People say we accept venus's shit because of her past but the fact is that kid is STILL struggling. it's not like she left her mother and is living a perfect life now. She is still dealing with some really hard stuff. My heart goes out to her.
I'm sick of being forced to stay at home all summer long not even being allowed to go for a walk. I'm sick of this country and it's crazy rules and I'm sick of all those crazy people telling me that I'm crazy because I don't enjoy being shut in my room until I die or marry some shitty man who wants me to stay at home 24\7. I hate being a prison because of my family and the government.
I don't understand where kenna got her inferiority complex from. She's a pretty girl and her skin is normal and pretty (as in in society standards since girls tan their skins to look just like kenna's normal skin color). I'm seriously starting to think that she's so illogical that she doesn't realize what's is even considered pretty (hence the alien face she edits herself to)
I used to be like that but I don't have bpd nor do I have bipolar disorder. I thought I might have one of these two because of how much my state changed all the time but that was more about anxiety\depression than any other thing. Dealing with trauma can have the same affect as having a personality disorder or bipolar because you're okay till you start thinking about all the horrible things that happened or why you're a horrible person because of them then you become sad and overwhelmed. Abuse do cause bpd sometimes, but you can't diagnose someone with bpd just because he can't regulate and deal with his feelings. trauma can do that on its own without developing a personality disorder.
I don't think it's a good attitude to have. A good attitude would be something like: " I won't let last week get me down. I got this. I'm going to become better and I will work for it ". Going to fantasy land where you're "completely okay now and don't care if you became fat at all" isn't a good attitude when dealing with mental health issues. You need to understand your reality and accept it before you could fight it.
Why the hell is she giving people advice? she literally been suicidal last week I hope she could just drop the " I'm changed! I'm better! I'm okay!" mentality and go to a therapist and start healing for real.
How do you claim to be a loving caring mother but end up hating your daughter that much? I have known mothers who have been abused to a great extent by their kids and even those mothers wouldn't go to this extent to punish their own kids and bad mouth them because they loved them (at least as they grew up) and they are stable grown ups who can take their shit to therapy and close friends instead of instagram.