Those "private" videos became extremely boring and even more half-assed in the past weeks, you haven't really missed much. Our hero in disguise stopped pledging to her Patreon this month lol.
The only real great tea was part 2 and 3 of that one video where she was whining how she wants a real job and Splenda not supporting that idea; He showed his true colors there. Splenda's a fucking narcissist with classic, picture book psycho traits. + We get to know that he got sued by his ex-wife because of the DDLG vibe videos right before their wedding.
And another video where it turns out Yumi cheated on Splenda when they started dating LMAO
EDIT: I totally forgot the video where it also turns out that Yumi thought all her life long that you can choose the gender of your baby. Yes, you've read right: An almost 28 y/o woman was confidently thinking that. She needed a fucking doctor to make clear that this is NOT possible.
EDIT 2: Yumi dragged Splenda through China in the search of her ex-boyfriend. In the video she was searching for him in that building where that English Language Institute thing was she went to in the past (...that guy was a teacher there, oof. Yuhan...). He was extremely annoyed/pissed and said he wants to do sight-seeing & fun stuff instead etc. The institute doesn't exist in that building anymore though...She seemed pretty desperate. At the end of the video Yumi wrote that Splenda was bored and the next time she goes to China she wants to go alone... /cough Yeah he was sooooo bored, mhm...
Just random, but I hate how she's still pulling that author card and it annoys me so much.
The "publisher" she's under is one YOU PAY so they publish your stuff.
Yes, stuff like that exists
My friend is an author and I learned lots about all the ways you can get your book out there, and this is definitely the lamest of all. I already supected Sabrina of going this way, but I never really cared enough back then to actually take a closer look. She paid 300€ per book! (Info from the publisher's website lol)
They make the cover, do some proof-reading and connections with bookstores etc, that's why you also can find these books there. Remember that photo of her book having a display? Ugh... Marketing is up to you tho.
She just could have bought an ISBN and do the rest by herself. Would have been much wiser...and cheaper as well.
What also lacks her "coords" is a theme. She just slaps items together that have colors in the same spectrum and calls it a day, the picture in the middle is a perfect example lmao. That fucking dress has a piano keys + cats print. Why the fuck is she pairing it with that snowflake headpiece and a rose wand? Makes no sense at all, but to her it matches simply because white and pink :B (She once paired that dress with some ugly ass 3D cat pouch as well...because cat oof). Also don't get me started with the blouse asdfgkskw. The last one could have been a very cute Classic Lolita coord if she would make some hair updo with braids and stuff, slap some ribbon on there and then complete the whole thing with a vintage bag in the color of her shoes...which she definitely owns, you can see her bags in the last closet tour video she made last year. The first one is "okay" on its own as there's something going on on that dress, some cute frilly handcuffs wouldn't hurt with that dress tho. And maybe a matching necklace. But I agree with @Qualle that she is ALWAYS lacking accessories, it also bothered me back in the days when she was wearing her cheap plastic sponsor clothing -only-. In the end it doesn't matter which fashion style you wear, accessories are essential for perfecting outfits and giving final touches
Someone's lowkey putting themselves on a high pedestal for not receiving therapy and glamorizing Japan for it's fucked up mentality towards mental diseases /cough @Poutine I was thinking the same all the time as well. Especially after reading an article about eating disorders in Japan last year (Wish I had the link rn). Patients have to wait year's until they receive therapy. Also the writer of the article talked to a student of a well known medicine school and they said they're 1 of 12 who specialize on therapy. When the whole I'm all open about my mental illness now era started it didn't take her too long to come up with "receiving therapy now". I thought it happened way too fast... I just wonder how long the Malice crap will last. 100% sure she'll eventually hit that point once again where she feels like "This is not me. I don't want this anymore". Also I'm pretty sure fans are scared off by her attitude now, it's like watching someone going insane and you can't do shit at all. It's indeed frightening.
Damn, her identity issues u g h Get off the internet already, Venus. It wasn't and isn't healthy for you.
She got in such a huge mess already but she's digging herself deeper into it by finding one excuse after another for Malice being a good thing for her (e.g. I'm still me! Just virtual! etc. You don't even know who YOU really are, girl...
young people these days might not believe in god/deities anymore but they sure found replacements for religion they can go extreme about and it annoys the shit outta me, the whole fucking internet is plastered with all that stuff.
I wouldn't say the material is fraying but it looks more like a deco fabric to me, like for pillow cases and table cloth etc But it's actually still legit to me, Baroque/Rococo style dresses suit Hime Lolita very well, don't be too harsh on her lol (535$ is WAY too much though). The dress can't do anything about its wearer... Not that I think she rocks Hime Lolita...or Lolita in general lmao THAT BAG. Of course she thinks it suits the dress because it's lilac ugh. Children logic strikes back again. These over the top dresses are only good for photos imo...
I just don't get why she thinks Malice will be doing any good to her? She obviously has identity issues and coming up with yet another "persona" is the worst thing she could have done imo...It's just another era of acting she has introduced. And it's more than obvious that she has a real problem with acting. Girl, if you feel uncomfortable portraying different persons...then don't do it? I don't mind the change tho, I just HATE the motif behind it. If she was talking about trying out new stuff and shit it would have been a whole different issue here. Venus was doing SO well after she has free'd herself from Maggot and showed everyone her "real self". The response was postive and STAYED this way which is pretty unusual (Simple example: Just think of your favorite band maybe whose new stuff you don't dig at all). And now she's going nuts. I understand the Internet-as-an-outlet-for-emotions thing...to a certain extent. She's not alone anymore, she has genuine people she can talk to and fucking listen to her. Heck, they even decide to stay by her side no matter what. MIs drive people away from you faster than you can look. I used to do that too back in my teens when I had no friends and family, I was frustrated and I needed help but once you know there's someone you can rely on that urge to shout out all your darkest thoughts to the world decreases automatically. (While saying this I just find it so contradicting that she's now all for "I want to stay more private" but lets the whole world know her suicidal thoughts. Venus is definitely on a wild ride now, let's see when she comes back to Earth again...)
Like wtf, the way she describes her sounds just like a classic. freaking. annoying brat. But she gets away with it because Lindy sees this as strong and sassy...and independent, gosh. Screaming so loud that your ears bleed means she's standing up for herself guys!! While Isaac is the weak, shy, helpless boy just because he can't word his feelings and cries...Lindy how fucking stupid are you? Your kids are better off when you give them up for adoption, seriously. He's a CHILD. And it's normal for children to just cry when something's not quite right because they don't know how else to cope with it. That's common knowledge I thought? But she's spinning her own fictional family story by giving her kids certain traits because she is over-interpreting.
For example when kids fall on their knees, not even hurting themselves, many of them cry anyway because they're kinda confused and everything happened too fast for them to comprehend. I can imagine very well that Isaac is also that kind of kid.
Guys I don't even have kids and was always the youngest wherever I was... Sorry for the rant, I just hate how she always acts like a uber mom while knowing shit Also I feel so damn sorry for Isaac, that favoriting game is cruel and I know too well that this will cause huge mental problems later on
yeah she might accept that she fucked shit up but she still does not want to acknowledge the REAL reasons why she fucked up at the end of the day she just puts the blame on the viewers being uninterested...
I just hope she is too scared of getting pregnant now after learning that she can't choose the gender...in her... ...almost 28 years on this planet @strwbry that IG post was from when she was in her last semester as far as i remember :'D
I'm pretty sure Splenda helped her with tons of stuff Also munning can buy you almost everything...
It's like @Seriously said; Being an university student doesn't equal intelligence. I've seen that too often, countless other peeps have been witnessing this phenomenon too often as well and Yumi is an excellent example Also don't ever forget the IG post where she was almost literally whining that her major wasn't as easy as expected lololol Speaks for itself I guess.
...Also isn't it bitter that her listing animals that eat other animals is one of the most "intellectual" things she said since forever LMAO
really love the thumbnail, i thought it might be hilarious if you actually line it to emphasize the look of their "kiss" because i couldn't stop laughing at it, it looks so shitty lololol yumi looks like an ape and splenda's pout looks like it melted miserably
and then i decided to turn it into some hipster artwork lmao (and i like it more than i should...not the subject tho LMAO)