrain from having children. they like their freedom and being 'selfish''. traveling wherever AND whenever over the world, going out to drink and eat, dance all night. unexpected trips and shopping all day with friends. Dating around without any serious strings attached. Spending your money on make up, clothes, jewelry instead of diapers. When you become a mom, This freedom all goes away the moment your child is born. and I think that's what she doesn't like about being mom. She still wants to keep that certain ''freedom'' she had pre marriage/kids. cause her freedom was in a way taken away from her after having kids. But guess what, YOU gave that up the moment you decided to get married and have kids. Who knows.. Maybe she never even wanted to be a mom in the first place. Maybe felt some kind of pressure or just did it cause she thinks it is what is expected. I'm not saying boohoo poor Lindy. But it is a lot more common than you may think. People often do not think it through, and do not even realise what having children is actually about, and the sacrifices you are going to have to make for them whether you like it or not. had she been a divorcee without children, acting out a little on the internet. Honestly I'd say who cares. Yes, she is no longer 18, but still a young adult who just enjoys the usual girly things. But unfortunatly she can't have her life the way she wants to because of the kids. It is just the way it is. Maybe she even regrets having children at this point, or the person she had them with ( which is not the same as not loving them btw ), but it honestly doesn't matter anymore, cause they are here to stay. and she has to grow up and better herself to be the best mom she can be.
also I think uploading vids of cringy ''sexy'' dancing of yourself online is embarassing af whether you are 20,30,40 or 50. Its fun when goofing around with your friends, but putting it online for the world to see is another story.
honestly is it just me... or where I live....but are people growing up slower and slower these days? behind my house there are literally groups of mid 20s to early 30s somethings. lounging around playing with fireworks/balloons aka being loud and drinking beer, and ofc throwing all the cans on the ground even though there are like 3 fucking garbage cans there. Like the earth is one big trash can. while blasting loud music and talking to eachother at volume of a group of mating dinosaurs Like who the fuck still does this stuff in the 24 to 33 age range? wow. Like there is maturity and there is maturity you know. I see less and less people my age wanting to settle down, have kids, do not want marry. I am all for it I am one of you lol. I am all for being who you are as in. If you are a 50 year old mom of 3 and love cute kawaii stuff and collecting it. go for it. or if youre 20 and you love anything teletubby related. seriously go ahead! I'm all for that stuff. But I feel like so many people these days in the later young adult range are so fucking behind and extremely childish mentally wise in a way that it is a bother to the people around them ( unfortunatly they are often mature enough to have 3 babies with 3 different moms/dads ofc) I feel like 26 is the new 16 mentally wise or something. I'm also counting in that I am in a lower socioeconomic area which may be the fault. but damn. I never thought id still see people 24 and over lounging around and disturbing a neighborhood at midnight like some wannabe ''look how cool I am'' 16 year olds, trashing someone's neighborhoud and being loud as fuck in their cars. Grow the fuck up. I am now waiting to see some group of mid 40 year olds doing this lol.
There is even such a thing as therapy induced did, its similar to the placebo effect. when you start to believe in something so hard you start acting like it. When you are super focussed or obsessed with something you can actually start seeing or hearing things that arent there. even some of her hardcore fans that started digging have seen the inconsistencies in her story. what bothers me most is how much money she is making of of this, if she had actual DID(I'm 100% sure she doesn't) or was actually educational it would be a different story. Shes always bragging about how she is fighting the stigma around did. but she is only fueling the stereotypes. ''Split is harmful''. even though her channel screams attention seeking circus act by making DID seem like some creepy weird magical anima fantasy.
anyway, people have speculated at this point that she may never even come back. Lolcow claims she is too narcistic for that. but honestly IDK. She still continues to grow in subscribers. and she still has over a 1000 patreons. so she is still making at the least minimum wage for now doing nothing. Maybe she sits it out. but for how long? and what will she claim when she decides to return? There are also people blaming her for putting the DID community under attack. First the drama with the pinata system, then the drama with her alters race, then more drama on the inconsistencies. if there is anything that surprises me about this...is that it is amazing how quick someone can go from being put so high on a pedastal and be considered a ''beloved icon and great mental health advocate'' to being kicked of of it within a mere moment and leave all this mess. Who would've thought Trisha's petty attention seeking would mean opening such a can of wurms.
I always thought the super short hair was very unflattering on her, it's just painfully unflattering. she'd look better with shoulder length hair. But I guess she cant , cause fake autism and ooh so sensitive neck problems 🙄
Yeah she advertises herself as some talented language learner, but I disagree. Even now her english is barely comprehensible. And it is very common to see people in the comments go "what is she saying?". Her pronunciation is very bad. Her Japanese as well, she slurs words and has an off pronunciation. She also claimed Korean, Dutch, German and Spanish. I'm a native of the other languages she claimed and it really wasnt as good as she thought it was. If Margot had had any brain back then, she wouldve just talked to her in her native Hungarian to her daughter so shed atleast gave her a good steady first language basis.
I'm not really sure why Instagram thinks just because I'm vegan I want to see animal cruelty/abuse in various forms related stuff or slaughter house footage. It's one of the major reasons why I stopped following vegan activism pages. Your account will get flooded with this kind of shit. That shit is literally traumatizing to me, I'm not even joking. I've once accidentally seen something many years ago and it still haunts me to this day. I do not fucking want to see or hear that shit I'd rather stab my eyes out. And now I literally only follow vegan food and bakery related accounts not even activism pages so why do I still sometimes get this stuff Instagram? Why is Instagram okay with showing this kind of footage? Children can come across this shit too. But a female nipple!?!? Omg the horror sensor now delete or we will delete your account!!! Animal abuse? Ok! As long as theres no female nipples involved it's all right!
KAT TUN > Arashi. Miliyah Katou > Namie Amuro. I never really got why Mika Nakashima's yuki no Hana became such a hit. It's not a bad song by any means, I like it. But she has much better songs. A lot of jpop female singers would sound a milion times better without those fake high pitched voices. Sayaka Shionoya flopped debut was honestly such wasted potential.
I'm way into my 20s but at times I still sleep with a night light on. I feel the worse my mental health is the harder I find it to sleep/lay awake in complete darkness, adds fuel to the fire. I find it really embarassing but whatever lol.
Who the fuck cares that kenna is half Turkish anyway? And Why does this issue keep being brought up every few months or so and pages get clogged with this? No one is discussing whatever her mom is either, so why should we go on endless discussions on her father's ethnicity 5 times a year. Yeah. Shes half Turkish. Wow. Big fucking deal. Nothing new or special.