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Looks like a mole to me, she should probably get it checked out. Is it just me that thinks her go to hairdresser is a bit... not great? The hairstyles he played around with weren’t anything special and I just can’t forget that time he decided to try and curl her hair with kirby grips and it turned out a frizzy mess.
The whole thing has almost completely died down until Jared makes a reappearance yet Holly still can’t resist milking it by liking tired old shit like that. Making her a snowflake gets my vote if it works like that
It’s been very heavily implied and as good as confirmed. Ross mentioned in a video being in an abusive relationship in his 20s and listed signs of abuse. He was with Holly for most of his 20s and a lot of the points resemble behaviour Holly’s displayed like threatening suicide and being controlling. He’s also commented on a tweet by Breebun saying he believes abusive people can change as he has experienced it in a relationship. Holly has also made a historic tweet about how he, Aarin, and Suzy had helped her ‘learn to stop hating herself and hurting others’. I’m on my phone so I don’t have the sources. I’ll post them later if no one else comes up with them in the meanwhile.
She needs to stop dragging Jon Ronson into this. She’s cherry picking his book so it fits her when it doesn’t. He’s not the patron saint of people who have been called out on the internet, leave him out of this.
My first thoughts are that while Eugenia has a long way to go and is still clearly in denial about some things, it’s a huge step she’s taken just saying that she has been suffering from an ED. Like she could’ve just left the centre and gone back to her previous denial that there was anything wrong. I’m really proud of her for that. I just hope this new positivity everyone has with her continues even if she does relapse because relapses are almost bound to happen and condemning her for them won’t help. I personally don’t like Shane Dawson, I think his documentaries are always more about him reacting than the actual person. My feelings on this documentary are mixed. I think it’s more of the same of Shane’s bullshit; just him being a weird histrionic fanboy. But at the same time if the overall response gives her some kind of acceptance and encouragement to continue her recovery then that’s great. I just hope the renewed focus and pressure won’t damage her progress. I think Jaclyn’s initial actions were good, interventions can be horrible but who can deny that it was sorely needed and if what Jaclyn claims is true then Eugenia wasn’t going to get any kind of help from her family. My biggest concern is that Jaclyn’s focus seemed largely on being upset that Eugenia referred to her as a bully. It made her come off quite butthurt and self absorbed like ‘but what about ME? Where’s my thanks?’. That being said I don’t think she intended it that way I believe that she is genuinely still worried for Eugenia still being in that toxic environment but I think she would’ve done better just to take a few days to think how to tackle that in the right way. Her videos were very heated and reactive which could be unintentionally damaging. On a final note, there was a moment in Shane’s video where Shane was doing his makeup just talking about himself as per and Eugenia was just watching him, it felt like her facade slipped a little and she looked so lost and sad looking into the mirror. I could just be reading way too much into it but my heart went out to her on that moment.
She’s closer in mental age to a 14 year old than she is to people her own age too. I can definitely see other people her age range finding her so incredibly tedious to deal with. It’s true when you’re an adult the age range of your friends varies a lot more but that’s because when you get to a certain point everyone’s pretty much in the same boat when it comes to where they’re at in life. Like say being in your 30s and you’re buddy buddy with a colleague in their 40s. That does NOT translate to young people and it’s so so creepy when adults try that ‘age is just a number’ bullshit to justify why they’re acting inappropriately with people who are much younger than them.
This is a pattern I’m seeing with Holly and it’s extremely unsettling. She has no problem calling people where there’s a big power imbalance close friends. Like this kid or people who are literal fans. There’s nothing wrong with being friendly with fans but Holly seems to have no boundaries, she either doesn’t seem to understand or straight up doesn’t care that there will always be a power imbalance there. Examples of this are that Scarlet Moth chick who is the alleged anon source of the ‘damning text messages’ the petition claimed to have but never materialised, and the creepy ass WKs Holly has been happily rewarding with follows and apparently talking to privately. Really reminds you of some other earthworm looking creep’s behaviour with fans...
Jared privately chipping away at Heidi until she has a public reaction, definitely par for the course for all of his manipulative behaviour so far. He truly is vile. I wonder if this is a sign he might be poking his mealworm head out of his hole soon...