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-you can be attractive physically, but still not be photogenic -understandable if you use alcohol to cope with stress, but it still isnt right. please find a healthier method to do that -the "everyone is beautiful" is super annoying.
this every time i tell someone to seek help (or talking abt mental health in general), they always pull this crap 🙄 ....please. youre not completely helpless. it's even worse when they discourage other people to seek help too, all cause they think it won't help
i cant help but side-eye when kpop fans keep calling their idols 'gay' until they date someone from the opposite sex, so now theyre suddenly 'straight'. it's like the ONLY sexualities they know are gay and straight. like...they could be bi? or something else? as a bi person it kinda baffles me but what do i expect from kpop stans..
- joshua looks best with straight hairstyle (im talking abt something like this ) - speaking of joshua, i don't like most eye makeup done on him;; - a seventeen world tour feels too soon...idk ideal cut wasn't so long ago lol
i actually like seventeen's 'hit' music--and this is coming from someone who has been unsatisfied with their recent comebacks but i like thanks the most. the song is nice and the dance brought more meaning to it. putting korean sign languages in it? thats honestly impressive
and honestly...im not surprised that people find daniel/jihyo random? like yeah honestly we dont know whats happening behind the scenes. im actually happy for them esp jihyo. she deserves to be happy
I thought I was the only one! When I was looking at their Dalla Dalla promotions, Lia gave me this Chinese idol-aesthetic. It's quite hard to describe why. She just does tbh - One of the most annoying things abt Kpop stan twt: spreading mistranslations and making false alarms out of it
- 24 hours from PD101 Season 1 was the best song and I'm probably one of the few who liked it at the first listen
- I feel like there's no best dancer in Kpop bec they're so many good ones that I don't even know who's the best of them all. and I think it's pointless.
- Sowon and Solar aren't that attractive to me despite being visuals.
i feel selfish for wanting to ignore the negativity in the world, but i just dont wanna deal with it. life at home is stressful. there's always family arguments and it makes me want to shut off. life after college feels uncertain. things in my country are doing terribly and is at possible risk. ive been getting irritated at small things (i have good self control though). i feel tired of being angry and stressed.
im not saying i want to be completely naive. i know bad stuff is unavoidable. my awareness of the world is still there--i just don't wanna be reminded of terrible things constantly. i feel jaded lately.
if a East asian dude (or any dude really) showed attraction to me, and i am also attracted to them, then sure. but if they wanna date me and pull the "youre cute for a SEA girl" card i'll step back REAL fast...i dont wanna feel like i'm some second choice yikes
SEA girls can be just as cute and dainty honestly--and big eyes are pretty common for SEA, so doe eyes are very possible (though east asians can have them naturally too ofc). but it sucks that these people think theyre only on east asians cause of the trends
but honestly i dont think these guys matter in the long run. its their fault for focusing on one thing and being ignorant abt the others.
yeah it honestly sucks how people stereotype sea, as a SEA myself too. just what does 'asian' looking even mean? like... thats honestly ridiculous and there are tan east asians too. every time someone says "im into asian girls" im like... "probably east asian girls only?" : / ik its bad for me to assume right away, but i have seen so much of this on the internet so i have a reason to think such *shrugging emoji*