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Milly.Vanilly

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  1. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

  2. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    I'm not autistic at all, just sensitive to touch, materials and fabrics etc. I'd imagine an autistic person would feel it even worse?
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  3. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    I have the same problem she does. The sensory discomfort is at the base of the neck, my hair has to be shorter than that or longer than that to avoid it. It feels a bit like an electrical current when my hair ends brush against the base.
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  4. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    Eurasia is northern Asia that connects to Eastern Europe (Russia, etc).
     
    Turkey is on the Anatolian Peninsula (95% firmly in Asia) with a small (5%) part that extends to southern Europe. Also Turkey is a West Asian / Middle Eastern country by culture, religion and language. It is deeply connected with the Levantine Arab culture down to the cuisine, has little resemblance to Europe. The Ottoman empire was a Turkish Islamic empire that extended over the entire Middle East. Genetically speaking, Turks are not descendant from European but hailed from Central Asian Turkministan and mixed with West Asian Semites like Arabs, Phoenicians etc.
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  5. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    Yes, it is?
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  6. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   


    Ngl, the shirt looks amazing and skirt looks luscious! The hat, boots and accessories ruin the whole thing. She's incapable of cohesion.
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  7. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   


    Mini has electric options.
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  8. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Nitpicking Thread   

    It's almost as if... and hear me out here... it's almost as if that's why I came to this one instead.
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  9. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Nitpicking Thread   


    Is it just me, or has the main thread gotten a little delusional?! Arguing points that were never proven like Kenna's "convo with her parents about Europe" (I doubt she told anyone) and shit? It keeps happening, someone will post a wrong fact like "movie tickets cost 25 dollars and she bought 4!" and the thread runs with it ignoring the fact that the first 3 times she watched Frozen were in Japan and movie tickets don't cost 25 anywhere on earth.
     
    It's literally fanfiction.
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  10. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   


    Vina didn't grow up with her brother. He grew up with his mom and she grew up with her dad in Sweden and moved in with her mom and brother when she was 10 there's no way they'd sound alike since he's native and she had to learn English in school which is why she sounds "proper" and he doesn't.
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  11. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    She expected all her friends in LA to drop everything and spend Christmas with her despite
    1. leaving them for 1 year straight which means they've probably moved on to filling her place with somebody else,
    2. not telling them beforehand that she'll be alone on Christmas,
    3. them moving on with their life and their partners to a different life stage than Kenna.
     
    Remember that instagram caption Kenna did for Grace's birthday? She said in that caption that she thinks of herself as pretty independent but still wants to "plan her life around Grace" and wants to live with her again and that she wants to be her only #1. Kenna needs a wake up call... people won't wait around for her or plan their life around her. She needs to stop expecting that because it'll only hurt her and leave feeling lonely. She needs to accept the path she has chosen and learn to love being on her own.
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  12. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    Bree is the ONLY friend she has in LA that liked her post! I KNEW this was going to happen. I guess the guilt tripping worked!
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  13. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   


    Her parents are divorced and have been since forever, she's not with her mom (they don't get along much according to her anyway) as she's in LA. Her sister Sierra has a long term girlfriend she lives with that she's spending Christmas with while Grace is spending Christmas with her extended family + boyfriend. Her father is somewhere with Kayden, not in LA. Sheridan is with her husband in Utah.
     
    So Kenna is in AirBnB somewhere in LA and no one is free to spend Christmas with her. I would bet my life savings that she's guilt tripping Sierra and Grace with this post for not being with her on Christmas which is understandable since she hasn't seen them since leaving for Japan but Kenna needs to learn to accept that she won't be anyone's #1 priority, especially not on Christmas, when they have life partners to be with instead.
     
    This is why a lot of AroAce people find other AroAce people to be their partner in crime (which Kenna made fun of for being "literally same as friendship" and refuses to see the difference.)
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  14. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    That's really sad, not gonna rag on her for that. Hope she finds what she's looking for soon or learns to accept that it's okay to be alone.
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  15. Milly.Vanilly added a post in a topic Lunestelle   

    On her latest story reviewing Uncut Gems she casually mentions that it gave her sensory overload. 🙄
     
    Another thing she conveniently only mentions after Kenna stated she has autism and talked about sensory overload...
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