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Her neighbors have every right to file complaints bc they're HER NEIGHBORS. Also thats not good not only for her house to let them run around and shit everywhere, but bad for the health of her birds. She cant be such a bitch abt everything esp when it's law
75$?? Like thats still pretty cheap for a tattoo but that quality is not worth it. As a person w/ tattoos and a lot of friends w/ whole ass tattoo sleeves, this is really bad quality; like it looks like she just went to some amateur that was cheap bc their equipment or skill is still pretty poor. Like ALL her tattoos look so bad who the fuck does she go to
Having a romantic relationship is hard for everyone but I feel like after this much time has passed I feel like Ashley hasnt gotten over it. And getting over a relationship isn't finding someone new to cling on to; she needs to learn to be ok alone. One one of the things of early adulthood is that it can be lonely. Ppl gotta work long shifts or go to college, etc. But regardless, Ashley needs to learn how to be a well adjusted adult and she needs to go to therapy or something to sort herself out. She needs someone who will listen to her but not coddle her and encourage her or tell her what she wants to hear.
I am worried about when he isn't home. If he's supporting himself and her (bc Noodz refuses to do any work that doesn't have pervs worshipping her) he's prob working full time which means majority of cleaning and care for the dog is her responsibility. But her hamsters escaped and she can barely take care of herself let alone get her dog housebroken or bother taking him for long walks (puppies esp have so much energy you need them to get out)
I mean it somebody fucking tell her to either clean up her apartment or give up the dog to a shelter or someone else to take care of it. There's so much fucking shit on the floor that her puppy could accidentally eat. And has she even had Theodore housebroken? Her place is gonna become more unsanitary. If she can barely afford to feed herself how is she supposed to take him to the vet?? And the groomers?? I bathe my dog and brush her at home bc I've had her gotten used to baths. I'm so scared her dog is gonna get sick or have matted fur
i hate and love how accurate this ghostwrite of her is omg like she really sees other women as other competition or jealous of her and then wonders why she has no friends outside those creeps she calls fans.
i understand that self-deprecating technically gives you or at least makes you feel like ur in control of the situation but the thing I worry abt Ashley and a lot of ppl my age is that self-deprecating humor starts out funny but then you start believing it then that's when the insecurities ppl have start feeling more true. Like, you speak all those harmful jokes into existence. And then, I feel like self-deprecating humor makes you less likely to change? Like, if someone legitimately criticizes you (not bully), instead of maybe considering what you do is wrong/problematic you just say "haha yeah I'm trash" and then you stay the same bc you just brush it off. I feel like it happens w/ a lot of ppl esp Ashley which is why we don't see her getting any better handling her own personal stuff and emotions (in which I hope she uses that money she has to go to therapy or some sort of counseling).
I think definitely she prob thinks that if she doesn't self-deprecate, then people wont be nice to her? Like, ppl prob defend her so much and be like "Oh poor Ashley you all bully her so much and she has so much emotional issues already!" Like, there's nothing wrong w/ being vulnerable and in touch w/ ur emotions. I think that's a great thing! But she overshares way too much and I think she needs to be careful and set boundaries for herself. Its not bad to not share every single trauma or thing thats happened in ur life, that's respecting yourself as a person.
Wait thats blush??? Why does it look more on the tan/brown side?? And it looks so splotchy and uneven I thought it was just skin discoloration...
And what im saying is that its only you 2 arguing with each other and flooding up a thread when we're trying to find updates on Ashley. Idc abt either side and frankly nobody else does. There is no ignore/mute button on PULL that makes it so we don't see your replies to each other. Be considerate of the ppl who don't know or dont care abt what both of you are arguing about, and take it to the private messaging system (the whole reason why thats there)
idk ppl arguing over "Dont say this or that" or saying "ur opinion is wrong!" is super annoying. like yea its technically still abt her but its becoming more about which on of you guys are right. And that doesnt matter on a PULL thread where yall are both angrily ranting at each other. Plus nobody cares go message each other privately abt ur opinions instead of hashing it out for people to see
some ppl think that pity=liking, but no. Acting pitiful will not make people like you, it will make people feel like they're walking on eggshells around you and not want to talk to you that much
this makes me feel like she was not the one dealing w/ the lease, rent, etc. but her parents were just taking care of the finances, she just picked whatever home looked nice. Like... you have to research A LOT before moving; check if utilities are included in your rent, how long is the lease that they want you to sign? Long-term/short-term? Did she research certain protections or laws for tenants so she doesn't get screwed over by landlords? BUT SHE DOESNT EVEN HAVE AN ACTUAL PLACE SET UP. like why the fuck are you moving across the fucking country and you don't even have the place yet???? Like im sorry if this is rude BUT THATS SO FUCKING STUPID AND IRRESPONSIBLE OF HER