It's implied " Venus is SO intelligent. I don't know many other people that could have dealt with such abuse " it means that venus is so intelligent because she could do that, which means that people who couldn't do that are less smart because if they were so intelligent they would have done that.
I don't want her to get education because she she is wrong for staying in home. I want her to get it because: 1. She might really need it in the future. 2. She's smart and she could really benefit from it and help with it. 3. She seems like the kind of a person who would use education to make healthy long term goals (which is more doable with education that with cooking) 4. I think she would have wanted it for herself and her mother is the reason she couldn't get it.
Look, venus is smart but saying that people who couldn't deal with abuse to the point of living a full life aren't smart I don't think is correct. like venus doesn't have to go for a real job. yeah youtube can be hard but dealing with anxiety and depression while working a 8 hours job or taking 5 courses isn't the same. dealing with abuse alone is different than dealing with it with a husband and friends. dealing with abuse while going to therapy and being financially well isn't the same is dealing with abuse without money or therapy.
it's different for everyone. in their psychology and the abuse they dealt with and with the support system they have.
If you have told me 3 years ago that I would feel this way I wouldn't believe you But I totally love venus right now! Shame she didn't continue her education because she's so mature and smart she could do so much more.
She talked about going to therapists, getting help from friends, changing her mindset and working hard to be healthy. how is that bratty? she didn't get diagnosed with an ed what do you want her to do? diagnose herself? Imagine if I came here and said: " well, therapists said I don't have a personality disorder but they said I have some unhealthy behaviours. but what do they know? I'm sure that I have a personality disorder. to hell with professionals. didn't you see my youtube channel comments? " how does that not sound wrong to you? why do you want her to diagnose herself?
Yes she did. I have a feeling she will make her patreon a personal space for them to reach her and not about videos. edit: her goal is 2000$ and then she will make a video upon request lol. clearly her patreon is about paying for content: " I will be posting exclusive content here, including things like sneak peaks of videos and early access to vlogs. I'll be very grateful for any contribution you make towards my dream of making better videos. "
sharla' situation is different: 1. she has no "real" job and no kids or anything like that. 2. it brings her money to go to these places because of youtube. 3. she wants to go to these places 4. they so much more fun than museums (as a general statmenet) 5. she wasn't born in this country. she moved to it because she wanted to live a life of exploring this country
I didn't say she made the rules. I said that the group of humans she belongs to (aka: people who make poor people look like greedy lazy people) are one of the reasons people refuse to help poor people because they think they are just being lazy. They are one of the reasons we have this culture that poor people are just not working hard enough.
people like sharla are one of the reasons why poor people can't get the money they need unless you can't find something to eat or a place to sleep or treatment for an illness .. etc you shouldn't be asking money from people. wth is wrong with them? I cannot even comprehend the idea of spending all of this money on myself. like there are so many things you can donate to help with. even simple things like making people you love happy. why would you go and buy a 3242 toys for yourself?
well, now we know she can't achieve everything people can achieve academically as people thought. It makes sense when I think about it now. they want more than just someone who would study a lot. why does she act like she chose the least traveled bath? and why do they keep lying and saying that it's better to not go to oxford when they just wanted to go there?