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23 people are just "triggered"? Honey, wouldn't it be more plausible that what you said was just stupid and unnecessary? Eru said that he's a guy. That's possible. It's even possible that he was born female but identifies as male, how do you know? He has no reason to lie. Either way, male or female, it doesn't change the content of his posts. Trying to "call him out" for being female is just pathetic and useless. You don't need to be female to post in here.
Wow okay. First, I'm not making it a racial thing. Based on personal experience, men have approached me solely for the colour of my skin. I never said that they are ONLY attracted to white women because I know it's not the case. However, I can't speak for other ethnicities, I can only speak of my own experiences. I also specified in my post that NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT, so you're repeating something I've stated myself. I never implied that all Asian men are into white girls, and I have never denied that they aren't attracted to other skin tones.
Also, you're trying to pass me off as generalizing, but you're generalizing yourself. No, they don't necessarily stink of alcohol, they don't necessarily eat BBQ late at night, they aren't necessarily loud, and they don't necessarily go to KTV. I never said they "worshipped" my skin, I said that that's all they cared about when they talked to me. They only spoke about my skin being white and pale. I never said that they like me, I said that they just want to hang and have an easy lay. Does that sound like affection?
You're also generalizing by saying that guys stick with their woman and would marry a woman of the same culture. You're asking how many Asian men I've seen with a white or foreign woman as if it doesn't happen, when it isn't as uncommon as you think. You think that it's rare? Why? You can love someone truly regardless of their skin colour, so who's the one making this a racial thing?
I was replying to another comment about Christmas Cake Girl and how it doesn't apply to Venus because it usually applies to people of the same ethnicity, so no, it wasn't off-topic. My experience wasn't to brag, it was to support my opinion based on my own experience, because again, I can't talk for brown or black or anything other than what I am, which is white.
Valentine's Day is what you make it out to be. Like someone (sorry, it's on the other page so I forgot who said it) said, some couples go all out with the fancy dinner, candles, dressing up...others just want to chill in front of the TV with a bowl of mac n cheese and snuggling together on the couch. It doesn't have to be grandiose.
And if you're single, so what? Gather your other single ladies and have your own girls night out. Sure, Valentine's Day does feel good when you're in a relationship, but it doesn't have to be so bitter if you're single. I'm single. You know what I'm doing? There's this local pub that gives you 10 free chicken wings if you bring a picture of your ex and shred it in front of everyone. It blows off a bit of steam and that piece of shit just gave you free food.
EDIT: Oh wait, Queen of Aroace wouldn't have a picture of an ex. ...She can just bring some anime boy that she's sad that he isn't real.
When it comes to Japan (or Asia as a whole), it mostly applies to women of the same ethnicity. Japanese men don't care if you're over 25 when you're white, especially if you look young for your age. They're just happy to have the "street cred" of banging a white chick.
I've had quite a few offers from Chinese, Korean and Japanese men for me to be their housewife. They want "beautiful porcelain-skin children" with "their superior intellect" and show off their "foreign snow white skinned wife who can speak multiple languages". I wish I was kidding. I even received a "business" card once, referring to a website listing all the qualifications of becoming his wife. Another instance, the guy bought me pyjamas, slippers and a toothbrush as if he assumed that I'd move in with him after we had only talked twice. Disclaimer, NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT, of course, but the guys who are into this "Christmas Cake Girl" mentality are. And they weren't physically forceful, just really...motivated?
ON THE OTHER HAND
If Venus keeps slacking off on her hygiene, she won't have any problem at all.
Imo, at the moment, Kenna isn't interesting. But what surrounds/follows her is. Like the plagiarism - how she finally dropped a new video, but it's an off-focused DIY of "original accessories"...worn by Bree. It's like she thinks her followers (or "haters") don't follow her friends as well, so no one would notice. And I like how Bree is handling it - she isn't spreading the drama over social media. Either she let it roll off her back or she went to Kenna directly to hash out the beef, which is what Kenna should learn, considering her past mistakes.
Watching her attempts at crying "I have autism", although they aren't funny (mental disorders are nothing to laugh at), it's just nice to see how deep of a grave she can dig herself in. It's beautiful irony - she shares (somewhat) inspirational/educational posts, but knowing who she is and that she doesn't actually have those problems, it's just...pathetic how she tries so hard to find something that would put her in the spotlight.
Belle is dead. Complete silence, MIA, scamming people and deleting posts but not doing shit.
Venus is having a mental breakdown but it's just sad. I was rooting for her when she left her toxic mother, and now it's just...watching someone you hoped the best for swirl out of control down a pit.
Kenna? She has so many phases, so many controversies, so much stuff she gets called out on, so many condescending passive-aggressive unnecessary comments, her empty promises and petty behaviour...she's the gift that keeps giving.
I heard about a very similar story too, so it might all be lie. A very weird thing to lie about though. But hypothetically, if it were true, WHY didn't the assistant quit to work for someone else? WHY did she bring her kid around an abuser? And WHY would Venus even pose with an abused, scared little kid and post his face on social media?? Give the kid a damn break. You can comfort him with a hug without posting about it
Which is a good thing tbh. Karma's a bitch. Not only would her ego blow through the roof, but when (not even if) she'd say something snappy and condescending to an attendee, it would affect the convention's reputation. Rude guest = bad experience = negative view of the event. That was back when she had her boho-buddhist phase though, so she REALLY hit rock bottom since then. I'd really be surprised if anyone invited her to an event.
Though they did invite Venus...at least she isn't a shit person, but her mother was...something. A whole lot of something. I felt bad for her daughter. Which I also warned them about, but Special Guests wasn't my department so there's just so much I could do.
Also I'm cackling at the thought of Kenna reading these comments GIRL, YOU FUCKED UP.
Fun fact: I was staff for a local anime convention, and they wanted to invite her as a social media/influencer guest. I told them about her toxic behaviour, also showed the receipts, and they quickly withdrew the idea. It's astounding how she has no insight whatsoever.
I used to love Belle. Okay, maybe not love, that's a pretty strong word. I knew nothing about her, but I loved her style, back when she took mirror selfies with an actual camera. She had an aesthetic that I wish I could pull off, but she still motivated me to get back into wearing what I want and not try to blend into the crowd.
Then there was the cosplay drama that she whined about being cyberbullied. As a cosplayer myself, I saw the pictures when they were posted in the group, the comments (which were mostly constructive - they knew she was a beginner and gave her tips to improve) and her condescending replies. I told myself "Okay, she's still young, being condescending could be her defense mechanism".
But then I found out about how she sold nudes of other underaged girls, and she started spamming the ahegao face...obviously stopped liking her then.
Although she did get rich, I wonder if there's a small part of her who misses the days where her fanbase were mostly girls admiring her aesthetic, rather than pathetic horny incels.