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He needs a fucking reality check. Ive worked with children as an after school program leader for 3 years and... Like literally if you tell NORMAL ppl that you are sexualy aroused by sexual drawings of children people will keep their kids away from you, I would literally put you on a watch list to stay away from a school ground
I think the really big issue with her doing so much sexual talk (besides the fact it's beating a dead horse bc she's said stuff like this A MILLION FUCKING TIMES) Is that... We're not watching Ashley for that talk rr consenting really to it? Like I'm not saying never talk abt ur sex life, but there's a time and place for it. Like if ur with a group of friends, ur never gonna joke abt sex or talk abt it unless the conversation naturally steers towards it over time. But with Ashley she randomly interjects sex every 1 minute and it's uncomfortable for everybody. I get she's insecure and sex is the only thing that makes her feel like an attractive girl but... She literally feels like the verbal form of those couples that make out in the hallways during passing period or to a more extreme, those kink couples that go out with the other one in a dog leash. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF AND UR BEDROOM PLEASE!! We do not care or consent to see or hear that shit!!
HOLLY YOU ARE NOT AN LGBT PERSON YOU ARE A JOKE TOUTING A JOKE "SEXUALITY" WTF DOES THIS EVEN MEAN??? There's fucking actual people in the LGBT community who face harassment or stay in the closet in fear of getting kicked into the streets and being homeless due to homophobia. There's trans people that literally get assaulted and murdered and trans people that get harassed so bad just for existing. You are worthless and weak. She's just grasping at straws, she's these brightly dyed hair cishet white bitches that think the LGBT community is some sort of exclusive club she needs to weasel her way into. If you make fun or bring up her history of cheating she's prob gonna say "YOU"RE BEING DEMIPHOBIC" (which is not even a thing)
Tbh this might be harsh but I don't really feel sorry for Ashley. Like I know a lot of ppl who just whine and cry and wallow in self-pity and ended up just cutting ties with them bc they just have something to always cry about when all the things making them sad is their own fault. The thing is that you can give ppl like Ashley all the best advice in the world, but at the end of the day only she can make changes in her life and if she wants to keep making decisions that will keep making her feel worse, then too bad that's her own choice.
Shes still literally the bitch who thinks racism against white ppl is a thing, also she hates basically every woman bc she sees them as competition, and no doubt she isn't gonna be uplifting women of color (and lets not get into how hypocritical this is with her transphobia and that there's a lot of trans women of color) you are not an ally to me. U do not get brownie/woke points by getting into an argument on Overwatch. A lot of us non-white gamers dont look at chats bc we know the kind of things they say.
Number 1 rule if you decide u can handle casual hookups: MEET UP AT A PUBLIC PLACE FIRST. Tell someone u trust where ur going and who ur meeting. Do not let them pick you up from your house, do not let them be in your car or get into theirs, meet in a super public place like a mall, restaurant, etc. Pref when it's still daylight/late afternoon. Get a feel for how that person is before you meet them. I used to text guys for like 1 month before i decided to meet them bc u can't tell if they're creepy or have a motive. If you feel like they're pressuring u to go back to their place or go to yours and ur uncomfortable, LEAVE. her audience is all young girls and she's going abt everything like there isnt any real life consequences to her actions which is gonna give these girls the same invincibility complex and get them in trouble.
There's like this invincibility complex I see with young adults when they're 18-early 20s when they have so much sex bc they seem to think they will never contract any STD/STI so they never bother getting tested or even ask their partner if they have gotten themselves tested. They think "oh im not a dirty person who shares needles or a hooker so I'll never get one!" And that's the damaging stigma. Esp sex education kinda skips that most STI/STD are asymptomatic (you could have it and not know it bc no symptoms). You could be a virgin and the first person you have sex with could have something. It only takes 1. Nowadays you can easily go to Planned Parenthood they will screen you and give you treatment if ur positive. Pretty sure Ashley has money and easy resources to this shit. It's just so infuriating that her audience is all young girls and she's spouting this bullshit.
Why's she posing like that low-key looks uncomfortable lol. But honestly, for someone who calls herself woke and all abt mental illness or whatever, she's not spreading a good look. Like yeah, our society values you on how useful you are, and if you can't be productive you aren't worth anything. And I know being a "workaholic" is her whole schtick, but that's not something to be spreading to a younger audience. If you are extremely sick, please stay home! Get rest so when you feel better you can work better! Do not go to work or school where u can get so many other ppl sick too. Do not work yourself to exhaustion or feel like ur gonna break down and die! I've had shift leads make my co-workers stay for work when they had a high fever, one who had a painful UTI that she had to rush to the hospital afterwards, and even I worked while having sickness that made me vomit. What's also kind of frustrating is that Ashley can afford to take a long break and get therapy and self care. Until I found a better job I could afford maybe 1 sick day (bc no benefits no sick days with my old job) and other ppl may be in the same boat too.
A bit off topic but going off this, recently a white tiktok girl got hella bank and fame bc she got credited for a dance and performed for a NBA halftime show while the black creative who originally made it got nothing. So Ashley acting like her own head's in her ass by snobbishly saying "I've never heard of her lol" like she doesn't matter is super annoying. https://afrotech.com/social-media-rallies-teen-credit-tiktok-dance
Any gender studies class you could write a whole fucking paper abt internalized misogyny (and ppl have!!) The fact that shes "we live in society" like ok but HOW CAN YOU CHALLENGE THAT MINDSET?? Like I'm pretty sure most girls had a "I'm not like all the other girls" phase. You grow out of it when you realize that you are not that much different from them. You see traditionally feminine things as less, so you try to distance yourself from it thinking you'll move up bc men might see you better than "regular" women, and thus, treat you better than other women. She ostracized HERSELF not the other way around. She saw "normal" women as others and as competition for male attention, instead of potential friends. It's her own fucking fault she doesn't have friends.
Also thought this tweet was very fitting for her. Some ppl can emotionally and mentally handle hookup culture but it doesn't suit everyone. She needs help instead of maladaptive coping mechanisms