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  1. Risa added a post in a topic Jvloggers general discussion thread   

    She lost quite some weight and I think she learned her angles a bit. I also think she did something with her lashes, but I don't think she had permanent work done. (I remember she made a video about getting heavier treatment for her skin, but nothing about actual surgery)
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  2. Risa added a post in a topic Sharla in Japan   

    I get where you are coming from, but  as someone from Middle Europe I find this generalized view on multicultural relationships kinda funny. Not saying it doesn't happen that people marry to get a foot in their favorite country here (it definitely does). And some couples definitely can't get over their cultural differences! I also think some marry earlier than usual to be able to live with their SO, but I know plenty of multicultural relationships where people just met and liked each other and eventually married (just like any other couple). Many of them meet through work or university. (I agree though that depending on the cultural background it can be more or less difficult)
     
    As for the three couples you mentioned... I'm not sure if these three are the best examples to compare each other.
    I doubt Taylor is ever going to divorce her sleazy, gross husband and leave her wealthy lifestyle. But even if she does, it's because of his work, not because they are from different cultural backgrounds.
    Venus likes girl.
    The only one of these three I could see separating from her husband because of cultural differences is Sharla. But even here, we don't know.
     
    Back to topic: I feel so sorry for Sharla. Her video was so emotional and it's so rare to see he her so openly sad. I hope things will turn to the better for her soon. And I'm glad she made the decision to move back to Japan and live somewhere close to her friends and in a country she loves. I just find it so sad that she had to leave her cats behind.
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  3. Risa added a post in a topic Eugene Lee Yang   

    I'm so so about him. I do think he looks good. It's kind of... I don't know... the strong cheekbones, the body, the hair etc. He is very fotogenic and looks good on camera in general. I do find his attitude laidback and cool sometimes, but he is going overboard recently and sometimes he comes off as way too arrogant. However, I do believe that he is deeply insecure inside. When I watched that plastic surgery video, he really looked shocked when the doctor told him he wouldn't change anything about his face. I don't think he only pretended to be in disbelief.
     
    One thing I have to commend him for though is the latest episode of the Try Guys. The dog-swap video. It was incredibly awkward to watch in general, I think. I mean, Zach seems to dislike dogs except for his own. Keith doesn't seem to like dogs at all, and didn't even participate in the dog-choosing process, until it was quiet Emma's turn. And Ned wasn't too excited either and he kept complaining throughout the whole day (I mean, what kind of complaint is: Oh no, Pesto eats Bean's food.!?) Also I am absolutely with Maggie on Zach: Bean sensed Zach's energy. At the end of the day most of them did work their way towards their new dogs, but it was a bit painful to watch until that moment *lol*
    Eugene was the only one who put effort into bonding with "his" dog from the first moment on and making the best out of the day, even considering the dog's actual lifestyle needs. (also kudos to him for having rescued his dog Emma, despite her having several emotional issues. He also didn't seem too comfortable to handing her over to someone else)
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  4. Risa added a post in a topic Sharla in Japan   

    I have the feeling she felt a bit bored with Japan - she lived there for years after all, and I guess the initial excitement wore off and she wanted to see something new. So accompanying her husband to Korea probably felt exactly like the change she wanted. But once there she probably realized that Japan feels much more home for her and that she truly likes it. She seems to cherish every travel to Japan at the moment and enjoys her time there. Her Japanese content hasn't been that interesting for years.
     
    If she and her husband broke up, I feel sorry. No matter what and how, it has to be quite hard then. Leaving such a long relationship is never easy.
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  5. Risa added a post in a topic Kim Dao   

     
    Please tell me that I'm not the only one who thinks this has nothing to do with Marie Kondo's style of tidying up? I just watched one or two episodes of her show, so I don't know for sure, but that's not what she is trying to teach? To me it seems more like Kim is just going through her clothes and tidying up a bit.
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  6. Risa added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    I've just watched her newest video where she talks about what kind of college she goes to and although we can discuss now if it's a good college or not, I think it's good that she is doing it. I mean, at lesat she is doing something. And she seems to be very passionate and happy about getting into her college.
    A brief summary of the video:
    She says she had to take the N2 exam at entrance exam. She also mentions that her class is going to be entirely in Japanese and that she deliberately didn't go for an English college, because she wants to say in Japan for longer and be able to properly communicate. She also talks about how she doesn't want to live in a European/English bubble, but integrate into society.
    She also talks about colleges in Japan in general, and it pretty much matches up with what you guys said on this thread. How there are universities which are considered as a waste and others which are considered as so good that it doesn't even matter what you study there. She says her college is known as being good. (I'm very curious which college she will attend. Does any of you have ideas?)
    The entrance exam she did, was the N2 exam, something to write (she said it was fairly easy, but she tried hard to use as many kanji as possible) and a group interview (groups with three), where they asked her questions about why she chose the outfit she is wearing, what she finds easy and difficult about living in Japan etc.
    She also says she hired a tutor.
     
    As for the money, she says, she got promoted in her job, and saved a lot of money (apparently she saved half of her paycheck every month), the rest of the money she needed she lent from her mother.
     
    I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm beginning to... kinda like her. I did call her out for her attitude a lot, but there are things about her I kinda like. Also I appreciate that she isn't salty towards her 'haters' (unlike the original jvlog clique, and I'm not even talking about only Taylor. Just look at Micaela...) but rather tries to prove us wrong by actions.
     
    I just wish she would stop to shoop her images in such a ridiculous way.
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  7. Risa added a post in a topic Jvloggers general discussion thread   

    Taylor B posted a video about how she lost weight during the last year. Good for her btw. She looks so happy.
     
    Also I'm really like the new little clique Kelly has surrounded around her. Marianna makes decent videos imo and I am also enjoying Kelly's content a lot recently. I do think she tends to romantice Japan and living there sometimes, but I still enjoy watching her videos. She seems to put a lot of effort into her videos and into her life in general.
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  8. Risa added a post in a topic Safiya Nygaard   

    No, I literally said to like a tweet is something different, because you often just scroll your feed, see something and can put yourself in that position. But to comment on it and show your support is a different issue. Saf has a huge following, she is not new to this, she seems to follow Taylor. There is also a difference to showing support on a random tweet and something which is related to a controversy.
    And btw, I don't think we are required to do homework, we are not a youtuber with millions of followers, youtube and being an influencer is not our job. But Saf should be smarter than that. It's her image and her credibility.
     
    And before someone calls me a hater, on page 2 of this thread I posted a comment in which I stated how much I like Safiya and her content.
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  9. Risa added a post in a topic Safiya Nygaard   

    The thing is: If she just liked Taylor's tweet... okay, fine. I mean, a lot of people scroll through their social media feeds and randomly like all kind of stuff, without reading all of the details. But responding to it and showing support to Taylor means she read it properly and identifies with it. Which leads to the point: Did she not wonder what this is about? Wasn't she wondering what happened that Taylor receives such a backlash? Did she not at least try to understand what's going on? That's a few minutes of online search, and normally people with such a big audience do that.
    So either Saf knew what's going on and didn't care or she is stupid af.
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  10. Risa added a post in a topic Taylor R - videos #2   

    What a mess.
    She went from someone who some of us thought maybe looked away from the problem, couldn't face it, was a victim herself, to someone who excuses, enables and supports the whole controversy.
    I also find it very appalling that her followers don't see anything wrong with what's going on. Also I had to chuckle slightly at the comments from them how karma will hit her haters. Karma? What about Taylor's karma then? She is the trophy of a creepy man, who is older, more powerful than her, sketchy and who she is 100% dependent on. Sure, her youtube career will probably be going for a few more years. But imagine Taylor in 20 years... it's a sad image.
    A lot of youtubers seem to think they are actual stars, while in reality only a specific audience knows them. They don't get hired for highly paying acting jobs, they don't win a Grammy or an Academy Award or even the Razzie, they don't have their songs played in radio. Sure, vidcon is a thing and some big youtubers do have fans and are popualar, but with a lot of them it's nothing of substance. Only a very very few of them are very popular beyond youtube and the audience that watches them. But most of them are just as much nobodies as everyone else. And even if they are popular, their popularity is only short-lived. I've realized that the more followers a youtuber has, the worse their content and personality gets. I had to laugh when one person reacted to Safiya's twitter comment with "two legends". I like Safiya. But she definitely isn't a legend. Sophia Loren is a legend, Meryl Streep, but Safiya and Taylor? *lol*
     
    On another note, in case you want to make an extra thread about MC, I found some of Ew-san's responses and screens from MC.
    https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/3785-taylor-and-elbow-san’s-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=418883
    https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/3785-taylor-and-elbow-san’s-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=414255
    https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/3785-taylor-and-elbow-san’s-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=414304
    https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/3785-taylor-and-elbow-san’s-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=415733
    https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/3785-taylor-and-elbow-san’s-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=415856
     
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  11. Risa added a post in a topic Safiya Nygaard   

    I really like her, but now I'm like... >> She had to defend Taylor out of all after the whole controversy. It's such a downer.
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  12. Risa added a post in a topic Kim Dao   

    Her content is extremely stale at the moment, even for her standards. I mean, I am actually even confused about the "timeline". Is she still in Japan or are these videos from around Christmas or from fall? All her videos are the same right now, so I can't even tell them apart anymore or check from which trip they are. She just posted another Universal Studios video...again.
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  13. Risa added a post in a topic Yumi King Videos   

    You know, despite all the criticism, I have to say: In a weird twisted way it seems that Yumi is trying to shape her content and channel (hanfu, China, conventions, married life etc.) She is just not very good at it. Also the thing she lacks most is: She definitely needs to work on her online persona. When you think Yumi King you think cheap, taobao, tacky, married to old dude, walking ad for tacky stuf (she did however get rid of the ddlg image, I think). She definitely needs to work on how she presents herself and what you associate with her.
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  14. Risa added a post in a topic mikan.mandarin   

    I surprisingly liked the video. I mean, I'm not into the kawaii style, but I can see how her viewers would find this video helpful. Some outfits were actually nice (some however were combined awfully). The only issue I have is that it would have been cool if she showed more variety. She says pants can't really be "kawaii" (and she only showed one outfit with pants), but it would have been interesting to see her try. Or see her try outfits with longer skirts. She is very thin, but not everyone is going to feel comfortable wearing such short skirts.
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  15. Risa added a post in a topic Oshare Girl   

    I'm not sure if I get it... What's cringy about this? Her typos? Or the photo? It's a pretty normal question...
     
    I agree with rootbranch by the way. She is a normal girl doing normal things in Japan and just living her life there. Why should she stop doing vlogs? I mean, this is starting to get ridiculous! Sure, her content can get repetitive, especially since she participated in vlogmas and vlogtober, and she obviously doesn't have enough interesting stuff to show for two months of daily vlogging. But which vlogger, who also has a normal job, actually has 24 interesting vlogs for vlogmas? (I followed some jvloggers for vlogmas but didn't watch all of their videos out of that reason) By that logic 70% of vloggers should stop vlogging.
     
    I get how some are annoyed at her for using Japanese husband in her title. But other than that I think some of you are just reaching.
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