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Yandere

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  1. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    I’m literally married to a Japanese man and have lived here for years but ok. You sound like the twitter user, gatekeeping who can use Japanese words or names  
     
    I AGREE with you that a lot of weebs are here in this thread as well talking about things they don’t know about like how cherry trees die if you touch them or how branches of the flowers don’t fall off, or assuming a bunch of things from weather, to how Japanese treat westerners, to what behavior is considered rude in japan, just because of what they read online or saw in anime. I have to bite my tongue half the time to avoid replying to them to correct them. This thread and the morena thread are just cringey sometimes  
     
    If if you haven’t lived in japan for an extended period of time you probably shouldn’t speak like you’re an authority on these matters. Like criticize Kenna but don’t bring in false facts. 
     
    Cant spoiler bc on mobile 
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  2. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    downvote me but I have a VERY hard time believing this person is actually a Japanese local. Gonna bet all my savings they were raised in America and visited japan like once. They type like a sjw Asian American talking about ”poc” and cultural appropriation and stuff. Japanese people don’t care or know about these terms. And this user is just as cringey as Kenna, she’s all obsessed with anime and Yaoi. And her rants about how cherry trees are some sort of “sacred, precious symbol of spring and honour and Japanese people pray to them” and crap is cringey. Ask any Japanese person about Sakura trees and they’re like “yeah they’re pretty, they’re ok I guess. Kinda usual for me since I live here so I don’t really pay them any special attention” like 80% of the (20-70 year old) Japanese students I have didn’t even go see them this year because they don’t really care that much about them like tourists do. A lot of the ones I know have also like broken off small pieces of them themselves, or wanted to, and I kinda had to tell them they probably shouldn’t. They’re not magical precious uwu sacred symbols or whatever. They’re just beautiful trees, and this person is more cringey than Kenna  
     
    Ranting, but it pisses me off when people who ALSO don’t know what they’re talking about rant at other people who don’t know what they’re talking about. 
     
    Ps. I don’t know where this rumour started that cherry trees are just going to disintegrate if you touch them but that’s not true. Lanterns and ribbons are tied in them for festivals, HUGE crows land in them, other animals play in them, it’s often VERY windy in japan and the trees are throttled by the wind, so I don’t think they’re just going to shrivel up and die at the gentle touch of a hand. 
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  3. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    right? She’s way too snarky/defensive ALL THE TIME. Like yes it sucks if people are sending you hate but just be better than them, she could have said something more like
     
    “Hey guys! Some people messaged me and expressed concern that I tied those fortunes to the cherry trees, and I just wanted to clarify that I didn’t touch the trees or tie anything to them. I just found the tree already like that and decided to take a photo of it!”
     
    And that’s just off the top of my head. It sounds a lot more professional and not so snarky. If she keeps being so sassy and rude it’s not surprising that she gets rude messages in return. You get back what you put out in the world, how is that for a quote. 
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  4. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    she said “I have HER blocked” so she blocked Kenna. And she said in her next reply that she found the no makeup selfie kenna posted on PULL. 
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  5. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    Honestly like everybody else said those clothes are NOT SPRING clothes. And somebody suggested maybe it’s still cold in tokyo, but it’s not. It’s been like 22-23 degrees Celsius for the past several days and very sunny. We’re all sweating even in summer clothes. Seeing those boots made me cringe so hard. My feet are sweating just thinking about wearing boots in 22+ degrees. 
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  6. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    A LOT of apartments in japan are layed out to have the front door to the individual apartment on the ground floor, a small space to take off your shoes and then immediately in front of that- a staircase to the rest of the apartment. Her apartment is likely quite small and basically just “one floor” except for the entrance at the bottom of the stairs. Probably only a kitchen area and one other room. I don’t know where she lives in Tokyo but a lot of my coworkers pay ¥60,000-¥90,000 a month. It’s definitely possible to get something under 1k USD but it will be very small, and farther from the station. If you live just outside Tokyo you can pay half that price or less, and get something like 3-6x bigger, and it’s just as easy to commute to Tokyo. Dunno what the deal is with people wanting to waste their money to live right in Shibuya or whatever. 
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  7. Yandere added a post in a topic Rant Thread   

    My period is almost a week late and I took a pregnancy test after it was about 5 days late (32 days into my cycle) but it was negative. My period is ALWAYS pretty much on schedule, like maybe 1 day off, RARELY 2 days off. But now it’s like 6 days late and that’s definitely concerning me. I track it on an application so I know my scheduled days, how late it is, my estimated ovulation date, etc. my cycle ranges from 26-28 days long and it’s currently been 33 days. I don’t feel any of the normal symptoms I feel that let me know it’s coming either. I usually get cramps and a backache a day before, but nothing all this week. I’ve had sex but we always use condoms and have never noticed any leaking or ripping or anything. I’m so nervous now. On one hand I was happy to see the negative result but I feel like I must be pregnant, I’ve never had a missed/late period before, this is the first time I’ve ever even taken a pregnancy test. I just feel ominous and worried now. If I’m not pregnant wtf happened to my period? Am I ok? I didn’t change anything in my life recently. I bought a package of two tests and just took the one test so far so I’m trying to wait until next week (about one week after the first test) to take the second one. But it’s all I can think about. All day I’m googling pregnancy symptoms, pregnancy tests, late periods, every time I go in the bathroom I wanna grab the test and take it (even though I know that would likely be a waste since it’s only been one day) 
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  8. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    you really don’t need to know ANY Japanese to be an English teacher in japan. Some jobs even prefer you don’t speak Japanese at all. ALTs don’t need any Japanese, they just assist the Japanese teacher, I work in an eikaiwa where you don’t need any Japanese. There’s a reason English teachers in japan are called “dancing monkeys” 
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  9. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    If she really wanted to stay in japan why can’t she just get a work visa for teaching English or something? It’s ridiculously easy to get a work visa for an eikaiwa or English school and it’s honestly not that much work. (And yes, although it states you need a bachelors degree, I know people who got work visas without a degree/x years work experience.) But maybe that kind of job isn’t special and luxurious enough for our qween. 
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  10. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    damn this is somewhat near my work. I could have seen her yesterday 🙈 (if that’s when the pic was taken)
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  11. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    I’ve been to a couple famous expensive foreigner friendly salons around the Harajuku/Aoyama area and looked amazing afterwards, and my hair was a bit damaged so they recommended treatments and definitely conditioned it if I didn’t pay for a treatment. I’ve also been to local more cheap hair salons and they always condition it or give me a treatment if I pay for one. 
     
    They do either or. If you get a treatment they don’t need to condition since the treatment is conditioning. 
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  12. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    Wow. Literally nobody is making fun of her “Natural hair texture” because what she has right now IS NOT her natural hair texture. NOBODY is going to retain their natural hair texture after several bleaches. Her natural hair was beautiful, and we all regularly admit that. We regularly talk about how her hair and natural curls used to be so beautiful. We are “hating on” her fried dry damaged NOT CURLY hair.
    Even MY hair is currently damaged right now but I’m trying to grow it out, using treatments, getting regular trims, not bleaching or dying it more (although I do use heat sometimes) and I ADMIT it’s damaged. I don’t know why she can’t just say it’s damaged. So many people and especially youtubers have had coloured bleached hair and talk about the damage from it. 
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  13. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    I’m on my way to work and I keep checking this page every 5 minutes. I don’t want to miss the big reveal! Come on Kenna. 
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  14. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    I have a hard time believing ANY hairdresser would even attempt to bleach or dye her hair in its condition. I witnessed a girl getting turned down by 2 hairdressers in a salon before because of her fried hair and hers wasn’t even as fried as kenna’s. I’m betting she’s just dying it brown again and hopefully getting a much needed trim and hair treatment. Although it is interesting how she’s making such a big deal about this and showing the paint pallet like she’s really changing it a lot. I don’t know what hairdresser would do that for her. 
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  15. Yandere added a post in a topic Simply_Kenna/cozykitsune [Thread 5]   

    I’m heavily betting she’s currently planning on getting a work visa or otherwise staying longer after her student visa. Although I’m not really sure WHY. Honestly most western people who live in Japan for at least several months or more get kinda sick of it once they have to actually live here day to day and it’s not just a holiday. Different cultural quirks and aspects of society or people here start to grate on you, just as they do in any country. 
     
    Not trying to say Japan sucks, but it’s not as utopian as people think at first. And ANY different culture can make you feel stressed out, and make you miss your home. I don’t even quite understand what Kenna even likes about Japan which makes me even more doubtful she’ll fit in here. She doesn’t seem to like the food, traditions or history, even architecture, not even traveling around Japan. I guess she likes the anime/ fashion? I’ve seen a lot of my coworkers and friends here get burnt out and return to their home countries because they get sick of Japan and miss home. So to stay here and really enjoy it you need some sort of strong connection and happiness here. I’m doubtful Kenna could do it, but she also probably won’t admit she was “wrong” about trying to move to Japan. She’ll probably pretend she’s happy. 
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