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  1. nopancakes added a post in a topic Brianna Slaughter / holyterrainbri   

    Is it that easy in America to get a therapist? Here getting an appointment within a few days with someone means that that therapist is shit because all therapists and especially psychiatrists are booked full for months and months. So I feel like she's either lying or her therapists is a bit sketchy 
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  2. nopancakes added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    I think Yoongi is one of the most attractive men I've ever seen, I had a huge aesthetic crush on Leo from Vixx as well, but with him it really really depends on his hair lmao. For women, I love the look of Hwasa and Yeji from Itzy.
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  3. nopancakes added a post in a topic Brianna Slaughter / holyterrainbri   

    "People want to kill me all the time"
    Literally no one wants to kill you Bri. 
    She's either trying to get people to feel sorry for her so they donate money or she's actually paranoid. With her mental health history I wouldn't be surprised at all if she's actually developing paranoia. But yeah, she's either hamming up her mental health issues or she's diving straight into a psychotic breakdown. I hope it's the former. 
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  4. nopancakes added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    I'm sorry this happened to you, but I'm sort of relieved I'm not the only one this happens to.
    A few years ago we were meant to meet up and she cancelled last minute, literally 10 minutes before I had to leave, because she was sick.
    A few hours later she posts a picture on facebook with her best friend at the time at Ikea. I never want to feel like that again. I used to be in love with her, so that was quite the heartbreak. Every couple of days I'll sent her a "hey" on messenger and just get ignored. Not even left on read, she straight up doesn't check my messages. I feel so pathetic,desperate and as if I have no self respect, but she really is my only real friend. I can't cut her off because even though I'm not in love with her anymore, I still love her very much and cutting her off would mess me up completely. I know that sounds selfish.
    I hope you have friends you can count on! No one deserves to feel like they don't matter or they're only needed when someone else needs something. And you're definitely not the problem, I promise.
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  5. nopancakes added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    My only real friend is ignoring me again. She just stops messaging back at times. For days or even weeks. But then posts to facebook regularly. Then she would come back with "oh I've been in a bad mental place" but you still see them interacting with others and it's just.. What did I do wrong? Are they angry or upset by something I said? I just wish she would send me a "hey not doing great but I'll let you know when I feel better" so I don't have to worry she's relapsing with drugs. Or that she's doing just fine and ignoring just me specifically because I became too much again
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  6. nopancakes added a post in a topic General bts discussion   

    The only bts thing I do nowadays is read ff to be honest because this fandom has some amazing writers lol (Though only au's. Like fantasy or crime au's where the only thing the characters in the story have in common with the real members are their names, their look and one or two basic personality traits. Anything that is meant to actually portray them realistically and where the plot is about their actual lives freaks me out so so much).
    Though even though I'm not really into the fandom and I don't particularly like all their new music, I will definitely still try to get tickets once they tour again.
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  7. nopancakes added a post in a topic Unpopular opinions   

    I think there should be an "unpopular opinion: Kdrama edition" tread
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  8. nopancakes added a post in a topic Brianna Slaughter / holyterrainbri   

    DIdn't someone somewhat recently do a summary of all the shit she pulled someone in the reactions? Can someone link that in the first post? Because no one is going to read 400+ pages to find it.
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  9. nopancakes added a post in a topic Brianna Slaughter / holyterrainbri   

    What tattoo does she have on her right arm? I can't make it out. Are there any pictures of it?
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  10. nopancakes added a post in a topic Kpop scandals   

    As a bts fan, I don't think they're going to survive enlistment. That's why I'm so sad the tour was cancelled. I don't think they're ever going to tour as a 7 member group again. I feel like a lot of the younger Army are just going to move on to the next new group and for the older army (to which I belong) the interest ist just going to fizzle out I think. The maknae's will probably enjoy some success as sub unit or solo artists. I hope Jin eventual gets to go into acting like he wanted to.
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  11. nopancakes added a post in a topic Brianna Slaughter / holyterrainbri   

    She didn't bother to show up in class while she was living in Japan, I'm not surprised at all she skips zoom class as well.
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  12. nopancakes added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    I see, I guess I need to educate myself some more then
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  13. nopancakes added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    I was looking up something regarding comfort women and I get so angry at the Japanese comments under every video claiming that not one Korean woman was taken by force. That comfort women were a myth. That it's fake. That there is no proof. I fucking wish they end up with the same fate these women had to experience. I know that's a terrible thing to say, but there is no goddamn reason to be that ignorant. Yes your schools don't teach this, but the internet is out there for you to educate yourself on it. These people can go and fucking choke on a dick for all I care.
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  14. nopancakes added a post in a topic K-Vloggers General Discussion   

    Regarding international couples.
    I've seen so many video's pop up that are so weird but because they have a Korean dude in them they get views.
    Like this one Belgian girl popped up and she makes videos pretty much solely on dating her Korean bf. She recently made a video where she went shopping and is showing her new clothes off to her bf. Like what the hell? Why would you make that a video. And who watches those videos? No one would watch a video like that if her bf was Belgian as well, nor would she think of filming a normal interaction like that. But because he's Korean she films it and people watch it. That's so weird to me. 
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  15. nopancakes added a post in a topic Unpopular Opinions (K-POP Edition)   

    I think it's just some good old fashioned fun lmao. I guess it's only a thing with bg since photoshopping girls into boys is much harder.
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