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    • Clarifying How To Use the Report Feature   06/29/20

      Hello. I have noticed a great deal of confusion regarding how to use the report feature and what is expected regarding reports, so I am making a clarification announcement to users who may be unfamiliar with how the report feature works. Please note we have this rule regarding reports: 16.  Do report. Do not make frivolous reports (such as "I don't like this person"). Frivolous reports will result in a warning and possible ban. a. When reporting, please give a reason. Reports citing what rule the post is breaking and giving some information are way more valuable and will get the issue resolved faster. (Reports with no explanations sometimes require mods to go through and skim the entire thread to find out what's going on. Please save us time if you can). b. Don’t waste the mods’ time. Report people for breaking the rules, otherwise don’t report. [Rules in their entirety can be found here.] We also have a wonderful tutorial on how to use the report feature created by one of our former moderators which you can find here. In essence, we enforce the rules as they are written. In a rare occasion there may not be a direct violation but the user is still conducting themselves inappropriately and how we handle that is up to the moderators discretion. We do our best. We also encourage you to use the report feature to report posts that have been edited down to nothing or if you double posted and would like your double post hidden. Also, please note that we do not provide updates on reports. We get far too many to be able to keep up with every one. You are welcome to message a moderator to ask about your report, but please know that we cannot and will not divulge any information on whether we banned the user you are reporting. Simply that we have taken appropriate action. I hope this helps provide further clarification on how to use the report feature. Should you have any questions not clear in these instructions, please feel free to message me or Nyx. Thank you.

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  1. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    agreed. i don't really expect much from kpop companies either. they tend to restrict what an idol should do so i can't exactly blame idols either tbh. 
    gonna add this too: i also remember someone saying idols are kept apolitical as much as possible and... that makes sense tbh? that way its easier to put your own agendas on them (idk how to explain it) 
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  2. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    BLM has been going on for years. Its not a simple hashtag that you trend for days then you call it a day. 
    Kpoppies are cancelling people for genuinely not knowing the issue (and these people come from far away countries) when they could have used it to educate them. But considering how they treat this, its obvious they want brownie points. A lot of kpop stans brush off racism againt againt black people and ive seen it too many times already. Ffs theres this one kpop stan (idk them, but its someone else's mutual) telling a black girl they'll hang them and it was recent....but now theyre treating the movement like a  bandwagon 💀
    I hate stan twitter honestly. With cancel culturists going on about, with their fake concerns, it will really drain emotions from you. I want to speak up but I'd rather not, since they will twist your words. 
     
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  3. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular opinions   

    i get the "omg are you dating ____" too. i get that when im spotted talking to guys--and i get this from girls sometimes. like, they'll make a big deal if they see you with boys (then again, i came from an all girls school which is understandable) 

    but i did experience getting called "flirt", "slut" (not the exact words, they said something in our mother language but it usually has a negative meaning to it) behind my back for being close to my guy friends. like... come on. i don't get to see them everyday? 
    LUCKILY... not all my female friends were like this, and ofc not all girls are like this (like you im also a girl). but sometimes i feel like those kinds of girls are motivated by insecurity. 
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  4. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    i feel extreme anger when i see a friend--or anyone, get mistreated by their ex. the person who's supposed to love them. heck the worse case ik is my closest friend. she got the worse treatment from her ex, out of all people i know. it makes me super angry. but seeing this happen to people and my friends makes me scared of romantic relationships sometimes. yes its lonely sometimes but falling in love means everything to me, because it's one of those times youre completely vulnerable to someone. 
    ik ive ranted about my shitty ex here but i know he loved me--he just fucked up badly when we broke up lmao. 
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  5. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    i think i understand why people have to post "idols arent your friends" time to time. i do think some idols care for their fans (maybe not in a close friend way, but they still care?) but... it has to be said for the overly-attached and overly sensitive fans. 
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  6. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular opinions   

    having art references/inspiration for character design isn't bad, BUT as long as you put your own elements into it
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  7. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    twitter stans are way too sensitive. you can't even make a harmless joke about your kpop bias and they'll still take it the wrong way. theyre way too overprotective, as if they know every little thing about them. 
    it's not cute nor admirable. it makes you look like an obsessive parent who doesn't know your boundaries. 
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  8. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    as mei main that sounds fucking dumb omg. like... she has her damn ult for that??? then again i aint playing ovw rn so...
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  9. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    oof i suddenly am reminded by kmbw and her fans. like how they claimed kai until he dated krystal lmao. and her lowkey shading korean girls 
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  10. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    -ppl who scream "LET (IDOL) DATE!!!!" but the moment the idol talk abt their preferences in the opposite sex, they get passive aggressive like??? I thought you're okay with him dating lmfao????
    -when an idol fucks up and the stans go "pls dont post this! I dont want him to get hate" are making it worse tbh. Idols are grown ass adults. Let them own up their mistakes.
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  11. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    - i'm so tired of the racism towards asians bec of the pandemic. nope, not a victim of one--but ive seen it happen to other asians (mostly east asians). yes it came from china, but let's not generalize east asians... like??? south korea is dealing the virus better than most countries yet koreans are getting lumped into the racism  

    i know when most people are talking about asians, they mostly mean east asian anyway... but as a filipino it still makes me feel unsafe. i probably will not fall to these attacks but it still concerns me. and fuck the other poc for joining into the racism. just because you've experienced racism yourself, doesn't give you the right to combat it with your racist behavior. fuck you. i've read stories of filipinos being victims of chinese racists. these made me super angry but i still think it isn't right to be racist or generalize chinese people. 
    if you're gonna fight fire with fire, you won't win. IT WON'T GET YOU ANYWHERE AT ALL. 
    - when parents say "we can't resist our children from playing outside"... just say you shouldnt be a parent. you shouldnt be letting your kid out while a pandemic is ongoing. ffs, let them know this is something that shouldn't be taken lightly. stop shielding them from this.
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  12. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Covid-19 Discussion Thread   

    so, i read somewhere you should always look at the number of deaths & recovered, than cases
    well we have more deaths than recovered people, which is bad bec it means we aren't flattening the curve anytime soon. just this afternoon, i saw people bringing their kids in the park. like WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU LET YOUR KIDS PLAY OUTSIDE?! kids can also be infected!!!!!!!!!! ffs some people shouldn't be parents 🤦 
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  13. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular opinions   

    regardless theres belief to back it up or not, i think it makes more sense that you'll have multiple people to be compatible with overall (and its up to you who you wanna end up with). I think thinking theres one person for you can be pressuring imo.. tho i understand where that belief came from (red string of fate comes to mind esp that ancient greek belief where humans are split into two ppl)
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  14. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    i wish i wasnt so harsh on myself last year (and the years before that). when i remember how my self esteem was doing in the last years, i end up remembering terrible stuff. i dont criticize my looks as much this year, but yeah i wish i did that earlier. 
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  15. b0nb0n added a post in a topic Unpopular opinions   

    i personally dont think there's one soulmate. you can be deeply compatible with more than one person--but you're going to choose one you'll live with forever. like for example, i used to think this guy was for me, but i recognize that there might be another person for me. 
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