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    • Clarifying How To Use the Report Feature   06/29/20

      Hello. I have noticed a great deal of confusion regarding how to use the report feature and what is expected regarding reports, so I am making a clarification announcement to users who may be unfamiliar with how the report feature works. Please note we have this rule regarding reports: 16.  Do report. Do not make frivolous reports (such as "I don't like this person"). Frivolous reports will result in a warning and possible ban. a. When reporting, please give a reason. Reports citing what rule the post is breaking and giving some information are way more valuable and will get the issue resolved faster. (Reports with no explanations sometimes require mods to go through and skim the entire thread to find out what's going on. Please save us time if you can). b. Don’t waste the mods’ time. Report people for breaking the rules, otherwise don’t report. [Rules in their entirety can be found here.] We also have a wonderful tutorial on how to use the report feature created by one of our former moderators which you can find here. In essence, we enforce the rules as they are written. In a rare occasion there may not be a direct violation but the user is still conducting themselves inappropriately and how we handle that is up to the moderators discretion. We do our best. We also encourage you to use the report feature to report posts that have been edited down to nothing or if you double posted and would like your double post hidden. Also, please note that we do not provide updates on reports. We get far too many to be able to keep up with every one. You are welcome to message a moderator to ask about your report, but please know that we cannot and will not divulge any information on whether we banned the user you are reporting. Simply that we have taken appropriate action. I hope this helps provide further clarification on how to use the report feature. Should you have any questions not clear in these instructions, please feel free to message me or Nyx. Thank you. *Please allow up to 3 business days (as we tend to be slower on weekends) for a response and for reports to be cleared.
    • Reputation Has Increased!   07/06/20

      Hello. You have been asking for it and it is finally here. We have increased the number of reputation given in a day from 25 to 50. We will see how well 50 works out and if that is enough. Please continue to provide feedback and we will reevaluate as needed. This change has been added to the site changes thread located here. Happy repping. Thank you.


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  1. damsonindistress added a post in a topic Texan In Tokyo   

    Their Linked In accounts are easily found through Google and I agree, they both have pretty good jobs all things considered. 
    All and all, I'm happy for them.  It seems to me that Grace was driving the relationship which could be why they're back in Texas but some people are okay with that and it seems Ryosuke is.  
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  2. damsonindistress added a post in a topic Mimei and Duncan (PDR-san)   

    I've been following her on and off for years and don't understand how she could be so ill prepared for this interview.  She could gain a lot of work by working her consulate/embassy (like a lot of the Canadian vloggers do) and it just seems like she genuinely doesn't any effort into the little bit of work she does do.   The designs of the sweaters look like a 10-year-old designed them, she nevers has any money when it counts, but overspends on the most ridiculous things.  I hope she gets it together soon.
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