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as @Uso Said already, at this point her situation is Self-inflicted. And what I absolutely despise are people who tell her exactly what she wants to hear: „You‘re not the problem, everybody else is!“. Yes, she didn’t have the best childhood but she freed herself from Margo years ago blah-blah...that’s not an excuse anymore imho.....and from what we saw about manaki, he was seemingly the only stability in her life. We can discuss now if he was a creep or not, but that doesn’t change the fact, that he had a good impact on her...now he‘s gone and Venus sanity is too!
I don‘t understand how some members are saying, that she wouldn’t go back to Switzerland since she has no friends and family (excluding Margo) there?! Don’t get me wrong, move to the other side of the world is not as easy as it sounds, I know that...but...she also does not have any friends and family in Japan!
I work as a chemist, so my Job expertise belongs to the laboratory, but my boss „blessed“ me with a lot of administrative work like the purchase of lab equipment, solvents etc... I hated that at first, because my boss thought it’s easy work...over the years I started handling invoices, issues with suppliers, negotiating with vendors....all while still handling the work in the lab! he recognized that finally, got a raise last year and today I negotiated a freaking contract with a vendor about the fixed delivery time of our main-solvent which we usually always have troubles to get, because of low stock amount at every vendor who is providing that stuff! My boss was proud, I was proud! I know it sounds like no big deal for you, but contracts between us and a vendor are usually done by our buyers and you know....paperwork! I really start to like that kind of administrative work slowly
Oh please don‘t contact Venus regarding that issue! Regardless of the PULL Rules. I know, @fayevalentine had good intentions behind that...but please be aware that we are talking about Venus! I‘m honestly doubting that these sexual-abuse allegations are actually true! Remember what she said about Mana! I have my troubles believing whatever she puts out there
The pathetic thing is actually the story post immediately after that one (talking about positive mental health updates and simultaneously posting how your coffin should look like is...not going well together)
Really getting sick of my bf‘s parents constantly asking me „WhEn ArE yOu MoViNg tO hIM?!“. We‘ve been a couple for little over a year now and I am mostly in his home than in mine...but I still don‘t want to give up my flat, because it‘s nice and cheap for what it is! I am a mother and I’ve been trough the situation of having to live in a small room with my child at my sisters house. Also lived with my dad for a short period of time because I could not afford a flat on my own back then. I‘m -to that day- afraid of going trough this again! If I explain that to them then they just think about the money “But you would budget a lot more money by just moving to hiiiim?!“. Well I KNOW THAT! But I just don‘t feel good moving to my bf. It‘s not because of him....he lives in the same house as his brother (two different flats basically, but you have to share a lot with each other) - for example: His brother has to go trough my bf‘s flat to enter his own. Wouldn’t be a problem if his bro would be a nice person, but he‘s just an asshole!! And everybody knows that! For my bf to move out is not possible right now because he and his brother own the whole house 50/50 and they still have to pay credit off. Renting the flat is also not possible, because nobody wants to share his flat with some stranger walking trough. Renovation to build a proper separation in between those two flats? Not possible. Honestly! It was the dumbest decision for those brothers to accept the inheritance of their grandparents by taking over that fucking old house AND move in! The only possibility is to ask the bank to estimate the full value of this house and then ask his brother to pay him out with half of the value....but since that would be an unrealistic sum to pay, he would never agree to that! And here I am! Nearly forced to move into a house, which feels more like a prison, in which those two brothers are constantly hating on each other but being to greedy to pay the other out to finally have some piece!
Well I think we can agree on on thing: Venus is like that kind of friend you care about and want to help...but at the same time you don‘t want to hear the same shit all over again (especially when your words just hit a blank wall). Wasted energy for someone you can‘t really let go of...