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  1. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    I gotta be honest, I'm not even anorexic but I would be slightly triggered from standing next to and ESPECIALLY being photographed next to Mikan Mandarin. She's sooooo tiny and skinny, and it's just natural from her small bone structure.  Venus is not a big person at all, but she looks "big" and like she has "thick thighs" when standing next to her. I  would just avoid all that if I were her in her delicate condition. 
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  2. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

     Totally agree. I think she doesn't want to do YouTube anymore, but like a teenager she doesn't want to "just quit". It's "better" in her mind to trash her channel and lose a bunch of viewers so she can say "I tried a new direction and people didn't like it so I had to quit YouTube" because it's easier than admitting that she doesn't want the easy cash that comes from having a YouTube channel anymore. Self-sabotage is the word I'm looking for. And it may not be entirely conscious (she didn't sit down one day and write out on a Notepad "Step 1: trash YouTube channel. Step 2: lose viewers Step 3: quit YouTube with less pressure) 
    It's not uncommon for children who were pressured into a sport or activity as a child to resort to these sort of self-sabotage tactics to get out of it because it's easier than admitting you hate this thing you're successful at. 
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  3. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    You're right, it's better that people throw themselves off buildings on the regular than get therapy. Therapy is for pussies! Suicide is for real men and women! 
     
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_in_Japan
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  4. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    @Jellyfish -- thank you for all of that research. Very helpful. 
    For the discussion about therapy, I just have to laugh that someone  -- who is witnessing a once vibrant, social woman talk about how she just wants to lock herself in a dark room and do nothing all day. . and who also has said many times she has a severe mental illness. Severe enough that she had her digestive organs permanently mutilated. And who also was raised and abused for most of her childhood by a psychotic woman  -- would say that "therapy is not the answer". That is a TEXTBOOK EXAMPLE of someone who should be in therapy.  For life. Even if it takes mowing through 20 different therapists until she finds the right one, makes a connection, and can have that healthy professional relationship for life. 
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  5. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    You  . . you don't understand how YouTube works, do you? 
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  6. Big Boner added a post in a topic Eugenia Cooney aka Skeleton Queen   

    If she were dead her family would post something. They were enjoying her fat paycheck and "famous" status when she was the queen of the pro-ana world, so there's no doubt that her mom would post something about her death and bask in the attention/cash it would bring. 
    I agree with whoever said "no news is good news". Her channel is so toxic it should have been age-restricted to 18+ at least 4 years ago. If she starts posting on it again, posting the same shit, then you can be certain she isn't serious about recovery at all. 
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  7. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    That is where you are wrong.  She is a broadcasting show. YouTube is her only job. She is getting paid. YouTube and her subscribers are her employers. If she demonetized her channel and had some other job she did to earn a living, then her channel would simply be a hobby she does for fun. But for now she has to please her employers or she doesn't eat. 
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  8. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    I unsubscribed. This is dumb shit and she's an idiot for treating her subscribers this way. She isn't even going to put herself in her videos? Obviously this is some issues with her face and body and she wants to hide. She should have gotten professional help instead of spitting in the face of the people who've been paying her bills. I usually think of Venus as an intelligent young lady but I'm questioning that now. She's a fucking idiot. 
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  9. Big Boner added a post in a topic Eugenia Cooney aka Skeleton Queen   

    Some theories have been floated here and elsewhere that it is a bot her account uses to stay active, or an agent or a parent/relative that is "liking" appropriate things from her Instagram account to keep it active and allow her to keep her verified status. It would make very good sense to have someone babysitting her account (staying logged in, liking things that make sense, and checking for unusual posting or login activity) so it doesn't get hacked again  -- one time someone hacked her Twitter account and posted some awful racist shit under her name. 
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  10. Big Boner added a post in a topic Eugenia Cooney aka Skeleton Queen   

    Nope, no way. When treating an addiction, privacy and limited contact with people is very important, while public exposure is strongly discouraged. Parents who go to in-patient treatment don't even get to see their young children for extended periods of time . .working men and women do not go to work while in an intensive treatment program. This is true for A-list celebrities at the hottest Malibu rehab centers and it is definitely true for a D-list YouTube celebrity in whatever clinic she is in. 
    A person in in-patient recovery needs to be focused 100% on recovery.  This is true for everyone but it is especially true for someone as crippled by her disorder as Eugenia -- her YouTube channel was her making money off of her eating disorder. that's the only reason anyone watched her in the last 3 years. She was the Anorexia Showoff Channel. It would be suicide to allow her back on the platform for a loooooong time. Not even to talk about her recovery. If she comes back to YouTube at all in 2019 it will basically mean she's not serious about recovery, and any clinic that encouraged her to do that would be a bogus clinic looking for publicity and not caring about their patient. 
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  11. Big Boner added a post in a topic Eugenia Cooney aka Skeleton Queen   

    Some people are just really stupid, desperate, and pathetic. They have such low self-worth that they think believing something that is clearly not true makes them "unique" and "special". See also: Sandy Hook conspiracy theorists, Holocaust deniers, anti-vaxxers, etc. They are lower than trolls, subhuman scum. 
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  12. Big Boner added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    I agree. She was 18, no reason to believe she was underage (even though 16 is the age of consent for many things in UK, 18 is a more comfortable age of consent for these things and she was 18). Plus, if you censor it you admit that it is this terrible shameful thing, and it just isn't. What she did was legal and consensual and publicly posted (which is different than, say, revenge porn, where a woman over age a18 consents to sending nude photos to 1 person with the explicit understanding that it would not be distributed between anyone other than those 2 people) 
    She dabbled in some lame sex shit online. She hated it. she moved on. Big fucking deal. 
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  13. Big Boner added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    I mean, I totally agree with you, but it isn't Mikan who's saying it's empowering -- she said she thought it would be easy and instead it was disgusting and degrading (and, in fact, NOT easy) so she stopped. So why the hate? Cuz she tried it? Because every guy who spits hate at sex workers is the first to admit that if he were female he'd try to make "easy" money by flashing is tits soooooooo. . . .
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  14. Big Boner added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    @Mikan.Mandarin acutally I really like your nose job. I am usually a pretty good plastic surgery sleuth but I had NO IDEA that it wasn't your real nose. In fact I thought (and still think) your nose is quite beautiful, rather than just something unremarkable that sits on your face like it is for most people. 
     
    As far as sex work goes, meh. I'm not a fan of it personally, but I get why people do it especially when they are young. If you've stopped doing it now to pursue other more productive and healthy ways to make money that's all anyone can ask of you so if there are slut-shamers out there they can go hump a tree. 
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  15. Big Boner added a post in a topic General Venus Angelic Thread #3   

    Pick and choose what she's lying about vs what's the truth I suppose. Maybe her hamster really ate Manaki and she's dealing with grief by humorously joking that she's gay!  Otherwise this is just run-of-the-mill psychosis of a girl with very serious mental illness. The better narrative is all the lemmings in her comments section making her sound like the 2nd coming of Gay Jesus with her joke comment about being a gay psycho. 
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