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There's like this invincibility complex I see with young adults when they're 18-early 20s when they have so much sex bc they seem to think they will never contract any STD/STI so they never bother getting tested or even ask their partner if they have gotten themselves tested. They think "oh im not a dirty person who shares needles or a hooker so I'll never get one!" And that's the damaging stigma. Esp sex education kinda skips that most STI/STD are asymptomatic (you could have it and not know it bc no symptoms). You could be a virgin and the first person you have sex with could have something. It only takes 1. Nowadays you can easily go to Planned Parenthood they will screen you and give you treatment if ur positive. Pretty sure Ashley has money and easy resources to this shit. It's just so infuriating that her audience is all young girls and she's spouting this bullshit.
Why's she posing like that low-key looks uncomfortable lol. But honestly, for someone who calls herself woke and all abt mental illness or whatever, she's not spreading a good look. Like yeah, our society values you on how useful you are, and if you can't be productive you aren't worth anything. And I know being a "workaholic" is her whole schtick, but that's not something to be spreading to a younger audience. If you are extremely sick, please stay home! Get rest so when you feel better you can work better! Do not go to work or school where u can get so many other ppl sick too. Do not work yourself to exhaustion or feel like ur gonna break down and die! I've had shift leads make my co-workers stay for work when they had a high fever, one who had a painful UTI that she had to rush to the hospital afterwards, and even I worked while having sickness that made me vomit. What's also kind of frustrating is that Ashley can afford to take a long break and get therapy and self care. Until I found a better job I could afford maybe 1 sick day (bc no benefits no sick days with my old job) and other ppl may be in the same boat too.
A bit off topic but going off this, recently a white tiktok girl got hella bank and fame bc she got credited for a dance and performed for a NBA halftime show while the black creative who originally made it got nothing. So Ashley acting like her own head's in her ass by snobbishly saying "I've never heard of her lol" like she doesn't matter is super annoying. https://afrotech.com/social-media-rallies-teen-credit-tiktok-dance
Any gender studies class you could write a whole fucking paper abt internalized misogyny (and ppl have!!) The fact that shes "we live in society" like ok but HOW CAN YOU CHALLENGE THAT MINDSET?? Like I'm pretty sure most girls had a "I'm not like all the other girls" phase. You grow out of it when you realize that you are not that much different from them. You see traditionally feminine things as less, so you try to distance yourself from it thinking you'll move up bc men might see you better than "regular" women, and thus, treat you better than other women. She ostracized HERSELF not the other way around. She saw "normal" women as others and as competition for male attention, instead of potential friends. It's her own fucking fault she doesn't have friends.
Also thought this tweet was very fitting for her. Some ppl can emotionally and mentally handle hookup culture but it doesn't suit everyone. She needs help instead of maladaptive coping mechanisms
Her neighbors have every right to file complaints bc they're HER NEIGHBORS. Also thats not good not only for her house to let them run around and shit everywhere, but bad for the health of her birds. She cant be such a bitch abt everything esp when it's law
75$?? Like thats still pretty cheap for a tattoo but that quality is not worth it. As a person w/ tattoos and a lot of friends w/ whole ass tattoo sleeves, this is really bad quality; like it looks like she just went to some amateur that was cheap bc their equipment or skill is still pretty poor. Like ALL her tattoos look so bad who the fuck does she go to
Having a romantic relationship is hard for everyone but I feel like after this much time has passed I feel like Ashley hasnt gotten over it. And getting over a relationship isn't finding someone new to cling on to; she needs to learn to be ok alone. One one of the things of early adulthood is that it can be lonely. Ppl gotta work long shifts or go to college, etc. But regardless, Ashley needs to learn how to be a well adjusted adult and she needs to go to therapy or something to sort herself out. She needs someone who will listen to her but not coddle her and encourage her or tell her what she wants to hear.
I am worried about when he isn't home. If he's supporting himself and her (bc Noodz refuses to do any work that doesn't have pervs worshipping her) he's prob working full time which means majority of cleaning and care for the dog is her responsibility. But her hamsters escaped and she can barely take care of herself let alone get her dog housebroken or bother taking him for long walks (puppies esp have so much energy you need them to get out)
I mean it somebody fucking tell her to either clean up her apartment or give up the dog to a shelter or someone else to take care of it. There's so much fucking shit on the floor that her puppy could accidentally eat. And has she even had Theodore housebroken? Her place is gonna become more unsanitary. If she can barely afford to feed herself how is she supposed to take him to the vet?? And the groomers?? I bathe my dog and brush her at home bc I've had her gotten used to baths. I'm so scared her dog is gonna get sick or have matted fur
i hate and love how accurate this ghostwrite of her is omg like she really sees other women as other competition or jealous of her and then wonders why she has no friends outside those creeps she calls fans.
i understand that self-deprecating technically gives you or at least makes you feel like ur in control of the situation but the thing I worry abt Ashley and a lot of ppl my age is that self-deprecating humor starts out funny but then you start believing it then that's when the insecurities ppl have start feeling more true. Like, you speak all those harmful jokes into existence. And then, I feel like self-deprecating humor makes you less likely to change? Like, if someone legitimately criticizes you (not bully), instead of maybe considering what you do is wrong/problematic you just say "haha yeah I'm trash" and then you stay the same bc you just brush it off. I feel like it happens w/ a lot of ppl esp Ashley which is why we don't see her getting any better handling her own personal stuff and emotions (in which I hope she uses that money she has to go to therapy or some sort of counseling).
I think definitely she prob thinks that if she doesn't self-deprecate, then people wont be nice to her? Like, ppl prob defend her so much and be like "Oh poor Ashley you all bully her so much and she has so much emotional issues already!" Like, there's nothing wrong w/ being vulnerable and in touch w/ ur emotions. I think that's a great thing! But she overshares way too much and I think she needs to be careful and set boundaries for herself. Its not bad to not share every single trauma or thing thats happened in ur life, that's respecting yourself as a person.