Hi all, I paid the server bill for the month so the site can be archived, sorry for the mess, didn't realize there'd be such an uproar. The site's in read-only mode. Happy archiving. Here's a link to a user-made PULL discord server: https://discord.gg/vZFEm75
I’m getting my dnr ready and one of the questions is what you want to do with your body and now I’m questioning whether I should donate it to science or not. On one hand I feel like it’s the right thing to do, but I feel really uncomfortable with the idea of being cut open and someone rummaging around in me, even though I'll be gone. I know that my parents don’t want me to do it because it’s not the cheapest solution (you have to pay to donate in my country) so I’m not sure what to do. Are there any people on here that will donate their body to science? What made you decide to go for it?
English isn't that easy of a language. I feel like when people learn English a lot of people discredit them by saying "of course you learn English, it's such an easy language it's not like X-language" as if you can't be proud of having learnt English because again "easy, everyone can do it" Come on, English isn't that easy and you should feel proud! You learnt a whole new language that you didn't understand before. That's amazing! It's great! There are many people who struggle with it and here you are, reading it like a pro. I've always felt like such a failure because I only speak English besides my native language, but I really shouldn't. Yes a lot of people speak English, and since there is so much content out there in English it might be easier to keep up studying. Regardless, I still think that everyone who learnt English should pat themselves on the back. You learned another language and a lot of you are even at a near native level. There are so many monolinguals who don't even bother learning another language. So yeah. English isn't that easy and it's pretty impressive if you speak it well as a second language.
I miss Akmu, I feel like they dropped of the face of the earth. I know they have a new-ish album but I feel like they were more around before the brother enlisted. Like they're not getting a lot of promotion. Man, their old songs are amazing. They deserve more attention. I also kinda miss VIXX, even though I wasn't the biggest fan of their last songs.
I personally don't understand why you would move to Korea to have children when you have the opportunity to live in the UK. I don't know much about the school system in the UK, but to me it seems like kids actually can be kids there rather than studying 12 hours per day like they do in Korea and that the stress and pressure is also less in the UK? I'm sure that they could still study at a university in Korea with an English degree if they wanted to. I do get wanting to give birth there, since they have those after-hospital hospitals there where you can recover for a week or 2 and learn how to take care of your child.
Am I the only one who doesn't like the videos with Juno? It's not that I don't like kids or anything, I just don't think a 3 year old should be online that often. Plus she's 3, if you see 2 videos with her reacting to food you've essentially seen all of it. It' not like she has many insights and reactions. I do like how polite she is, it seems like her parents do a great job raising her. But I still don't think a child that's not old enough to realise what's going on and can't give consent should be in that many videos. I also wish KE would focus more on history. When they're in Korea it's always food and often the same food they've already featured. There are so many interesting musea and palaces they could make videos on. Like, make a video about the British during the Korean war, go to a palace and walk around like a king while explaining what a king would do in a day, go to a traditional Korean art workshop, etc Why is it always food?
I also agree that Gabie and Josh just see Korea trough pink coloured glasses. I feel like if they were to move there and have children there that they soon would realize that the UK wasn't so bad afterall. I don't particularly like Gabie. I can't quite put my finger on it why though. It's just the vibe I get from her. She seems fake in her videos. Like she tries too hard.
DKDKtv occasionally do that. They just released a video with an African-American about racism. I haven't seen it yet but I know that the guys always say their honest opinion, even if it's bad. They also talk about the general news in Korea and not just about kpop even though that's their main focus.
The musical theater community can be so incredibly overdramatic. If you think a kid using a Hamilton sound bite on tiktok without them knowing where it came from bothers you to the point that "they ruined your favourite show" you need to grow up real quick. It's always people who are too old to be that whiny that do that. Like dude you're 20, keep the drama on stage.
Is it that easy in America to get a therapist? Here getting an appointment within a few days with someone means that that therapist is shit because all therapists and especially psychiatrists are booked full for months and months. So I feel like she's either lying or her therapists is a bit sketchy
I think Yoongi is one of the most attractive men I've ever seen, I had a huge aesthetic crush on Leo from Vixx as well, but with him it really really depends on his hair lmao. For women, I love the look of Hwasa and Yeji from Itzy.
"People want to kill me all the time" Literally no one wants to kill you Bri. She's either trying to get people to feel sorry for her so they donate money or she's actually paranoid. With her mental health history I wouldn't be surprised at all if she's actually developing paranoia. But yeah, she's either hamming up her mental health issues or she's diving straight into a psychotic breakdown. I hope it's the former.
I'm sorry this happened to you, but I'm sort of relieved I'm not the only one this happens to. A few years ago we were meant to meet up and she cancelled last minute, literally 10 minutes before I had to leave, because she was sick. A few hours later she posts a picture on facebook with her best friend at the time at Ikea. I never want to feel like that again. I used to be in love with her, so that was quite the heartbreak. Every couple of days I'll sent her a "hey" on messenger and just get ignored. Not even left on read, she straight up doesn't check my messages. I feel so pathetic,desperate and as if I have no self respect, but she really is my only real friend. I can't cut her off because even though I'm not in love with her anymore, I still love her very much and cutting her off would mess me up completely. I know that sounds selfish. I hope you have friends you can count on! No one deserves to feel like they don't matter or they're only needed when someone else needs something. And you're definitely not the problem, I promise.
My only real friend is ignoring me again. She just stops messaging back at times. For days or even weeks. But then posts to facebook regularly. Then she would come back with "oh I've been in a bad mental place" but you still see them interacting with others and it's just.. What did I do wrong? Are they angry or upset by something I said? I just wish she would send me a "hey not doing great but I'll let you know when I feel better" so I don't have to worry she's relapsing with drugs. Or that she's doing just fine and ignoring just me specifically because I became too much again
The only bts thing I do nowadays is read ff to be honest because this fandom has some amazing writers lol (Though only au's. Like fantasy or crime au's where the only thing the characters in the story have in common with the real members are their names, their look and one or two basic personality traits. Anything that is meant to actually portray them realistically and where the plot is about their actual lives freaks me out so so much). Though even though I'm not really into the fandom and I don't particularly like all their new music, I will definitely still try to get tickets once they tour again.