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I liked Kiss and Make Up, but pretty much only Dua Lipa's part lmao I think Lisa was the best one among BP, I mean she only sang a couple of lines and it sounded pretty ok, but I really can't stand Rose's voice on the chorus Jennie was meh. YG is dumb and doesn't care anymore i guess
I feel the same way! Also for Latinos (I've seen a lot of Mexicans specially) it's so common to hear "yeah, if I talked to my parents like that they'd whip my ass so hard/hit me with the chancla" or worse. Like, as a South American myself, I always find it so baffling when my friends talk about this as if it's normal, to be tretated like that as a child. I've never been hit by my parents, I was a pretty quiet girl growing up, and my parents who told me they were hit and punished by their parents didn't want to inflict that to me and my brothers, so I guess I was lucky, but it shouldn't be that way as if it was a privilege?? Like, why is child abuse so normalized in hispanics and asian households? I don't understand.
I haven't been lurking PULL as usual for a couple of days since the news.... I should have expected for people to be talking about it here too though SHINee is my whole life. They were the reason I stopped self-harming all those years ago, the ones who got me out of my anorexia and bulimia problems and depression and taught me how to love myself. They helped more than any pill or visit to psychiatrists or theraphy. This has been so hard. I broke down so many times already, I had so many bad thoughts... I considered following him too... I won't though. I still have other four reasons to live: Jinki, Kibum, Minho and Taemin. They need us, I can't stop worrying about them. They should be feeling ten times worse than Shawols, so we should be strong for them. Just watching that clip of Minho hugging the people who came to the funeral hall and tried putting on a reassuring smile for them, in spite of his swollen eyes.... it was enough for me to try. At least it made me eat a little just now. Depression sucks. I just want to believe Jonghyun became the angel he was on earth. It's sad that people only now are giving him the recognition he deserved. But it's better than nothing. So please, listen to his songs, the music he composed and wrote, his feelings and emotions in his beautiful lyrics. It's still hard for me. Jonghyun-ah, I'm sorry I can't listen to your voice now, it still pains me. Just give me some time, I will be blasting your songs on full volume like I used to and telling people about you and what you did for this world. I'll never forget you. You worked hard, you did well, Jonghyun. I love you.
....I'm sorry this got so personal, I didn't mean to. I talked to so many people already, I've written messages and letters for him, but it seems there's still a lot in my chest.