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i dont get fans who still ship couples who aren't dating anymore. i kinda find it disrespectful. you dont know what exactly went wrong in the relationship (unless they explain themselves...) so why can't you accept that theyre no longer together?
im someone with a babyface and i agree. Now i dont think im devastatingly ugly (i have been told im good looking many times). I'd rate myself a 7/8 out of 10... but this is why i avoid pictures now. My features dont translate well on pictures and it frustrates me!!!!! Even more when you get candid photos oh god thats worse--
this is gonna sound dramatic im sorry falling in love is so...exhausting. especially if it isn't reciprocated. obviously you cannot control someone so there's nothing much you can do. i feel the doom when i fall for someone who i'm sure won't feel the same back, thats why im trying to avoid it. also i'm paaaiiiiinnnfully shy for my own good. i dont know how to approach someone esp if i like them!!! i only do it when we have similar interests, otherwise, it's super hard for me. and then someone falls for me and i dont feel the same way for them... sighs i'm super unlucky with dating i dont have money to go out either and i've been away from school for months due to personal reasons. school also stresses me out so i wouldnt think abt getting a bf/gf from there... problem w/ me is, i have 'happy crushes' on guys i like. but then my brain makes scenarios of us dating seriously. ik the difference between infatuation and love but ugh idk i really hate it when i inevitably think of things like having relationships w/ my casual crushes. it gives me dumb hopes tbh... it also sucks that even tho im not in love with someone, there's still attachment somehow. and im the type who's a hopeless romantic--whatever you call it.
i'm happy momo is dating, even though the age gap feels weird to me. maybe because people in their 20s still have their life ahead of them, compared to people in their 30s. when i was 19, i used to think it was okay to date an older dude (as long as both of you are legal adults of course) until i turned 20+. then again, i can only speak for some, and i know that doesn't apply to all. so honestly i can't say that they're gonna break up over an age gap. people shouldn't jump into accusations right away either, even though anything can happen in the industry.
i agree. honestly i dont even lurk in the snowflakes/personalities threads that much anymore bec they got boring. definitely there are problematic people out there, but on some threads, it feels like people are nitpicking too much. sometimes i feel like it's jealousy and theyre trying hard to find flaws in them
this. this this tHIS THIS. i will never shut up over my annoyance for astrology lol i find them fun to read---nothing more. yet i see people taking it tooooo seriously, to the point they cant get into relationships w/ others bec of their SIGNS. like why???? an entire natal chart can't actually dictate what kind of person you need to end up with?? seriously if you like someone, just go for it!!! i know two people who are compatible w/ their sun and moon sign, YET theyre actually very incompatible irl. honestly its the environment and upbringing are what makes a person tbh (sorry if my grammar jacked up )
i hope next year is even better. this was a terrible year for me. financial problems in my family peaked in this year. my mental health went down the drain too (things that triggered my insecurities and suicidal self...fun ). on top of that--my family is kinda falling apart. it just sucks bec i grew up believing i had a happy family and all. turns out there were problems in my family while i was growing up. and i only knew about it at this age. i also fucking hate it when people ask 'whats your blessings for this year?'. because i couldn't think of any. we had an activity like that in church and it made me cry because what the fuck should i say? it was a terrible year. thats it. i was more optimistic and happier--and thats how i was in the start of the year. i feel sorry for failing myself and others bec other ppl know im the optimistic type...i also wanna mention these are people from school and i've been away from school due to family reasons. i actually feel better now. my fam have started saving the aircon bec tbh thats the reason why our electricity rates are so high. anways yeah that was my gripe for this year LOL i'm glad it's ending soon...at least i'm alive i guess thats a good part.