yep, she's frustrated. I totally get where she's coming from and I agree with her 100% but still... I remember some vlogs right after Isaac was born where she said that one of their main problems in marriage was Tims unwillingness to help with anything. In this case it's not really his or her fault (just the way society sees parenting sadly) but lol I totally get Lindys anger about this issue. She's working her ass off taking care of the kids and when Tim decides to be a responsible father for once he's seen as this incredibly great dad. Nah.
Lindy tries so so hard to keep up her positive attitude that it's starting to look fake and pretentious. She was always more of the preachy kind but I feel like lately it's getting worse. There's nothing bad with reflecting on your own thoughts and trying to see the positive side to everything but I feel like she's doing less of that and more of covering up the fact that she's having actual problems. It's not "hey haha we're all not perfect but we try!" but instead "we are not perfect but I have to try. I want to seem perfect by admitting that I'm not" and it looks unhealthy to me. About the twitter thing: Somehow I completely skipped over the part where Tims friends left early. What did he do all night alone? So weird. I remember that someone commented on one of her tweets that they saw Tim with a woman and Lindy replied that it was probably some friend of his and linked that guys profile (it's not really active). Idk. Why tf would it take a whole night for you to go eat ramen with a friend. you're not even in a group of people anymore.
Did anyone else see the "drama" on her twitter from last night? Apparently Tim went out with his friends to have ramen at night but didn't come back until the next morning and lindy was up all night worrying bc he didn't even text her to say when he was coming home or that he was okay. Honestly idk what to think of this. She made it seem kind of funny in her posts but you could see that she was upset and imo rightly so. If you're a father of two little kids you don't just...stay out the night without telling your wife. She has enough to worry about without having to be scared bc her husband isn't coming back from a trip to a restaurant (!!). at the same time it was super weird to read about someones relationship drama like that. Lindy said that she would be nice to him but wanted him to stay up with her and take care of the kids together as she hasn't had any sleep herself (which is a great idea? Nagging him probably wouldn't help but this way he could at least face the consequences). But of course she let him sleep anyway lol. I really don't know. Tim is so irresponsible.
personally I don't feel to great about digging up someones personal life and trying to analyze every little piece of information we get (and she is in fact very private when it comes to her relationship. we never get to see that much). buuuut if my memory doesn't fail me, she said that one of the reasons they broke up was bc she wanted to travel a lot and he didn't want to or somethin like that. now that she is in germany we always see her on festivals or concerts with (or without) Matthias or in different cities all over europe.
I don't get how ppl see her as being unhappy? Whenever they both appear together they seem very comfortable with each other. I would actually love to see him more in her videos, they make a great couple in my opinion lol. As for her becoming "mainstream"...idk? Her travel vlogs are great and totally different from what you usually get to see. I feel like you could do only so many videos about goth culture before it has all been said. I guess most people watch her videos for her personality and there is more to that than just the goth lifestyle.
Ohhh my god I'm so glad I found this lmao I used to follow her in the past bc she was always so confident and positive and just a funny person. She seemed very honest about editing her pics and makeup but after a while I just couldn't stand her anymore. She's the typical german youtube who did nothing worth mentioning, ever. She was promoted by another youtuber and mainly did vlogs with other members of their so-called "gang" (basically a bunch of people hyping each other up constantly) but now that they have disbanded she got this...idk...super weird "I am so much better than all of you" vibe. Always tweeting shit about her being a lone wolf now, a fighter girl, how much she could say about the oh so fake yt world but she can't say it bc she would get in trouble...fucking annoying. Shirin really is trying to make a brand out of herself comparable to Kylie Jenner. Idk. It just rubs me the wrong way to see this woman talk about working hard and doing her best when she got pushed to the top right from the start and contributing absolutely nothing to her fame. Btw it looks like she might produce a song soon.
Thiss!!! I'm from germany and we always say that's the reason why dutch people are better in english than most of us. They usually watch the movies in english. Tbh I'm not sure if it's true but I believe in this statement since that's the way I learned english haha. 60% school and 40% movies and books and whatever. It's not hard at all to read subtitles bc you read them faster than the person is talking anyway. I never had that problem with not being able to pay attention and as far as I know no one who watches subbed stuff (aka ppl who don't speak english) has that problem either. so yeah I really don't want to sound mean but I feel like most of these people complaining are english speaking people being thrown out of their comfort zone for the first time lol
So many people complaining about her switching languages and threatening to unsubscribe... maybe it's bc my native language isn't english either but I feel like a lot of them are overreacing lol? As a non-native speaker you are pretty much used to reading all kinds of subtitles and I honestly don't think it hinders you from watching the real video at all. I actually support her decision since she's living in japan now and it just makes sense to make her videos accessible to japanese viewers. Idk I just think it seems really whiny but that's just my opinion + she should really try to make her nose contour more subtle
I had to skip through almost all of this video just bc it was so so incredibly hard to watch. But I have to admit I was laughing my ass off hooolyyyy shit. Hopefully she told the worker there what was going on bc otherwise...oh man.
I mean sure, it does make sense to bring a bit of "action" into the vlog by moving around. But wouldn't it be a better idea to actually...yk...do something?? instead of just changing places inside the same apartment? That wouldn't even be necessary if she would just cut her talking time in half and actually did interesting stuff most of the time. Even if it's not interesting (like a day at home) I feel like the rule of 'show, don't tell' still applies. All in all I didn't see this vlog as particularly 'cringy'. Some jokes were kind of funny, like the way she looked after saying that she was going to stalk Kim K and Kanye. I feel like small jokes like that fit her personality more than overused stupid memes that just scream 'this is totally not me but fuck it I need to be funny and relatable!!'
I laughed when she said that her boyfriend skips the parts in her vlogs where she just talks unless she "goes to a different location"....no...oh no honey no. It's not the location, it's the fact that you just talk too fucking much lmao.