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Most people think: I manage to do it = you must be wrong. I said that MOST people who are over 30 or 40 cannot go back to college for various reasons. Not ALL people. If you managed to do it, great you are a tough and accomplished person. This thread is about Venus and I don't believe that Venus has what it takes to go to college at 35, given the pattern of lack of self discipline and abandoning even simpler projects such as live streams schedules. But if this is how this forum is and u get triggered so easily when I didn't even refer to you (I don't know u), then I don't have to be here. Bye.
I disagree. It's not about hitting milestones. If you want to do something at any age, theoretically u can. But it becomes MUCH harder. For example having a baby. Doctors say the best age is in a woman's 20s. At 30s most women can do it without problems. In 40s? They still can of course, but the risk increases, they will most likely need IVF, the cost increases etc. So a smart woman who wants children, doesn't freak out if she is 30, but acts in a mindful way, for example doesn't drink or take drugs, works out, focuses on finding a more long term partner etc. Same with college. I knew people in my college who started in their late 30s and 40s and it was a VERY hard experience. They had to work same time, most had kids and they were exhausted. Plus they couldn't really connect with 18-19 year old peers and ended up mostly hanging out around other people in their own age. It's not as cool as those inspirational "I finished college at 88 yay!" unicorn and fairy dust stories that circulate online. And most importantly: the people who achieve things against all odds are EXCEPTIONS. Sure it's possible for a woman to go to college at 39, find love at 42 and have a kid at 45, but how many women can do that? The majority end up alone and miserable. Also I don't know you and don't want to overshare about myself but ageism is still a pretty strong mentality in Japan, feel free to not believe me, I have Japanese nationals in my life and while they are polite enough to not insult you about your age, the parents of someone who wants to marry a 38-year-old woman WILL point out her age as almost past child bearing. It's not "oh just an incel" thing. My point was Venus would have better results if she lived in a mindful way. 22 is young if you act as 22, but she acts like she is 12.
If I was in Manaki's place, I would cut off her visa, not to hurt her, but because she needs to take control of her choices and her words. She has many enablers, usually creepy Ossan online or irl who pay for her expenses and she seems to be over her head and think that this is how it will always be. Japan has a horrible ageism mentality towards women, just look up Christmas cake girl and u will see the discrimination for women over 25. So Venus should stop her crap (relying only on her edited dolly looks and manufactured drama) and learn a skill, because if she stays in Japan she doesn' t have until 30. She has until 25 before she gets the Christmas shortcake hammer. Clock is ticking Venus. Tik-tok https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=christmas cake girl
She in so uneducated. "Mom won't collaborate"? The equivalent of CPS will examine the child after a REAL report and the parent cannot say "hey my child is fine I am not letting you see him", if that's how the world worked, no kids would ever be put in foster care. Venus lives in her distorted microcosm of nonsense because the baby persona collapsed a long time ago. I have seen channels of people into DDLG talking about their fetish, if she wants to be a kawaii little that badly, at least she should be honest about it. And do you know why she is posting vaguely and creates all that nonsense drama? Because she is neither interesting, nor creative to do anything else. She reminds me of a guy I used to be fb friends with (I unfriended him), who was the most boring person on earth and he worked at a super market which was very uneventful (I am not saying that to insult anyone doing that job, but in general not many exciting things happen in a super market shift), so he would come home and make fb statuses like "Horrible day today" or "I wish I fall asleep and never wake up" and his fb friends would ask "aww what's wrong are u ok?". It was beyond dumb and pointless. Venus if you read this, stop the vague posting and drama manufacturing because it makes you look like an idiot.
I am not a fan of Margo, but I start to wonder if she was the brains behind their channel all along. I started watching Venus in 2015 and the videos where cute and interesting. After Venus escaped there was a brief stage where she was talking about the weight loss surgery and I liked the turn the channel was taking bc it seemed like she was slowly outgrowing the infantile persona, made friends etc. But after? Not only it all came crushing down, but the videos from 2019 have nothing attractive imo. It's random poorly made clips with lots of lies and like many posters here pointed out correctly,she is unkempt and drunk in almost all of them. It seems that Margot and Venus had a real symbiotic relationship: Margot can't pull off the kawaii looks and Venus can't pull off the creativity and self discipline necessary. In a sense, karma hit both of them, one for being a greedy narcissist robbing her daughter of having a childhood and the other of being a covert narcissist, always playing the victim, while feeling entitled to not work normal jobs, scam her fans etc. I wonder if Venus is like HIMR who looks down on his fans, maybe that's why she said that she liked someone who is a better leech than her and married an even bigger sucker for a Visa. Manaki was healthier than Chihiro, since he divorced her and erased his online presence. I used to be very sympathetic towards Venus, but now, esp after the latest events (pedophile abusive post, outing the bf who had "epic hentai relationships" with guys as if that was any of her business to share and the fan club scam), I think she is rapidly going down the Kanadajin path and her channel will also die.
This little bitch wont change? The little bitch CANT change, she is a narcissist raised by a narcissist who sees nothing wrong with her obviously, since she wont see a serious psychiatrist and would much rather be a leech playing the victim. Nice try to make it look badass Venus, but sad reality is that Margo will control u even from the grave with the way u live.
I knew a woman who used to escort in New York and she told me that flaunting LV items and having long professionally done nails with a lot of "bling bling" on them is a code for sugar babies who are scouting for sugar daddies. I agree with you, it's most likely him and imo he isn't fit for the job since he takes her to random places like the embassy and even there there is no explanation (for example "Venus is here for X/Y/Z charity). I looked his FB up and it doesnt look professional at all, it's a combination of food/hotels/random gatherings.
Isn't she gay? I remember her "I am gay and psycho" coming out on her Insta. Why is she dating a man?
How much psychosis in one tweet? First of all she is not Japanese and her citizenship got denied, second she lives at her mom's basement in Canada on welfare for whatever mental disability she has and third, Japan will never become predominantly Muslim unless there is a war or invasion. Why would people massively change religion otherwise? She is an idiot.
I don't think that Ken is Manaki either. If she was back with Manaki, she would make some kind of update about it. Also if the new guy was someone "presentable" and matching her YouTube theme style (like Manaki who was the cute Japanese bf trying to look like an idol), she would again make a "this is my new bf" update. I have a feeling that "Ken" is some kind of sleazy Ossan, she got involved with bc of her manager or even the manager himself and she is either embarrassed to admit she has become a sugar baby of sorts or in denial about it. It's also not uncommon for girls who grew up with absent fathers to end up in relationships with much older men bc of their daddy issues. I agree with everyone who said that the "this is such a bad day" posts of hers are so FB 2013 from JerkWater Heights high school and they don't make her look good.
In her mind: expired fame = entitlement to act as absolute authority and give unsolicited opinions about everything. She can't even bother to look up how to spell coronavirus, I bet my life she has no idea about virology or epidemics in general, yet she will -once again- spout her nonsense online. How old is she? Isn't she like 30? That's way past the time when someone would excuse her behavior as immaturity. And I am convinced she doesn't have a husband at this point, bc no way him and his family would let her shame them in public with internet tumor behaviors. She needs to focus on important things, like finishing high school and getting a job instead of making socks and acting like a Muslim scholar.
This is something that Margaret would write from a fake account. So your 13-year-old begged you for a channel and you gave in and that makes it her fault? I have a friend whose daughter who is 10 loves ice cream. Every time they go out she will ask for it repeatedly and even beg sometimes. Guess what, he doesn't buy it EVERY time bc it's bad for her health to eat only ice cream constantly. Once the channel started, her mother could moderate/keep it as a hobby and focus on important parts of her child's life, like making friends and going to school. You and your child do NOT co-decide together, the adult has the final decision, it's called parenting. Making your child your business partner is called parentification and is a serious form of abuse. https://www.newportacademy.com/resources/mental-health/parentification/ (sorry if I sound aggressive, but I am tired of hearing nonsense enabling the abuser, like the victim "insisted", "asked for it", "wanted it". At 13 she was a VICTIM of her mother's greed and desire not to work, regardless of her bad choices as an adult now)