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  1. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Pretty Pastel Please   

    I wanted to share some of my opinions on Alex because I really do like her but I'm beginning to have mixed feelings about her.

    I think it's more envy than anything else because she gets literally $500 to spend on YesStyle every month but never really understands how coordinating works? I'm not sure how she can review all of these clothes, see the inspo photos for these clothes, and still rarely get it right???

    Also about her Lamoda video, I think I misunderstood something. She obviously chose these shoes and had them shipped to Japan (kinda weird but whatever), so why didn't she bring clothes that she knew would match?? It's not like Lamoda chose for her and then shipped them over. I'm sure she knew that the website has a grungy and edgy style of shoes available (apart from those pink mary janes) so why... bring... 9/10 kawaii-style clothes??? Why go out and BUY more things to match? How did she lug all of that back home? So many questions.
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  2. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Ok, yikes. Personally she sounds like she's literally about to cry. If she has left Splenda, thank god. I hope she gets her life together and makes content she enjoys, and finds someone (around her own age!!) that she loves.
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  3. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Pretty Pastel Please   

    I am very torn about Alex. On one hand, I'm wondering how she feels about owning loads of cheap pastel clothing and nothing of great quality. The haul videos are entertaining if I want to turn my brain off for a bit, but also I just feel a bit weird about her ex and fiance living together with her. It's so weird. I can usually respect someone's choices if they're not hurting anyone, but goddamn... I could never. It doesn't matter if her ex and fiance are friends, and that her ex has a girlfriend, it's still weird! I think Sam is a nice enough guy, but if it were me in this situation I would have asked him to move out the moment he got a girlfriend. Perhaps even sooner.

    I really don't mind Archie though, the subtitles she puts for him are still pretty funny. However, that doesn't make me change on my opinion that Alex's living situation is beyond weird.

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  4. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    That's what I thought too, but also, why?? At least dress a little sleeker if you're trying to emulate the look of a car show model. She kind of just looks like a cheap sugar baby in all of those Taobao reseller clothes. 

    Also, who let Yuhan pose in front of their car??
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  5. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Well, back when she did sewing/DIY videos I thought of her as being the weeb that sewed weird looking clothes so this is a step up. Kinda.
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  6. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Like others have said, he's probably Splenda's work buddy. I didn't watch the video, but I can safely assume no one who actually knows Yumi would willingly hang out with Yumi regularly and be her friend. Unless they'd want to be her photographer, that is. 
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  7. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Yumi actually has a friend? Outside of Splenda? When did this happen??
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  8. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Normally, Splenda's pokes at Yumi are pretty funny and even if they are a little rude I can get past them. But when he said things like, "wow your makeup actually looks GOOD" and "you're actually beautiful", I was a little hurt. I don't think this is me being sensitive, either.
    I don't like Yumi, but if my boyfriend said something like that to me so directly I'd be really upset. If my boyfriend thinks something doesn't suit me, he doesn't say anything unless I ask. No loving boyfriend or husband should exploit their girlfriend or wife's lack of understanding a language because they find it funny. She doesn't deserve to be treated like that, whether she understands his jabs or not. God, I'm so annoyed with him, and he's not even my husband.
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  9. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Guys I am SCREAMING. Splenda's reaction to hearing how she has ex-boyfriends just made my day. All of us here had a feeling Yumi was hiding a bunch of stuff from her past, and now that she's in China maybe some of it will be revealed. Probably not, but we can hope. 

    Man I'm so ready for this.
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  10. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    splenda is the only one in her damn life that can make her stop wearing these kinds of clothes yet he validates her and condones it smh 

    he could help her improve but chooses not to
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  11. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    on a more serious note though... i'm surprised someone like this sponsored yuhan. probably never again though as in this video she talks about her ear getting infected, and referring to ralph lauren as just "ralph" made me giggle like she knows ralph lauren personally
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  12. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    I own those shoes in ivory, I got them from Taobao maybe two years ago and they're awful. Awful quality, and hard to stand on because the shoe isn't level. She'll quickly learn that they're impossible to walk in when she takes a step outside. At the time I thought they were gorgeous, but I'm pretty sure they're a Liz Lisa knockoff. I could be wrong though /:
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  13. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    why would you ever in a million years go out with a peel off mask. why is splenda suddenly making his comeback? why did she ask him to tell her where he put the leftover mask peel???
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  14. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic katieaegi   

    i don't want to remember this yet i do so well
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  15. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    You know, usually a video like this wouldn't annoy me so much, but this one has succeeded. She mentions in the start of the video that this is one of her closets. She has taken over a master bedroom's closet with just her costumes. If she has taken over all of the other closets, where does Splenda put his stuff? Does he have a storage room to himself apart from that one office he has? It seems like every room is just Yumi's. 

    Something else that also struck me as weird was how she has multiple wedding and prom dresses. Why???????? Why do you hoard all this shit????? I mean, I know I'm preaching to the choir here, but she's really gone off the deep end.
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  16. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    This is a Chinese video, but someone in the comments section translated some and said that she's living in her parents' house for the moment. Is she just visiting or is the tension building between her and Splenda? I don't even know anymore.
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  17. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Does she mean: pastel goth?
    Before I even watch the video I'd like to say she looks great before she even does anything to herself.
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  18. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    Seeing this honestly shocked me. I didn't watch the full video (because why), but she should know better than to act like she doesn't know what's going on with Trump. She's an immigrant, and everyone knows how Trump feels about immigrants (legal or otherwise). I knew she would take the piss on some touchy topics, but this one hits so close to home for so many of her viewers. It's disgusting how casual she is about this.
    Yuhan, have several seats.
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  19. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Waveya   

    One thing that struck me as odd was the fact that people found their dad's instagram and starting commenting all over his feed about how handsome he and his daughters are. I don't know about you guys, but that's really creepy. I wonder how their dad feels about the reputation they've built up over the last few years.
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  20. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Waveya   

    The way I had understood Jin and Hai's departure was that maybe the sisters were testing the waters to see how good they performed. Because Jin and Hai struggled, they let them go after their performance in Macau in 2014. Hai clearly was just happy to be there and able to dance even if she wasn't that good. I don't know about Jin, because she was expressionless 90% of the time. The sisters probably had their ego built up to the point that even if they trained them, the trainees would never be as good as they considered themselves to be.
    I don't know if many people remember what the girls looked like so here's a picture in spoiler for reference:
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  21. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Waveya   

    I've only been following them since 2012 (Gangnam Style era), but I can say they've downgraded a lot since losing every member except themselves. Their self-choreographed videos are the same moves just in different order, their outfits are the same, and there's so. many. closeups.

    It seems like they take every idol choreography and make it sexier...? I can't find the video I'm thinking of, but there's one (or more) that just have closeups of them shaking their ass around even when it doesn't fit the choreography. I like learning dances from them because there's usually no distracting closeups that make it harder to learn, but now I can't because it's not even the official choreography. It pisses me off.
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  22. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    but like... what was the purpose of doing this? she was scrubbing it around after peeling it off of her eyelids and i'm sure it must've gotten into her eyes...

    also: how was this a challenge?
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  23. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    this dress she's wearing looks cheap as hell. yumi get splenda to buy you some better quality clothing... he's bought you bodyline once, which is better than what you wear now.
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  24. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    I know everyone's said this before, but she looks SO cute at the beginning. Just laid back, cute sweatshirt, no makeup. She looks so down to earth.

    It's when she added the white under her eyes, that's when she started overdoing it (for me, personally).
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  25. butwhy.jpg added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    I may be outing myself to her (if she lurks herself, and not Scotty) when I say that that was me igniting the flames about her precious hanfus. She didn't even try to refute any of my other claims. One of the videos that she linked was of people wearing hanfu for CNY. This woman will never learn.
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