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Good for her trying to terminate her contract. She deserves better, being dungeoned for a dating scandal for multiple comebacks is ridiculous as much as I have liked some of their songs and like some of the members I can't help but feel that they deserve some level of downfall with their horrible mismanagement. one of the members went on hiatus very recently after her grandparent died, so it's not looking to get better for them
the only thing I'm glad about from all the attention he's been given is that somehow Chris Hansen got ahold of his exes to talk to them and onion's predation is finally coming to light. He got reported to the FBI I think. Now, if only something would be done to put him away in a jail cell, that would be nice. Gerg needs to be kept from underage girls, his partner, and his own kids. OT: I want to see Chris Evans play more cunning, nasty characters like Ransom from Knives Out. I know he's done jerk characters in the past but most of them weren't in good films. After seeing him play a good boi like cap for so long I just wanna see him be a lil mean. Also he looks handsomer with dark hair.
kpopalypse is a joke and I don't know why sites like asianjunkie ever had him on as a guest article poster. he's a creepy fat old white incel dude with a yellow fever fetish and honestly he's gross + his taste in kpop songs is additionally shit he acts like he knows crap when he's a hack and truly it's sad to see he's still doing this bc I remember thinking he was creepy back in like 2013 when I started lurking kpop blogs nayeons stalker is a big bag of yikes all by himself, kpopalypse interviewing him, knowing kpopalypse, is more of a grab for views and attention than anything else. they're both sleazy as fuck, it's just that kpopalypse seems to get away with his sleaziness in the kpop blog community because he claims his misogyny and grossness is under the guise of hUMOR (hUMOR my ASS). Nayeons stalker is a deranged creep who clearly needs to be forced into some kind of mental institution so it's two different levels of creepy. I wish more ppl would call out kpopalypse as the nasty piece of work he is tho, interviewing the stalker notwithstanding he's an attention whore and a blatant incel
They're also relatively cheaper by fast food combo standards and the food is good by fast food standards... u can get a sammich combo for $7 there versus paying like $8-9 at other places. also the service around here for most fast food restaurants is shit (don't get me started on Popeyes when they all have garbage service and I can never catch when the lines short and all I want is my fucking chicken tenders so if I get up to the front of the line and they claim to be out of chicken tenders I will hulk smash some shit? but crap their chicken is even better than cfa even if expensive) Except for CFA where the line goes by a lot faster the problem with buying anything is that you're likely supporting a company with a corrupt CEO or questionable morale, good luck finding one who doesn't have that problem, hell the US relies on slave labor from China to make shit cheap and it ain't that cheap... so honestly it's kind of hard to be an 100% guiltless consumer given how the higher ups in consumer driven capitalism act
I'm a thrifter and I find it a lot easier than buying fast fashion. u can either buy secondhand shit at the nicer thrift stores that's not in shit shape or buy new fast fashion that's not gonna be much better than thrift stuff. Both of those are still a step above the crappy online mail order clothes from milanoo-like nightmare Chinese stores which are made with the ugliest quality. case in point that my mom mocked me for thrifting and yet she ordered some cheap crap online that took forever to get here and was utter garbo quality for more $$. like why spend 7 bucks on a paper thin shirt from china that's exponentially more uncomfortable than what u can buy in the US when u can buy a far better quality albeit slightly used shirt for 3-6? however I hate how most thrift stores are run by Christian companies, gag. If they weren't I'd feel a lot less annoyed. going into goodwill and having to hear the god fearing radio station rearing its annoying preachy head drives me nuts, even tho they're one of the better thrift stores every time reminds me why I fucking hate that most charities in the US are religious based it gives a lot of them the right to try and discriminate and force people to try and conform to their religion. like when my sisters nutty church goes on "missions" it honestly feels more like cult recruitment tbh I'm a spiritualist who hates churches and the idea of worshiping false idols/worshiping with a group of people and Christianity esp leaves a nasty taste in my mouth. unfortunately my retail place of work has religious products and I have to meet the occasional gag inducing ladies who are tryna induct ppl into their religion... and I'm just.. no, no, no. I truly believe that church and state and church and charity and church and anything should be separated bc I inherently despise organized religion and believe that u shouldn't have to sacrifice anything or be forced into a house of worship and pray as a group to a god if that god exists. If that god exists that god will follow u everywhere and withhold most judgments, and respect your choice not to be part of an organized religion if u find them sucky
Thank you guys, used those, found he isn't on it but I'm still extremely wary. Apparently there's a few offenders in my neighborhood though, none of which are close to my street but in the same vicinity, yikes on a side note I went to a house party and wound myself very loose so now I feel a tad better after having a lot of fun.
update on creepy guy: I didn't see him tonight. I however did see a male figure the two days ago looming by the mailbox a couple houses down during the day, an older guy and I'm pretty sure it wasn't the older guy that lived there, since I didn't get a close glimpse it might be the same stalker. my stepdad was out moving heavy shit from his truck so I hid behind him and turned heel to take my dog walk in the direction away from the random dude. yesterday at night when I went to go grab something from my car I saw what appeared to be a male figure lurking in the darkness as well, but after I'd shackled up in my car for a few minutes, the figure had disappeared. i feel like im going insane and crazy bc I haven't been able to catch this on video and i feel like people are just gonna think that it's a byproduct of my mind until i have evidence i keep seeing him… i reverse engineered him into google to dox his full name in case i need to file a report against him… i doubt unless i can get really cohesive evidence if this persists that the cops will care. maybe he rustles his jimmies by scaring me, maybe it's not even sexual… maybe he's just a creep who enjoys scaring young people? idfk I feel like it's literally based on the fact that I'm a young looking female so I doubt that, I doubt sincerely that he's without creepy sexual interest, and that terrifies me even more bc one of my long standing irrational fears is being kidnapped... and i don't know what's going to happen next. nobody nobody nobody should have to fear the idea of being kidnapped/assaulted in a seemingly "safe" neighborhood? nobody!! nobody!! i only live here because i can't afford to move out yet, should that be at the cost of my safety? going to the police seems entirely risky bc ive dealt w them before cuz of the nosy neighborhood falsely reporting me for a noise complaint for searching for my then lost dog who'd run out of the house and i god damn don't doubt for a second that the cops wouldn't judge me based on that let alone see me as anything but a hYSTERICAL WOMAN for having NO pictures of this guy caught on film! I'm so angry that I can't get him on film! It's been what 5 days and I'm already trying to come up with ways to catch his ass, what a horrible way to have to live. its horrible that i am experiencing high paranoia mentally when I recently had an episode before all this shit went down a few days ago and had someone i know commit suicide last week around the same time i had my breakdown… am i not allowed to have nice things in this life? Why do I have such bad luck? I want to cry but I've cried so much this last month that I don't think I have the investment to cry anymore. If anyone knows ANY ways I can check to see if he's a registered sex offender or if there's any registered sex offenders near me, because this guy OFTEN comes and goes to another persons house on my street and I'd like to check if any inhabitants of these houses are offenders…I would love help, preferably without it behind a paywall. I'm not really full of money and what I'll get next paycheck I need to spend on the usual expenses + buying a knife for myself. I really need all the help I can get. I'm going to also reverse engineer dox the residents of the house he comes and goes from that ain't his so I can see who those people are. I'm not keen on the idea of paying for a whitepages report but if I have to I will in a couple paychecks if this refuses to stop. Any inkling of help with regards to a free site or app where you can find if there are creeps who live in your neighborhood will be of great assistance to me. As a last resort if my dad who I haven't told about this yet is overly concerned- I'll beg him to do a background check on this guy and pay for it while trying to convince him it's for his own daughters safety... I'm scared like irrationally scared and I don't want to be scared anymore. I've gone through too much shit losing myself mentally and losing someone I knew to suicide almost immediately after, I can't emotionally take even the idea of being stalked without it destroying and gnawing at me. Like fuck this life honestly I'm trying but it's only hurting me to live with this
you know how convics we're saying he was going to set up his own company? well he apparently did register his own company and it was set up seven months ago. A little late at this point, I can't see him going anywhere unless z-listers and groupies decide to grapple onto his coattails for infamy... does he really think people won't google him and find out who he is?
yeah I don't have the money to move right now and I have a feeling that if this escalates or I get continually bothered I'm buying a defensive weapon im bipolar so I wouldn't trust myself with a gun at all, but maybe a knife/taser/something stronger than pepper spray. of course I am really hoping nothing further happens bc I am dealing with enough stress as is and I don't need one more added factor to fuck with me mentally
there's this guy in my neighborhood who approached me while I was walking my dog last night and the way he spoke to me what he said and what he asked me gave me major creepy vibes... it occurred at 10:30pm.... he implied, seriously implied, he's watched me from his house before and now I'm really creeped out. I had never talked to him before that or even seen him looking at me. the direct admission that he'd seen me and asked me "when did you move in" comes across as someone asking too much info and I'm always, always skeptical of someone who approaches me as closely as he did, he was way too close, kept speaking to me, wouldn't back off, and my tone of voice was hasty and clearly unnerved, he would not back off. since he was a grown ass man I doubt he had any kind of excuse for his lack of awareness at my body language... my dog, who he initially approached me about, was skeptical of him herself, kept backing away when I tried to let him pet her, not to be rude to him... and that solidifies my nerve that he's a creep. guess it's time to start carrying around pepper spray, I've been catcalled, I've had the cops called on me for chasing my dog around the neighborhood and now I've had an encounter with a presumed creep? this isn't even a bad neighborhood, so what the fuck is wrong with the people that live here? they're honestly so invasive and weird and paranoid for the most part and I've never felt less safe, none of this shit ever happened in my previous neighborhood, never, and all the neighbors there were nice, here they're such assholes... no fucking wonder I don't want to talk to virtually anyone here, I've been harassed and crept upon and catcalled and harassed by the cops for yelling for my dog who'd run out of the house and wouldn't come back to me... I saw what I think was the creep again today and since he was in fairly close proximity but I didn't think saw me, i ducked into an alleyway and hid until he walked past me, I thereafter ended up driving to the grocery store? with the excuse I needed to buy something, and stresssmoked for the first time in like a month. why am I such a scaredy cat bitch god I should've avoided him if he tried to approach me instead of entirely running away from him, my fear overtook me. when someone gives me the vibe that they want to wear my skin that is a vibe I take to heart and it terrifies me