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Tbh I don't like the DM option. I mean obviously it helps A LOT but for me, personally, if you DM me...I won't respond and I don't quite know if that makes me a horrible person or anything? Even if I say to DM me to not derail, chances of me responding are next to none . I even messaged a user here just to have a conversation ( a quick one, probably ) so we wouldn't derail but I looked at their respond and said I'd respond soon but never did. I come onto PULL for the threads and so when I come on, my first instinct is to open the notifications then when I'm done reading through them, close PULL immediately without thought of anything else. I don't know if it makes me a petty or bad person but
listen all I'm saying is that my grandma went out by a heart attack and a doctor breaking her ribs trying to get her to come back. I stopped reading that opinion as they said "when I go gently into the night" what kind of... when I die, it better be surrounded by my siblings 🤷🏻♀️ there's no way in hell I'm bringing a child into this life knowing my mother walks and my inability to properly take care of myself, probably because of undiagnosed mental illnesses or mental disability But your opinion is most definitely not controversial They're just disagreeing.
edit lol i got heated: and honestly not really? but if colors AND THE EMOJIS !! came back I wouldn't hesitated to relive my nostalgia days LMAO i would take advantage of the old site so quickly. it was probably updated because of issues that PULL has before they got horrible. spoiled for ot !!
Speaking of quotev, people are way too obsessed about how their page looks. Like honey I've been on that site since 2013 !!!! Trust me !! Me disagreeing on changing my account to match that (short lived) trend doesn't warrant you a reason to move accounts ! People also move accounts for any petty ass reason.
Minhwan and Yulhee having 3 kids within the span of a year and a half pisses me off. Not them having a kid pisses me off, but the fans that congratulate them. Maybe I understood wrong but didn't they ONLY get married so the kid wouldn't be born out of wedlock? And now that they can technically have sex however they want so boom, twins. It's just a really good representation of the poor sex education in SK to me and the fans that congratulate them seem ignorant to the fact I mean maybe I'm wrong. But that's my understanding. Disagree if you want but 🤷🏻♀️
I might be double posting haha sorry but - what are y'alls favorite gg songs right now? I'm usually a sucker for girl crush but something about a concept similar to oh my girl is calling me. Either way, suggest any concept songs please !
Saw this and thought of Jasmine and Luna since people mentioned sex education being poor in SK. These two idols had a shotgun wedding in 2018, she gave birth in 2019 to a boy, then 9 months later in 2020...she gave birth to twins. At first I was like "Oh cool! They're married. Whatever" then remembered that their wedding only happened BECAUSE he knocked her up ( if I'm correct they weren't dating originally and only wanted to sleep together ). Seems Jasmine was hoping for a fairy tale like this.
unfortunately i don't think that'll ever happen. We've been obsessed with looks for literally hundreds (thousands? listen don't @ me but I haven't tried doing the math in my history classes LMAO ) of years. Back then looks were a hierarchy thing and it still is till this day but...I like to think it isn't a strictly life or death thing haha. If it does happen...I don't know. I don't think I can ever fathom the day it'll happen tbh
honestly lol i don't think i want to be famous. i don't want a s/o even if it does get lonely at times. i don't want kids. i don't want to be surrounded by my family. i don't want any of this. i just want to be alone. i want to live comfortably because do i really need a fucking house if i won't have kids or a s/o? is it possible to pay for a cheap studio apartment on a teacher's salary? maybe i'm having one of my fits of depressed feelings idk. im not even a teacher. just a student considering changing her major lmao. do i want to die alone? no, not quite. I'd hate to be dead for a week or the entire month and when they come collect my rent, they find my body. I'd feel horrible for the person. But fuck it. The woman who gave birth to me said don't rely on her and you know what? ok. I won't. lmao. it probably won't be easy for a while seeing that ubering from work and back costs me $10 and $10 adds up quickly so...with that being the cheapest of "don't rely on me" we'll just have to see ig
as your neighborhood fatty above 250 lbs - i love the move to bigger models but i hope it seriously doesn't normalize obesity. I did this to myself and yes, some have it worse than others, but...still. People who say "stop normalizing obesity!!" give me a headache. Yes, let's not normalize obesity but also I don't want another little fat girl to try to kill herself and hate herself over her weight because society doesn't want us to accept and love ourselves. If we love ourselves enough, we'll make the move to lose the weight but at the end of the day we need to learn to accept our bodies as is and to then love it ( and who knows, some might love themselves bigger. I know my mom said she was once ideally thin when she was younger and she hated it lol she loved being a 16 and thought she looked best that way )