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  1. katdr added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    ngl it's kinda funny when she posts a pic of yasu and she's like "he treats my like a princess, like I'm the air to his lungs, he's just the ideal Homo sapiens, I really was a Saint in my past live to deserve him❤️" and he's literally just sleeping and being like 🐸 

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  2. katdr added a post in a topic bestdressed/ ashley   

    it doesn't matter if we are younger than Ashley or poc or anything,it doesn't matter if we are virgins, or having one night stands 5 times a week. I don't feel the need to prove ourselves. while I feel like the first few pages are a bit nitpicky, the recent ones (shortly before the thread exploded) are very reasonable. that's valid criticism.
    while those Twitter user are fans of Ashley, I don't think it has any use to talk against them. they are so strongly convinced that Ashley has done nothing wrong. and like a few already pointed out, the personally identify them, so no matter what reasonable criticism we mention, they won't listen anyways, bc whatever it's posted here, they will see this as direct "hate" to themselves. so it think it's the best to just ignore them and not make her thread a chat convo between pull and Twitter. 
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  3. katdr added a post in a topic bestdressed/ ashley   

    "relatable" lol, Ashley is the opposite of that. bc it doesn't matter if you're funny or not, if you can relate to said things or not, but if someone scripts their entire video and repeat the same sentence 30 times, it doesn't feel real or relatable anymore. just like a TV show with bloopers. 
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  4. katdr added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 7]   

    lol let's be honest, her thoughts are not that complicated with character traits and houses. she's Harry Potter. she's the main character, so it's only natural that she's in the main characters house griffindor bc the world evolves around her 
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  5. katdr added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 7]   

    so true! cottagecore is in trend rn and it hasn't spread to other platforms (like yt) that much yet. she could milk that aesthetic until late summer bc cottagecore is also so pretty in summer, then, she should even do some autumn/winter preparation videos and then have the perfect transition to autumn.
    I never understood why she never did summer, bc it's the most popular aesthetic, since and people have vacation there and look forward to it, so summer aesthetic pages are super popular in late spring. and summer doesn't have to be the beach California aesthetic she has in mind (nothing against it, it's cool) summer can me even more picnics at a lake and early summer morning pics. but it seems like she never thinks about stuff like that 
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  6. katdr added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    my theory is that she was generally content and happy with hiro, that there was no need to show much on social media, aside from the occasional insta post and videos,while she's insecure in her current relationship and isn't sure herself if he even loves her (or she loves him) so she spams her story to convince not only her followers, but also herself that she loves yasu
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  7. katdr added a post in a topic General Koreaboo Thread   

    while I think there are some issues with Kaachi, it's unbelievable how people mock them and spread baseless lies about them. so what IF they're kinda cringe and kboo, it's not cool man 
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  8. katdr added a post in a topic General Koreaboo Thread   

    I think the 4th comment speaks my mind pretty well. they should call themselves idols, who are inspired by kpop, then people would not look at them with kpop expectations. and I think it would be pretty cool for other countries to explore the idol concept too, like Japan and China also have idols. idol could be the new genre
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  9. katdr added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    Oh god can that girl just shut the fuck up for one second about her autism? It‘s getting really annoying, as if her entire life and personality revolves around autism omg i cant stand it 
    i cant believe i was one of the people who believed her during her diagnosis. I didn’t want to risk to NOT believe in someone who actually has a real diagnosis. But she’s going way to far. I don‘t have autism myself and ofc i cant speak for people with autism, but people with disabilities or disadvantages in general usually dont want people to know about it. Like people want to portray themselves as useful or at least trying their best even with their disabilities. She’s always using autism as an excuse and its so fucking annoying. „I cant do that bc i have autism“, „I cant believe you let ME, someone with autism do that thing, even tho you know i have autism“ Autism here, Autism there, Autism story posts thrice a week, poems solely revolving around autism. Autism is her entire personality now. Tell me one thing that wasn’t about autism she shared the past months since der diagnosis. Yes, it‘s important for people to spread correct information and awareness about autism for people who dont have it to understand it better, but she is just the stereotype itself and is portraying autistic people as snowflakes who cant do anything themselves and use autism as an excuse, whenever something goes wrong. You MUST accept everything about her and cant criticize her, bc she has autism and everything you say against her is ableist and you’re in such a privileged position, bc she’s autistic. Can she just shut the fuck up about autism??
    She‘s portraying herself, like many in this thread already mentioned, as the most autistic person in this world, who can do nothing herself without. She cant even TALK, bc no one ever heard her talk or speaking normally. Her life is so difficult and she stays strong even tho she suffers from autism. But she’s an intellectual and stays strong and conveys her feelings through her poems, bc she’s such an oppressed academic. That girl just can go and fuck herself. oH no, how could i, the ableist,acephobic person forget? She cant fuck herself, bc she’s aroace and even mentioned this in a mocking way, even tho i know she doesn’t understand sarcasm. I‘m such a rude and bad ableist person from the core.
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  10. katdr added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    as much as I think that yumis content is not good and her "housewife" act is kinda pathetic, we must not forget that behind liziqi there's an entire team, making her videos, getting those (time-lapse) shots etc. and not everyone can cook from scratch like than, even less yumi. cooking from complete scratch like liziqi is even difficult for people who can actually cook. not saying I don't like liziqi. she's very hardworking which I admire so much and all independent and caring for her family. but I think it's unfair to compare both, bc she's on another level than yumi.
    but I really think yumi should become less dependent. It can be a drivers license or part-time job. maybe it's just my opinion, bc I Could never imagine living as a housewife, but it sounds terrible for me to life with someone and depend so much on them, who could drop you any moment. it gives me anxiety. 
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  11. katdr added a post in a topic General "non Asians pretending to be Asian" thread   

    not trying to wk, bc I don't know her, but I looked through her insta and I think it's not her goal to look realistic? I think she wants to look like an 3d video game/ digital art girl? it's obviously shopped, but I don't think she wants to pass as real with it? 
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  12. katdr added a post in a topic Michelle Moé   

    while I agree that she oversimplified the social construct and race, I think she did not say that there currently are 3 races, but all the races originated from these races (like years ago, before humans where actually not that developed) bc didn't everyone originated from Africa? I don't study any human history, archeology etc so I feel kinda weird talking about this lol. like after some pre Homo sapiens left Africa, they settled down in Europe and Asia. and the native Americans are originally, thousands of years ago, actually from Asia. (I don't know about Australians tho, bc I read somewhere that there are not 3,but 4 original races, which includes the native Australians, but idk tho)
    bc I was pretty sure she said ORIGINATED, but I could be wrong and just being a clown bc I'm too lazy to watch her video ago🤡 lol
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  13. katdr added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/Cozykitsune [Thread 6]   

    i think it‘s just people (youre right, mainly city folks) who are stressed with our fast paced society, so they romanticise the idea of an calm and wholesome lifestyle, without much technology and just a simple life. Life is fast and hectic and stressful for us all, so i dont really see anything wrong with it. I‘m into cc too the recent days and it really calms me down, bc life is stressful rn
    commenting on the aphantasia thing: it kinda ruins her entire aesthetic doesn’t it? I mean the the seeing tones in colors thing would have been a better self diagnosed thing, because isn’t the „I’m such a creative, kind soul. I love drawing, poetry, flowers and the simple lifestyle. I love creating new things and the ideas in my head never stop. I always daydreaming, sitting in my flower garden, drinking coffee, while waiting until new ideas comes into my mind, so i can type them down into my typewriter. I‘m autistic, i don‘t think or have the mindset of other people, im in my own world“ thing her brand? Like that creative artist, who is a genius and ideas come into her mind very easily, without much effort, cause she’s gifted. Saying she cant picture things in her head, doesn’t ruin that the whole „i live in my own world with my own unique ways of thinking“ image? But maybe i just dont understand aphantasia that deep lol
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  14. katdr added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    since this thread is full on on that relationship stuff with yasu, I want to mention that I'm genuinely happy that hiro is enjoying his time in america. he was such a chill dude 
    and maybe it's bc he was so chill, his and mikans relationship felt low and natural. he was cool 
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  15. katdr added a post in a topic joanneneko/smallicecoffee   

    I don't mind her kboo behavior as much as her attitude. she thinks she's r/notlikeothergirls and above all the other "white kboo sluts", even tho, she's exactly the same. 
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