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jadedotgif

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  1. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    Just because venus has an ed doesn't make her exempt from criticism or makes us unable to point out chubby cheeks. There's a lot of snowflakes who likely have an eating disorder or body dysmorphia. We do not coddle snowflakes here, we discuss things objectively. If venus reads these forums then it's her own doing. We are not responsible for her. 
    This thread is extremely tame compared to other sites. 
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  2. jadedotgif added a post in a topic Shane Dawson   

    this shane jeffree shit is really embarrassing.
     
     
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  3. jadedotgif added a post in a topic ChoNunMigookSaram/Megan Bowen   

    her natural hair looks great! i think their relationship is really adorable. 
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  4. jadedotgif added a topic in Love & Relationships   

    Roommate issues (possible drug/child abuse?)
    I'm honestly a bit desperate right now. I have nowhere else to turn to guarantee anonymity with this issue, so I've come to PULL humbled and honestly stressed out of my mind.
    I have a roommate. She's 21. She has a baby who's a few months old. She and all my other roommates are drunks and potheads. 
    When she was pregnant I had hopes her baby would change her selfish and irresponsible ways, she actually was a very enjoyable person when she was sober. But once the baby was born, she gave up breastfeeding no less than a week in because she wanted to drink and smoke weed again.
    And she doesn't. stop. For nothing. Not even her baby.
    Incidents thus far:
    using a vape pen while the baby is in the room
    smoking weed while the baby is in the car (had the windows rolled down but that has been proven to still effect those in the backseat, on top of it being illegal to even do with cigarettes in my state)
    getting wasted and leaving the baby with other drunk roommates who can barely walk.
    once while a wasted AND high (mixing. lovely) roommate was stuck watching the baby, she passed out slept through the baby was crying all night until i finally put my studies aside to go take the baby (i'm the only person who doesn't drink/do drugs, I'm often the designated driver but I'm a fucking college student too and I can't be a babysitter all the time)
    smoking weed while the baby is in the room (window was open but.... do I need to explain how fucked how stupid this is)
    i have very many issues. issue number one being the baby's safety. the baby's father is in the picture, and I once thought he was responsible as he used to make it very clear he didn't want the mom doing this shit,  but he seems to have given up trying to convince her. issue number two is she's putting me at risk. I'm in a college program that involves background checks. If someone snitches on the mother (it's happened in the past because she makes lots of enemies), and I get involved I don't know what that will do for my record. I don't smoke pot, so I know I can't get in trouble for that. But just being arrested alone makes me afraid of what my school will do. 
    I'm so stressed over this. On top of getting little sleep due to studies, I lay awake at night listening to hear if the baby is awake. Sometimes when she's crying I hear all the arguing over it, and I'm afraid one of them will lose patience. I'm freaking the fuck out. I thought about moving out, but isn't running away just as bad? Isn't saying nothing just as bad?
    Should I contact authorities? What's the process there? If she's not in possession of drugs (at the time) will they just let her go? ideally I would like her to be on probation with social services at least watching the kid. But I don't know what happens for real in these situations. Am I over exagerrating???? What do I do...?
    To add to this, I have spoken to the mom many times. She shows zero remorse and laughs me off, treating me like I'm exaggerating. 
    I feel like I'm being gaslit. Everyone in the house treats me like I'm exaggerating and that I only think this because I'm "staight edge" 
     
    Well, PULL... Am I? I'm this close to calling authorities and it's to the point I'm more concerned about the baby than my own reputation.
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  5. jadedotgif added a post in a topic What Are Some Things That Made You Leave a Fandom?   

    LGBT shippers are driving me nutso. 
    I saw someone on archive of our own writing fluffy pieces for a rare hetero ship, and they are getting shit for it because the fandom refuses to accept the male character as anything other than gay. I've only barely dipped my foot in this fandom recently. And from what I have seen, he's only a child. and people... grown ass adults... are militant about him being gay. not to say it's not a possibility or anything, nor that there's anything wrong with harmless non-sexualized ships of boys, but the fact it's become this character's defining trait to the point of fandom-wide obsession really unsettles me. also, there's no proof to support the claim that he's gay, so can't just... idk, attack people if they want to make content of him that isn't gay? They act as though it's a mortal sin to write him with a female character. It's not queer erasure if his sexuality hasn't been established, you guys. Someone writing heterosexual content isn't going to land the gays in concentration camps. 
    Like calm down, it's not that deep. 
     
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  6. jadedotgif added a post in a topic DC Thread   

    I like zack snyder's dc movies and i'm not afraid to admit it. this is coming from someone who is a comic nut and has been collecting dc comics and memorabilia since i was eleven. i enjoyed zack's take and it was a damn entertaining run while it lasted. i'm pretty sad he was basically shoved of dc projects, especially since the guy seemed actually genuinely passionate about the source material and gave it some honest respect. 
    i'm disappointed we won't see a continuation of those movies, but i think i'm ok with it ending where it did. i don't think a franchise is necessary, in fact the push for it to be a franchise probably is what made it stumble the way it did. I'm happy with what I got, either way!
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  7. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    "impulsively swallowing large doses of pills at once"
    girl what the fuck 
    go to rehab for alcohol and drug abuse, not instagram please. 
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  8. jadedotgif added a post in a topic Eat Your Kimchi (Simon and Martina)   

    anyone else getting exhausted with these 'i don't need a baby because I'M the baby' ferociously immature type people? like this isn't about them having kids i rly dont care about that, it's more so these youtube women who act like children while their s/o plays the straight man. simon and martina, nailogical's kristine and ben, etc etc. 
    it's just jarring and annoying. i think i have noticed it more with martina because (and i know this is going to sound mean to point out) she's looking more and more old with each video. like she looks less like the kooky fun aunt and more like the sad granny holding onto the past. and i get it, she's got an illness and she's making the most of her life. she should do what makes her happy. but everytime i see her act really foolish i think it ages ME and i think 'oh my god i can't watch this anymore'. because i just cringe too hard. their latest kichijoji video made me feel that way, i kept wanting to click off. which is a shame because i prefer this style of video over their 5 STAR SUSHI RESTRAUNT SLOW SHOTS WITH THIS ELITE CHEF MAKING RICEBALLS WITH LOFI MUSIC IN THE BACKGROUND-- you get what i'm saying, lol.
    also i forget the podcast video, but there was a really weird moment i noticed during it. they brought up how much thinner they were in korea, and martina kept emphasizing 'WE WERE UNHEALTHY WHEN WE WERE THAT SMALL. WE ARE HEALTHY NOW.' but 1 they werent that small. during the healthy eating phase in korea i'd say she (idk about simon bc he doesnt dress like martina) still had meat on her. and not in a bad way. and 2 didn't they lose all that weight in korea just from dropping carbs? they did many videos on it. they cut out rice and breaded foods, right? what's unhealthy about that? it's not even a complete carb drop bc veggies and fruits still have carbs, so what would be unhealthy? i never heard them mention eating at a deficit either, they still went to restraunts and stuff as well. 
    currently martina's weight has been fluctuating. which isn't good, and being heavy is not going to do her illness any favors with added pressure on joints (even bodybuilders have joint issues, ok, this isn't me 'fat shaming'). it just seems weird to me that she'd say her and simon were unhealthy when they were thinner, when SUPPOSEDLY all they did was drop rice/bread carbs. was that a lie or is she in denial about her current fluctuating weight.
    and fyi they were MUCH THINNER in the very beginning of their korea filming days. in their earliest low quality videos martina looks like a completely different person. 
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  9. jadedotgif added a post in a topic Rachel and Jun   

    and there is exactly why i unsubbed to them. i could get cat content literally anywhere. that's not what i followed them for, regardless of how cute their cats are. barest of bare minimum on youtube is animal videos, ESPECIALLY cat ones.
     
    i still sub to juns kitchen, even though he never posts. at least there the cats are not the main focus and only compliment the videos. 
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  10. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    way to tip off how much you lurk, venus.
    because about a month ago this thread was constantly defending her and gushing over her. but the moment people catch onto her toxic behaviors, THAT'S when she decides to engage. 
    i think this goes to show venus cannot handle criticism. like. remember how snippy she got whenever anyone criticized malice? and how she backpedaled? but now it appears she's run out of backpedal moves. 
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  11. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    the instagram picture appears to have been brightened and smoothened. smoothing is done to hide blemishes and the edges of her nose. video cameras smooth as well (mikan has admitted to it in the past). 
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  12. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    takes picture with hotsauce in cleavage, takes... this picture HMMM.... comfortable in your skin or in dire need of orbiters to fill your bank account?
    i'm sorry but. i'm getting flashbacks to the time PULL users pointed out she was wearing binders (around the same time her and manaki posted that cringey ass video of his 'baby girl' acting like a fucking 5 year old in toys r us) and the people pointing her binders out immediately got scolded because "HOW DARE YOU JUDGE HER FOR COPING? MARGO SEXUALIZED HER ALL HER LIFE" aaand here venus is. sexualising herself. 
    which, btw, isnt inherently a bad thing btw. although i know for a fact if this were the yumi king thread she would be getting made fun of for wearing cheap and trashy clothing, but whatever. to me this pic is just the top of this post here. venus is pandering to the demographic that can line her wallet, not the little girls. 
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  13. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    I may not have BPD but I have social anxietyto a worryingly debilitating degree. I still forced myself to get a job (at like 21 so I was also late). It was scary to leave a comfortable sheltered life, where the only company I kept was my internet following (enablers tbh), but honestly...? I've gotten so much better since working. It's stressful, sure, but I learned so much about socializing, problem solving and coping. Shit the internet could NEVER teach me because the internet glorifies laxiness and vanity and uwu mentaw iwness 
    Venus needs that. She needs to get out of her comfort zone .she's an adult, no matter how hard she tries to pretend she's a fucking toddler. She needs to develop skills and learn what to do in uncomfortable situations. She could start with volunteer work, like I did, and work her way up. But the longer she waits the more no one will take her. 
    What will she do when she's pushing 30 with no experience and no money? Do shady shit like her mother???? Godsake, Venus, wake up while you still can. 
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  14. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    alternating between energy drinks and alcohol is not good... 
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  15. jadedotgif added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    those sailor venus cosplay pictures from the stream are very scary to look at. not just because she looks poorly done together, but because she looks completely dead inside. 
    i have a question for posters here, though. everyone keeps saying she needs to go back to school. what do you guys mean by that? do you mean return to college or do you mean to tell me venus doesn't have her highschool diploma? either way, having no diploma or degree in japan sounds like a recipe for disaster. i don't even think 2-year degrees are of much use for a foreigner there. youtube is certainly not a reliable income.
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