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He's got a billboard in Times Square and is #16 on the Billboard Hot 100. Sanctuary was in several Top Hits Spotify Playlists. He made almost no money off of Filthy Frank and it was fucking up his health. He's fine, success wise. Streaming means he can make a good living without being Lil Nas X or Billie Eilish. He doesn't seem the type to overspend like a lot of mildly successful morons in music. We have no way of knowing about his personal life beyond what he shares, but he is dramatically improving, music wise. He's on a good track right now, career wise. Also, he's almost 28. Of course he is acting differently than he did in college. That's how these things work.
Ian and Anisa's relationship reminds me of that quote from Ferris Bueller's Day Off:
"Cameron has never been in love - at least, nobody's ever been in love with him. If things don't change for him, he's gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she's gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence. She won't respect him, 'cause you can't respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn't work."
I don't blame her. Fangirls are insane and I am willing to bet even off social media she'll be getting threats. I read Patty Boyd's autobiography years ago and even in the damn sixties she'd get death threats from crazy Beatles fangirls.